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Isabelle and the Backyard Fairy’s

Isabelle and the Backyard Fairy’s

          Welcome to the Enchanted World of our Backyard Fairies Legend has it that a Fairy (Faerie) is a Mythical Being with Magical Powers.  They appear in Human Form, and can have a penchant for mischief, and trickery.  The Fairy is 

Fun Izzy Foods

Fun Izzy Foods

          “Izzy, Breakfast! Izzy, Snack! Izzy, Juice! Izzy, Lunch!” Tutu Sometimes breakfast is as quick as fresh Blueberries, String Cheese, Banana Muffin, Celery with Peanut Butter, and Crinkle Cut Carrots ——————————————————— When Isabelle was born and I started becoming her main 

Strawberry’s and All Things PINK!

Strawberry’s and All Things PINK!

 

 

 

 

 

Welcome to Strawberry’s and All Things PINK!

Dried Hibiscus Flowers 

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Pink Fudge with Dried Hibiscus Flowers

The Hibiscus Flowers are Sweet and Tangy, Almost like Gummy’s

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I have been eating lots of Strawberry’s this year, and loving all things PINK so I thought I would start a website page depicting those very things.  Perhaps this is my hangover from the Barbie movie that came out a few years ago?  I still haven’t seen it at this writing, May, 2025.  I’m sure I’ll get to it eventually, but you don’t have to love Barbie to appreciate all things PINK!  

Each season seems to have it’s favorite food colors.  Pink seems to represent Spring and Summer to me.  

Pink also tends to taste good!  I hope you will think so too.  🙂

Welcome to the Pink Kitchen,

Julie

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Simple Pink Fudge Topped with the Hibiscus Flowers

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Hibiscus Flower Impressions

(Recipe Down Below)

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My Pink Pajama Cocktail

Garnished with Strawberry’s and Enjoyed with some Dried Hibiscus Flowers

(Recipe Down Below)

 

I LOVE My Pink Pajamas!

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Strawberry, Jalapeno and Tomato Salsa

Eaten and Enjoyed with a Cream Cheese and Jalapeno Salt Spread onto a Toasted Baguette

(Recipe Down Below)

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Recipes Start Here

My craft foam flowers, some special things, along with my vintage Hawaiian Hibiscus plate.

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Pink Fudge with Dried Hibiscus Flowers

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I found these Dried Pink Hibiscus Flowers at Sprouts and knew that I had to try them. 

Turns out they are quite good.  Almost tastes like a Gummy.

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It was last Christmas, 2024, that I made some really great and easy Fudge. 

I came across the recipe in one of my cookbooks.  It was so easy!  Delicious too!

I grew up in the south and when we would go to the mountains we would always come across these old timey fudge shops.  Whether we were in Dahlonega, Georgia, Cherokee, North Carolina, or Gatlinburg, Tennessee.  We always bought the sugar-free Peanut Butter Fudge.  We would keep in in our rooms in our lodge and snack on it most every night.  It was a treat!  That is how I view sweets.  They are treats.

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Ready to Make My Pink Fudge

Ingredients:

4 Cups White Chocolate Chips

1  Cup Sweetened Condensed Milk  

1/3 Cup La Lechera Dulce de Leche Milk Based Caramel

(I wanted to add this to this recipe.  If you can’t find any then just use 1 and 1/3 Cup Sweetened Condensed Milk)

2 t. Vanilla Extract

1/2 t. Salt

Drops of Pink Food Coloring

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All of our Ingredients

You will need a casserole dish.  I will be doubling the recipe and placing it into this larger casserole dish.

You will need to place a piece of Parchment Paper down into the bottom of the casserole dish.

I used a pen to draw the dimensions and then cut with some scissors.  You can see in the photo above that it is in place and ready.

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La Cechera, Dulce de Leche Milk Based Caramel

This is my addition to the recipe.  I wanted to add a Caramel flavor to my Fudge.

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Into a Microwave safe dish you want to place the White Chocolate Chips and the Sweetened Condensed Milk, and the Dulce de Leche Caramel.

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Now place into the Microwave for 1 minute, 30 seconds at 70 percent power.  (That is important.)

When done remove and stir well.

Now quickly stir in the Vanilla and Salt, along with a few drops of Pink Food Coloring.

Because I doubled the recipe, you can see the first batch in the very top of the photo above, while I repeat the process with this new batch in these photos.

 

Microwaving the Second Batch

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Both Batches of Fudge Have Been Placed Into This Large Casserole Dish to Cool

Ready To Add My Hibiscus Flowers

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The Fudge Sets Very Quickly

If you want to embed the Hibiscus Flowers into the Fudge you must do so fast.

Beautiful and Delicious!

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My Pink Pajama Cocktail

Garnished with Strawberry’s and Enjoyed with some Dried Hibiscus Flowers

Fresh, Clean Strawberry’s

Ingredients:

1 lb. Frozen Strawberry’s

8 Cups Pink Lemonade

2 Cups Vodka 

4-5 Cups Lemon-Lime Soda

Fresh Strawberry’s as a Garnish

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Pretty Glasses, Strawberry’s and Hibiscus Flowers

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Ingredients Ready for the Blender

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The Frozen Strawberry’s

Adding The Frozen Strawberry’s to the Blender

I placed the Frozen Strawberry’s into the Blender, then added the Pink Lemonade, followed by the Vodka, and the Lemon-Lime Soda.

I did slit the Fresh Strawberry’s down the middle to place on each cocktail glass.

Time to Turn on the Blander Until Mixed

Blending Away…..

Pour Into Prepared Glasses

My Pink Pajama Cocktails

My Love of Pajamas

When I am around the house I tend to wear Pajamas even during a week day afternoon, and especially a weekend when I am staying home and not leaving the house.  I have never been one to wear “sweats.”  To me sweats are sloppy, unattractive and cumbersome.  I like something that looks nice, fits my personality, feels comfortable, and looks pretty.  I very happily incorporate Pajamas into my daily life whenever I can.

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Strawberry, Jalapeno and Tomato Salsa

Eaten and Enjoyed with a Cream Cheese and Jalapeno Salt Spread onto a Toasted Baguette

Strawberry’s, Grape Tomatoes, Red Onion, Lime Zest and Juice, Jalapeno’s, and Fresh Cilantro

Amounts are up to you!

You first want to wash everything…

On a cutting board you want to start chopping your Strawberry’s into diced sized bites.

  Set aside.

As I was slicing the top off of each Strawberry I noticed that they looked like pretty flowers. 

I decided to save a few to use as a garnish.

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Now chop the Grape Tomatoes, leaving behind a lot of the Juice and Seeds.

  See photo top right.  Set them aside.

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Chop the Red Onion into a small dice.

I didn’t use the entire Onion.  I did weigh and gage how much I wanted to add to finished mixture.

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Time to chop the Jalapeno’s into a small dice as well.  I know that I have a hard time with Jalapeno’s.  The fumes really bother me, and whatever I touch on my body after touching the peppers, will make that area hot and uncomfortable.  Therefore, it’s a good idea to wear cooking gloves.  They help a lot!

Everything is Beautiful and Nicely Chopped

I LOVE all the Colors!

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Time To Combine Everything

You can see in the above photo how the tops of the Strawberry’s look like Flowers…

which is why I wanted to keep some of them as a Garnish.

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Place your chopped items into a medium sized bowl.

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Zest your Limes into the Salsa, then add the Lime Juice.  Don’t make it too soggy. 

You don’t have to use the Juice of both Limes if you don’t want to.

Mix Together…

Add a Pinch or Two of the Jalapeno Sea Salt

(This stuff is sooooo good!  So glad I found it online!)

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Now For The Bread and Cheese

I wanted to have a few options to see which one would be best, the Italian Toasts or the Baguette. 

Turns out they were both great and I used both of them.

In one bowl I placed some softened Cream Cheese, and in the other I placed Crumbled Goat Cheese. 

I then sprinkled a pinch or two of the Jalapeno Sea Salt.  That was all that was needed!  So delicious on it’s own.

Set Those Aside

Now It’s Time To Slice and Toast the Baguette

Place onto a Baking Sheet and put into the Oven on Broil.  You just want to brown your bread slices.

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This is my new FAVORITE Thing!

Spread some Cream Cheese onto a Toasted Baguette, and then sprinkle some Jalapeno Sea Salt over top.

  God is it good!

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With the sliced Baguette toasted, time to add the Crumbled Goat Cheese overtop, sprinkled with some Jalapeno Sea Salt.

Place back into the Oven, 300F just for a few minutes to melt the Cheese a bit.

Ready for the Salsa!

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I think my little Strawberry “Flowers” look nice.  🙂

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I hope your day is filled with Strawberry’s.

Have a very PINK Day!

Julie

 

 

 

 

 

 

Julie Barefoot In The Backyard

Julie Barefoot In The Backyard

          Hello Happy Barefoot Spring, and Summer in my Backyard   And Fall and Winter, but not so much.  🙂 Our Backyard Peach Tree We spend a lot of time outside in our backyard.  Gardening, Landscaping, Grilling, Picnicing, Playing…. The Dogs love 

Here’s a CLUE for Nancy Drew

Here’s a CLUE for Nancy Drew

          “I don’t promise to forget the mystery, but I know I’ll have a marvelous time“ Nancy Drew ————————————————————————————–       CURRENTLY ON A STAKE OUT, CHECK BACK LATER                       

Mother of the Groom

Mother of the Groom

 

 

 

 

Meet Brodie and Mackenzie

December 2024

The Proposal

Bok Tower Gardens, Lake Wales, Florida

Champagne and My (Julie) Former Engagement Ring

My Ring Has Never Looked More Beautiful  🙂

Mackenzie and her Twin Sister Susannah

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When I first met Mackenzie in 2018 I knew she was special.  Gordon was working overseas at the time so it was just me and Brodie here at home.  I loved Mackenzie immediately!  Brodie was so excited about her and wanted her to come over to our house.  All I asked was that he give me a few days to clean up the house before she came over.  A few days later when she arrived and walked through our front door, it was like sunshine walking into our house.  I loved her immediately.  I believe that I had gone to the dentist the following day and I was bragging about her to everyone.  Telling them that I hope that she will be my Daughter-In-Law.  Looks like my wish has come true.

My Engagement Ring

Gordon gave me the most beautiful Marquise Diamond back in 1983 when he proposed.  We married in 1985.  I quit wearing my ring decades ago because it no longer fit my finger.  Same with my wedding ring.  I suppose that I could have gotten them both resized but I just didn’t want to tamper with such perfection.  I also knew that I would rather pass them down to our children for their own engagements.  When Veronica got engaged to her husband Brian, Gordon and I did offer up my engagement ring to her.  She however, didn’t want it, and used the diamonds from Brian’s mom’s engagement ring.  I was a little disappointed, but I understood.  Especially now that both Brian’s parents have passed away as of 2023.  So, I let everyone know that I am leaving my engagement ring to Brodie to do with as he pleases. 

He has since remade it and gave it to Mackenzie.  I am very happy that my ring is now with her.  And, we all have a lovely wedding to plan.

Julie

(Mother of the Groom)

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Veronica and Brian’s Wedding

If You Would Like To Check Out Mother Of The Bride:

Click Here For Mother Of The Bride

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February, 2025

Just a Few Valentine’s Day Gifts to Gift

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Valentine’s Gifts For Brodie and Mackenzie

I am one who always shows up with gifts.

Brodie and Mackenzie had asked me to accompany them for their ‘Save The Date’ photo shoot in Sarasota, Florida.

The date was February 12, 2025.

I always show up with goodies.  🙂

Wine, Pink Rose Wine Stopper, Wine Gummies, and Other Favorite Snacks

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Mother of the Groom

Julie Lancaster-Whann

February 12, 2025

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Mackenzie, February 12, 2025

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Save The Date

(I have blocked the date.  It shall be revealed in the future.)

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Selby Gardens

Downtown Sarasota

Click Here For:  Selby Gardens

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(Look at all the Vanda Orchids)

Selby Gardens is a Living Museum

15 Acres Located in Downtown Sarasota, Florida

I know that when Mackenzie told me about this place, I was just so surprised to see something so beautiful located in downtown Sarasota, and not in some spacious rural area.  What Mackenzie said she liked about the place was that it had tropical areas that reminded her of what she thought Hawaii would look like.

Brodie and Mackenzie paid my way.  I think it was about
$28.00 each.  They also paid for the photographer’s admission as well.

Mackenzie’s twin sister Susannah paid the photographer as a gift for both Mackenzie and Brodie. 

A very nice and generous gift.

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I was very happy to see this.  A George Harrison exhibit.  I never knew he had such a love of gardening?

To me he was always a Beatle.  I would listen to The Beatles on my mother’s record player.  It really never occurred to me that he was also into gardening as well.  It was a very pleasant surprise.

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The Photo Shoot

Selby Gardens is such a beautiful place.

So many lovely areas to take pictures.

Here are Brodie and Mackenzie with their photographer.  She was so good!  First of all, she had a great camera!  Second, she gave great directions to Brodie and Mackenzie.  All of that is important.

I’m pretty sure this photographer is going places!  🙂

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I don’t exactly know why I was invited along?  Except that they know I take my camera with me everywhere.  Even though it was the professional photographer’s job to take these great photos, which she did, I also know that they knew that I would be snapping away as well.

My photos became more of a ‘Behind the Scenes’ pictures.

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I will say that being here is the most peace I have felt since Election 2024.  Not all of us were happy with the results of that election.  But, just being here among all this beauty and serenity, was pure peace.  Even the other people visiting, you could just tell that they were peaceful people.  Anyone that is coming to the George Harrison exhibit is going to be of that peaceful mindset.  I just felt like I was with like-minded people.

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Brodie and Mackenzie were very photogenic. 

They took such great photos.

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I know that I would have loved to have spent more time just roaming around and photographing all the plant life.

However, Moving Along….

I Love This Tree!

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You know, I was really proud of Brodie.  He did all the great things that future grooms are expected to do in the photographic memories department.  🙂  I know he usually doesn’t like the attention while posing for photographs.  However, he did really well.  And of course, Mackenzie was great, as usual.

The Beauty of the Ocean Behind Them

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An Outdoor Artist Capturing The Beauty

I love artists!  They see beauty in the world and relay it to everyone else.

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I Didn’t Have Time To Enter This

It looks like a Greenhouse but I’m not quite sure what it is.

Always Floral Beauty Everywhere

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Rounding Out Our Garden Tour

Nearing The End

After Coming Full Circle on This Garden Tour…

A Lilly Pond with Lovely Flowers

Mackenzie, Me, and Brodie

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Columbia Restaurant, Sarasota, Florida

Established, 1905

Gem of Spanish Restaurants

Brodie and Mackenzie Entering the Restaurant

Mackenzie had made reservations for us for after the photo shoot.

This Was Their Treat For Me

(I think it was an early birthday gift.  My 64th. birthday was the following day, February 13th.)

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Columbia

Studying The Menu

I will say this, it was very interesting hearing the conversations all around us from so many tables.  It was all politics.  There were many seniors here at the restaurant and you knew they were frequent patrons, I know this because I was apparently blocking the Columbia Restaurant after dinner mints when I stood in the hallway waiting for our table.  They would approach me and say, “Excuse me.  I just need to get around you.  Thank you.”  That is when I noticed all the mints I was blocking.  This restaurant is apparently a staple among the senior locals.  The table to my left was a combination of Trumpers and Democrats.  I will say that they were respectfully debating, not arguing.  Which is how it should be.  You could tell they were friends that just disagreed with each other politically.  They weren’t hating on each other.  Which was very nice.

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The Drink Menu

I Ordered The Gem of the Ocean Cocktail

Mackenzie and Brodie ordered a Pitcher of Something I cannot remember.  🙂

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My Gem of the Ocean

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This was a very charming day.  I loved it!

Calamari and Aioli, Appetizer

Our Dinner’s Have Arrived

My Mahi-Mahi and Rice

Although the food was very good.  I couldn’t help but notice that the rice I was eating was something that I had made before.  Something from a Knorr’s Rice Packet that I purchased from the grocery store.  Which then makes me believe that the Mahi-Mahi I was eating was probably from the frozen section of the super-market as well.  Just sayin.’  🙂

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Columbia Wine

(In Honor of our Big Day!)

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Early Wedding Gifts

March, 2025

We lived in Hawaii for 13 years and both of our children were born there.

Although Mackenzie and her family have never been to Hawaii, they wanted the wedding to take place there.  So, I wanted to educate Mackenzie just a bit on the Hawaiian cultures and more importantly, the Hawaiian lei traditions.  After all, flowers will play a big role in their wedding.  Everything I bought for her, I also bought for myself.  I too have enjoyed reading and catching up on Hawaii.  After all, we left in 1999.  I’m sure things are different over there now, yet I know many things will also still be the same.

This was such a beautiful book!

I can see so many of these flowers incorporated in Brodie and Mackenzie’s wedding.

  Especially those that would look so beautiful in her hair.

This photo looks just like a lovely Hawaiian wedding.

  Love the Barefeet and the Long Lei’s!

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Our Early Wedding Gifts For Brodie and Mackenzie

Gold and Silver Pineapple Serving Bowls and Spoons, Hawaiian Books, an Aloha Tote Bag, Beautiful Anthuriums…

Some Tropical Cream, Island Wisdom…

A Lovely Wahine Tote, as well as my homemade Hawaiian gift bags I painted myself years ago.

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Especially For Brodie

I always try to personalize gifts.  I also love to give old possessions along with new gifts. 

That is what I did here.

Brodie specifically wanted our old Chinaman’s Hat print.  We love Chinaman’s Hat.  It is an island in Hawaii and legend has it that a China Man is underneath it.  The print is framed in Koa Wood.  Very nice and expensive wood.  Most of the wooden things you buy in Hawaii are Monkey Pod.  Koa is quite exclusive.

(See the Pokemon Box above?  I was trying to come up with something nice for just Brodie when it came to a wedding gift.  It is difficult to buy wedding gifts specifically for men, if you think about it?  I came across this Le Creuset set of Pokemon bowls that I ordered from Japan.  Pokemon is Brodie’s childhood in Hawaii.  He has collected the cards for years ever since.  He still gets excited over anything Pokemon.  Therefore, I think I found just the right gifts.)  🙂

I also passed along Brodie’s Hawaiian Baby blanket to him.  🙂

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March 19, 2025

With Gordon home for a few weeks from working overseas we wanted to give the kids some early gifts, bring over dinner, and have a nice visit.  (We also wanted to borrow Brodie’s car for a fun website project.)

Taking The Gifts Over

Stopping Off At Moreno’s Bakery For Cuban’s and More

We Always Love To Bring Food When We Visit

Cuban Beer, (Florida Beer), Cuban Sandwiches, Fries, Fried Plantains, etc.

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Opening Early Wedding Gifts

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Mackenzie, Hank, and Brodie

Hankie was a bit upset, he had just had his nails clipped and wasn’t happy about it.  🙂

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April 19, 2025

Mackenzie’s Birthday

Just Making Out A Hawaii Travel Dairy and a Card w/ a Check!  🙂

I actually made that charm way back in 1999 in Hawaii with Sculpy clay.

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TO BE CONTINUED…..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Log/Blog Documenting Stalking and Harassment From My Neighbor

My Log/Blog Documenting Stalking and Harassment From My Neighbor

    (Note Update April 10, 2025:  If this harassment continues, or more damage is done to our property, then I will reveal their names here, and getting the police involved.)       Where Do I Even Begin? 2025 For those of you that 

Typing with Julie in 1965, (I mean Blogging with Julie in 2025)  Dear Diary…

Typing with Julie in 1965, (I mean Blogging with Julie in 2025) Dear Diary…

        Dear Dairy… Today I rearranged the cans in the pantry and dusted them off while wearing my new full skirt I sewed last week for the church picnic, and the pearls that my husband gave me for my birthday.  I was 

My, My, Peanut Butter Pie!

My, My, Peanut Butter Pie!

 

 

 

 

My, my…

Peanut Butter Pie

I’m originally from North Georgia, Rome to be exact.  Peanut Butter is probably my most favorite food in the world.  I eat more Peanut Butter than I do anything else.  I knew I would be making a Peanut Butter Pie someday for the website, I just didn’t know how I would be doing it?  Meaning, what I would put in it?  Other than Peanut Butter?  It then dawned on me to put everything I love to eat with Peanut Butter, in it.  So, I did!

I also had in mind to try and make it in the form of a Pretzel Jello Salad.  That is an old recipe that we also have here on our website.  It’s usually made around Christmas and taken to Church Suppers and Holiday Events.

So, with that in mind I came up with this.  I hope you like it.  I did!  I gave the second one to Veronica and Brian.  They loved it too!  (And trust me, they tell me when they don’t like things that I make.  Usually, if something I make for them is “too spicy” then they let me know.)  🙂

When I think of Peanut Butter, I always think of Georgia and how the state is the largest producer of Peanut Butter in America.  Alabama is second.  However, the largest consumption of Peanut Butter in the world is China.  Who knew?

My, my, Peanut Butter Pie is an homage to my youth.  That little girl that put peanut butter on everything, Graham Crackers, Vanilla Wafers, Saltine Crackers, Animal Crackers, Potato Chips, Pretzels, Bananas, Chocolate, Chocolate Cookies, Rice Crackers, Popcorn Cakes, Rice Cakes, Bread, Bagels, etc.

I was never a Peanut Butter and Jelly kind of person.  I have always been a Peanut Butter person.  Jelly was never important to me.

I’m hoping that you see my creation as a guide to inspire you to create something special for yourself. 

My, My, Southern Pie!

Julie

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My Two Pies

I Topped My Pie With Pretzel Balls, and Veronica and Brian’s Pie With Valdosta (Georgia) Glazed Pecans

(The candle I bought online and placed it on top of Veronica and Brian’s pie.  I know how much she loves candles so I passed that on to her.)

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Yummy, Yummy, Deliciousness!

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I wanted these shots taken outside as something of an homage to those great picnics I attended when I was a child, and growing up.  Cakes and Pies were staples at Outdoor Picnics.

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Yellow

Luckily for us in the South, Summer Weather lasts a long time.  🙂

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Recipe Starts Here

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My, My, Peanut Butter Pie

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Initially, I was going to make a Pretzel Pie Crust, but changed my mind and decided on a Graham Cracker Pie Crust.  It was easier, as it was already made, and it reminds me of all the times I would eat Peanut Butter on Graham Crackers.

But first, I decided that I wanted to make some Vanilla Pudding to place on top of the Graham Cracker Pie Crust.  The Vanilla Pudding reminding me of the Vanilla Wafers I would also eat Peanut Butter on.

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Making Vanilla Pudding

I made it the day before I assembled the pie.

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Assembling The Ingredients

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Most Of These Ingredients I Used, Some I Did Not

Ingredients:  For Making One Pie

1, Graham Cracker Pie Crust

Vanilla Pudding Mix

1/2-1 Cup Peanut Butter Of Your Choice

1, 1/2, 8 oz. Cool Whips, Thawed

2, 8 oz. Cream Cheeses, Softened

Dry Roasted Peanuts as Desired

1 Cup Florida Crystals Turbinado Sugar

Rice Crackers w/ Chocolate

BelVita Cookies (Chocolate and Peanut Butter)

Snyder’s Pretzel Rounds

Valdosta Glazed Pecans

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You Will Need A Blender For This

Add the softened Cream Cheese, Peanut Butter, and Turbinado Sugar.

(I was so happy that I used the Turbinado Sugar in place of regular Granulated Sugar.  When you bite into the pie, you taste that great brown sugar crystal and it is excellent!  So much more satisfying that the Granulated Sugar.)

Just Mix Together Until Blended

Next, Add as Many Peanuts as You Like!

Stir Together, Do NOT Blend!

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Now It’s Time To Add The Thawed Cool Whip

(I used 1 1/2 per pie.)

Mixture Left, Vanilla Pudding Right

The First Thing I Did Was To Spread Some Vanilla Pudding Onto the Bottom Of the Graham Cracker Pie Crust

(I do wish that I had made 2 Vanilla Puddings instead of just one.  That way I could have spread more on the bottom of each pie crust.)

I Next Started Layering With the Chocolate Covered Rice Cakes and the Cookies.

Kinda Looks Like Mickey Mouse, Doesn’t It?

You Just Want To Spread The Mixture Onto The Pie Crusts

I Did Hold Back With Veronica and Brian’s Pie and Dolloped The Mixture Twice.  I Created Layers of the Cookies.  So That it Had Two Layers Inside the Pie.  In Mine, I Only Had the One Layer Onto of the Vanilla Pudding and Cookies.

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Before I Decorated Them, I Added a Glazed Pecan to the Top of My Pie

Pretzel Balls on Mine, Glazed Pecans on Veronica and Brian’s

The Candle Was Just an Added Touch I Liked

It Kind of Reminded me of Gordon, who Loves a Pecan Pie as a “Birthday Cake” and not a Usual Cake

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Flowers Are Beautiful, Even Just The Petals

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I actually couldn’t help myself.  It is a flared dress, ya know.

Twirling kinda comes with the territory.  It’s not like I had a choice.

Hey, at least I put it down here.  🙂

Have a Happy Slappy Day!

Julie

P.S.  Keep Twirling!

 

 

 

 

Julie Italian

Julie Italian

    Ciao e Benvenuto (Starting this in 2024) Although Gordon and I have many Italian website pages full of recipes and ideas, I wanted to start this page just for me.  With Gordon working overseas, he is not here to co-contribute along beside me, 

The Inspiration of BLUEY and the Heeler’s

The Inspiration of BLUEY and the Heeler’s

(For Peanuku)  🙂     CURRENTLY UNDER CREATIVE CONSTRUCTION                 Happy Heeler Valentine      

My PINK Flamingo Summers

My PINK Flamingo Summers

 

 

 

 

Let’s Flamingle!

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Busy Standing on one leg….  Currently

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Ambrosia, Pink Grapefruit Sake, and Toasted Coconut  🙂

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Julie’s Pink Flamingo Pasta Salad

(A Rough Draft)

Our Pink Backyard Bromeliad in Bloom

I got the idea that I wanted to make something very Florida, and very Palm Beach.  A light lunch kind of thing.  Flamingos kept popping into my head.  But, not just the Flamingos themselves, but what kinds of foods that Flamingos eat.  I knew they ate Shrimp, that is what keeps them nice and PINK.  I wanted to know what else they ate so I did my research online and I’ve added some of those Flamingo tasty treats to my Pink Flamingo Pasta Salad.

I hope you will enjoy it, along with some other nice Florida Flamingo Summer Foods as I hope to update this as time goes by.

Barbie Isn’t The Only Thing That’s PINK!

Julie Barefoot

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Our Herb Garden Flamingo

Backyard PINK!

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My Pink Flamingo Pasta Salad

(Recipe Down Below)

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Ready for Delivery to my Loved Ones

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Waving My Magic Whisk  🙂

These Are The Best Crackers From The Asian Supermarket

I Like To Eat Some Sort Of Cracker With a Pasta Salad

It Tastes Better on a Flamingo Plate  🙂  (With Grapes)

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The Flamingo Photo’s I Took at Busch Gardens

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I’ve Always Been One To Stand On One Leg Myself,

Guess I’m Part Flamingo.

Flamingo Habitat at Busch Gardens, Florida

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PINK Hot Chili Pasta

Something HOT For The Florida HEAT

You Can Also Rearrange It Into A Nice Pasta Sandwich

(Recipe Down Below)

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Recipes Start Here

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Julie’s Pink Flamingo Pasta Salad

As with any kind of Pasta Salad, or Salad in general, you can always add as much or as little as you like.  It’s all up to personal tastes.  You can also omit ingredients that you don’t like, or want in your salads.  What I am giving you is a guide in creating something nice for yourself and your family, or any nice Summer Gathering you may host, or be invited to.

I based this on my love of Flamingos and their diet.  They eat Shrimp, Seeded Grass, Algae, Fly Larvae, Tiny Briny Crustaceans, and other Plants and Animals that live in shallow waters. 

I didn’t add all of the Flamingo diet to my salad, obviously, but I did base it on the foods they do eat.

I Hope That You Will Be Inspired!

Gathering All of My Ingredients

I Did Double My Recipe To Give To Family

Ingredients:

Flamingo Pasta (Kind of a must.)

Red Onion, Chopped

Yellow Chives, Chopped

Flowering Chives, as Garnish

Celery, Chopped

Radishes, Sliced

Daikon Radish, Sliced

Fresh, or Frozen Peas, (Thawed, if frozen.)

Mayonnaise, To Taste

Hot Sauce, To Taste

Wasabi, To Taste

Cocktail Onions

Aji-Miren, To Taste

Shrimp, Already Cooked

Arugula

Pumpkin Seeds

Pink Pickled Ginger

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The Shrimp you see above right, I bought already cooked and ready to eat from the grocery store.  It came frozen.

  I just needed to thaw them out for my Salad.

The Enoki Mushrooms I didn’t use in this salad. 

I did place some around my luncheon bowl to eat with my Pasta Salad though.

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Flowering Chives, Yellow Chives, Daikon Radish, and Radishes

As with any Salad you do need to clean the ingredients.  In the photo top left, I have my Flowering Chives and Yellow Chives I purchased from The Asian Supermarket.  They have some of the most exotic ingredients you will ever find.  The green chives has a flower at the end, I’ll show you how I use those when I put the Salad together.  The Yellow Chives add a nice pale color with a slight oniony taste to the Salad.

Vegetables Drying

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With my Vegetables drying, it’s time to boil my Pasta.

Just follow whatever the package directions say on your Pasta you will be using. 

When done, drain into a Colander and rinse with cold water to stop the cooking process and to cool the Pasta down.

Place the Pasta into a large Mixing Bowl.

  Now we start to add the ingredients to the Pasta.

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Eyeball and Taste

(This is what we do from now on.)

I purchased already chopped Red Onion from the grocery store to save a little time.

   I’m adding as much as I like, no measurements.

Chopping Celery

Pasta, Red Onion, and Celery

Slicing the Radishes

They add a pepper taste and I love the texture and the pretty pink rings.

A Daikon Radish is ugly on the outside and beautiful on the inside. 

Just use a Potato Peeler to remove the outside.

You can see the pretty flower when sliced.  I’m saving these to be used as more of a Garnish.

The Peas were already washed and ready so I just added as many as I wanted.

Mixing Together To Judge the Ratios

At some point I also added the Yellow Chives by simply snipping them with a pair of scissors.

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Now Comes The Wet Stuff

I just want to use the Mayonnaise to combine the Salad. 

I really don’t like that much as it is usually very rich.

It’s Coming Together Nicely

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This is something of an experiment in deciding which one I liked better. 

I did add a few dashes of both.

The Cocktail Onions are to add that Briny Bite that I wanted.

The Wasabi Paste is also to Add Some great HEAT!

Add a Tablespoon or Two of Miren.  It adds a Wonderful Sweetness.

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Thawing The Shrimp

This was another shortcut that I took in making this Salad.  I bought the Shrimp already prepared, and frozen to be eaten as a Shrimp Cocktail.  All I had to do was to thaw them out and drain any excess water.  I did have to pat them dry as they were a bit wet from the thawing, and I didn’t want any extra water in my Salad.  I did remove their Tails.

Adding The Shrimp

(Be sure to place into the refrigerator to chill before serving, at least a few hours.)

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Ready to Plate My Pasta Salad

A Bed of Arugula

Chilled Overnight

The Pumpkin Seeds are to be Scattered About,

and a Dollop of the Pink Pickled Ginger on Top

I do admit that my Pasta Salad presentation is a bit ‘over the top.’  In my defense, I was feeling very creative and having lots of fun.  I guess I’d rather have it be that way, than have it be more presentable to a sophisticated crowd.  🙂

You Can See The Flowering Chives in my Bowl Above,

Kind of Looks Like a Plant

I Hope You Have As Much Fun As I Did!

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PINK Hot Chili Pasta

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It was when I was shopping for my Flamingo Pasta that I came across this online.

  Tagliatelle Peperoncino. 

It is some Pasta with some HEAT!  And I love it!

Also, that little jar of Spicy Chili Onion Crisp is wonderful drizzled on top!

I do admit that I kind of threw this together using what I already had in the Pantry, and the Refrigerator.

I combined the sauces that you see above.  I used about a jar, and a half a jar of the other.

I place the sauces into a pot on the stove top and put it on a medium-heat.

That black blob on my sauce is Freshly Ground Black Pepper, I also snipped some Yellow Chives into the sauce as well.

I had some Roasted Garlic in the fridge as well and smooshed about 6 -8 Cloves into my sauce.  I want it to simmer away for awhile, until it thickens up.  When it starts to boil then I turn the heat down a notch or two.  When that setting starts to boil, then I turn it down another notch or two, until finally it is all nice and thick on a low setting.  Sometimes this can take up to an hour or longer.  Be sure to keep an eye on it, stirring periodically so that it doesn’t stick to the bottom of the pot and burn.

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Boiling My Pasta

Just Cook According to Package Directions

Then Drain Pasta into a Colander

Eat Immediately!

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The Tagliatelle is Perfect with the Sauce and….

a Drizzle or Two of the Hot Chili Onion Crisp.

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I also wanted to use the leftovers to make a Pasta Sandwich the next day.

I also had some leftover Bread for this.

I simply sliced it in half and placed it on a baking sheet in the oven to broil until a nice brown….

Like So…

I Heated Up Some of the Pasta in the Sauce until Warm

I Then Started to Assemble My Sandwich

Layering Bread, Arugula, Pasta, Yellow Chives, Green Chives, Basil, and some Leftover Sauce from the Remaining Jar.

It’s O.K. if Some Spills Out!  Yum!!!

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Be A Flamingo In A Flock of Pigeon’s  🙂

Have a PINK Day!

Julie Barefoot

 

 

 

 

 

Oranges Sm’Oranges, And Other Citrus

Oranges Sm’Oranges, And Other Citrus

  (Because Nothing Rhymes With Oranges)  🙂   Orange is the New Muffin ——————————————————————————- (I added a few Banana Chips as an accent, above.) I Have Discovered Indian River Citrus, and There is NO Going Back! My Florida Orange Muffins w/ Lemon Citrus Glaze (Recipe 

Steamin’ and Pickin’ Crab, w/ Recipes

Steamin’ and Pickin’ Crab, w/ Recipes

  Our Crab Key, Jamaica In honor of Crab Key, Jamaica, we knew we had to do something with crabs. After all, near the end of the movie, Dr. No’s henchmen tied up Honey Ryder so that she would be eaten by crabs. Therefore, we 

More of Julie’s Jezebel Recipes to Enjoy

More of Julie’s Jezebel Recipes to Enjoy

 

 

 

 

 

I Heart Jezebel (Sauce)

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Julie’s Southern Jeze-Bells Pizza

Made With My:

Julie’s Georgia Peach Jeze-Bells Sauce

Click Here For:  Julie’s Jezebel Sauce

I have 4 Jezebel’s on the webpage link above.  We also have many recipes that you can make with those Jezebel’s that I created.  Just take a look and I’m sure we can find something to please you.

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Hi.  I’m Julie!

I’ve created several Jezebel’s based on my love for the movie, starring Bette Davis, and my love for the Southern Sauce, as well as my love of different tastes and cultures.  Besides, doesn’t every culture have a Jezebel or two?   I will be adding to this page as time goes by with more recipes to be enjoyed and savored by those that appreciate a good Jezebel. 

But be careful!  It’s Wicked and Will Tempt You!  🙂

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Julie’s Leftovers Jezebel Breakfast Wrap

I Made this With my Jezebel Pizza Leftovers

Who Doesn’t Love a Good Jezebel For Breakfast?

(Recipes Down Below)

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Also, Check Out My:

Aloha Wahine Jezebel Sauce

Aloha and Mahalo!

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AND, Click Here For:

An Oriental Jezebel

AND,

An Old Florida Jezebel (Sauce)

AND,

One HOT Jezebel for Breakfast (Sauce, That is.)

 

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RECIPES START HERE

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Julie’s Southern Jeze-Bells Pizza

Having Some of my Belle Wine,

Ready to Make my Jezebel Pizza

(Above, two jars of my Georgia Peach Jeze-Bell’s Sauce.)

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Ingredients:

Pizza Crust (Any that you choose.)

I am into shortcuts now so I bought Ready Made.

Plenty of Julie’s Jezebel Sauce

Shredded Italian Cheese

Slices of a nice Honey Ham

Slices of Provolone

1 Large Sweet Vidalia Onion

3 Colorful Bell Peppers

Olive Oil

Fine to Medium Sea Salt

Cookie Cutters

(Lots of Salad Greens)

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Slicing The Onion

I wanted to slice the Onion in such a way as to have sections of it to stay together and fan outwards.

How I did that was to leave the small round section on the Onion, (see photo top right) and just slice an area in size that I desired.  It will keep the Onion slice together, and will fan out nicely on the Pizza.

You can see how I sliced the onions in the photo above left.  They kept together nicely, just like I wanted them to.  If you slice them so that the top of the onion keeps them together, then they can stay together for your pizza project.

I then set them onto a baking sheet lined with some Aluminum Foil and a nice drizzle of Olive Oil.

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The Colorful Bell Peppers

(This is where my Jeze-Bell’s come in.  I also have colorful Bell Peppers in my Georgia Peach Southern Jeze-Bell’s Sauce, hence the name.)

I wanted to use my Cookie Cutters on the Bell Peppers so I sliced them so that I had the room to do so.

Red Bell Pepper Kisses

And Lots of Hearts

(Jezebel’s Always Have Big Hearts)  🙂

Placing Everything On To A Baking Sheet Lined With Aluminum Foil

Olive Oil Drizzled Over Top

(The canned Pineapple you see in the photo above, I changed my mind and didn’t use.  I could have though because I do use Pineapple Preserves in my Georgia Peach Southern Jeze-Bell’s Sauce.  The Pineapple would have been great but I thought that I already had enough stuff on the pizza and I didn’t want any more.)

However, upon reflection the Pineapple would have been great on the first layer of my Pizza.  Oh well, next time!

Grating Some Freshly Ground Black Pepper Over Top

A Sprinkling of Pink Hawaiian Sea Salt

Into a 350F Oven for about 20-25 Minutes.  I did turn them a little after the first 15 minutes.  I didn’t want them to be thoroughly cooked because they would also have further cooking on the Pizza.

I didn’t just want every Bell Pepper cut out in a heart of Lips.

  I also wanted just some nicely cut Bell Peppers as well.

So, While They Are Cooking…..

…Now It’s Time To Build My Pizza

The Pizza Crust Come with 3 of them, but here I will be using 2.

My Georgia Peach Southern Jeze-Bell’s Sauce

Here I Placed One Crust Down on a Pizza Pan Lined With Aluminum Foil

  I then Spread Some of my Jeze-Bell’s on Top

Next, I Added Some of This Beautiful Ham!

I Meant to Mention That I Did Spray the Foil Underneath the Pizza with Olive Oil Pam

On Top of the Ham I Scattered Some Grated Italian Cheese

I Will Say That This Would Have Been a Great Place to Put the Pineapple Slices

Now Place The Second Pizza Crust on Top

Time To Add More Jeze-Bell’s Sauce Here

More Ham As Well

Time To Decorate My Pizza

I just took the Onions and Bell Peppers and placed them all around the Pizza in a pattern that I liked.

I do wish that I had waited to add the cheese hearts because it did melt and you couldn’t see that they are hearts.  I probably could have done it when I removed it from the oven, while it was cooling.

Into The 350F Oven It Goes For about 20-25 Minutes

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Fresh Out of the Oven

Letting it Cool

I Placed a Bunch of Greens Around my Platter

Then Plopped the Pizza in the Middle

I’m Really Proud of It

I Didn’t Know What it Would Taste Like When I Made It

It’s Pretty Outside

My Pizza Crusts Were Thin But You Can Use Thicker Ones

This One Is MINE!

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Love The Pizza Salad Leftovers For Dinner The Following Night

Just Place Into An Air Tight Container And Refrigerate

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Breakfast On My Kitchen Counter

My Leftover Jeze-Belle’s Breakfast Wrap

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Cauliflower Wraps

Ingredients:

In Addition to the Cauliflower Wraps…

(Although you can use any kind of Wrap that you like.)

Leftover Jeze-Belle’s Sauce

Leftover Onions and Bell Peppers

Leftover Ham

Leftover Provolone Cheese

Broccoli Micro-Greens

Eggs

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Ingredients Ready

Cauliflower Wraps Heating in the Oven

(I went by the package instructions and mine just cooked too long.  They needed to be removed about 4 minutes early.  The thing is, I cooked them less than the instructions to begin with.)

Cooking The Eggs in Butter, Scrambling Them

The Micro-Greens and The Eggs

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Time To Assemble

Smearing my Jeze-Belle’s Sauce on my Wrap

Adding the Micro-Greens and the Ham

Next, the Provolone Cheese and the Bell Peppers and Onions

Followed by the Eggs

Just Make it into a Taco and Enjoy With Some Nice Coffee

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Also, Check Out My:

Julie’s Jezebel Sauces

For All of My Different Jezebel’s

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AND,

Aloha Wahine Jezebel Sauce

Aloha and Mahalo!

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AND, Click Here For:

An Oriental Jezebel

AND,

An Old Florida Jezebel (Sauce)

AND,

One HOT Jezebel for Breakfast (Sauce, That is.)

AND,

Click Here For:  More of Julie’s Jezebel Recipes to Enjoy

 

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See You At Church,  🙂

Julie

 

 

Let the SUMMER In!

Let the SUMMER In!

        I Love Simple Flowers, Nothing Stunningly Beautiful, Just Very Pretty and Charming, With Personality Welcome Summer, Come On In! I’ve Missed You, Just Try Not To Be So HOT This Year  🙂 But, If You Do Insist Upon It…. I Have 

Lilly Pulitzer (The Barefoot Queen of Pink and Green)

Lilly Pulitzer (The Barefoot Queen of Pink and Green)

        Lilly Beautiful Lillian Lee McKim Pulitzer Rousseau (1931 – 2013) —————————————————————————- Me, Mother’s Day 2023 with Sparky, Wearing a Lilly ——————————————————————————- PINK, and Shades Thereof ———————————————————————————— My Lilly Pulitzer Bread Box Doll House Lilly Fabrics Create a Window Curtains, A Chair, 

Quickie Italian

Quickie Italian

 

 

 

 

Quickie Italian

Sometimes, All You Need is a Ready Made Tomato Focaccia, and some Wine

I Call It Herb Bread  🙂

When I think of cooking Italian food, I imagine a long list of ingredients, carving out a significant portion of the day, and sipping a nice glass of red wine or two during the entire cooking experience.  After all, to me it is an experience.  (And nibbling on lots of bread sticks.)  Also, I don’t really view Italian food as being “Quick.”  However, I think in our busy world that it can be.  It can also be just as delicious as if we spent hours in the kitchen.

With the exception of Gordon’s Italian Mac N’ Cheese, I never really considered any of these other dishes on this page to be ‘actual’ recipes.

They were more ideas with things we just thought about and threw together, mainly me.  (Julie)

I suppose that to me a ‘Recipe’ is something that requires great thought and testing.  Kind of like an Experiment in a Lab, or in this case, a Kitchen.  But, we never do those things.  In many cases we just know that the ingredients we choose are going to taste good together, without us even trying them out.  We just throw it together and let our photos tell the story.  Some ingredients that we may feature never go into the recipe.  After all, we make this up as we go, grabbing things from the pantry.  Always have.

However, these ‘Ideas’ have sometimes morphed into excellent Recipes.  Ideas that we have become very proud of.  And, we’ve even passed some of these Ideas on to our children and others who now cook our Ideas on a regular basis. 

So, without hesitation, here are a few very simple Ideas from us for that ‘Quickie Italian’ Dinner.  🙂

GRAZIE MILLE,

Julie and Gordon

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This “Idea” was just ready made frozen Ravioli, with some Pasta Sauce in a jar, and us throwing in a few spices to jazz it up.  Bread Sticks and Flat Leaf Parsley, not optional…essential!

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I LOVE BREAD!

I found this Bread on the sale rack at our Commissary for just a few dollars, and I snagged it instantly! 

It looked beautiful and tasty, and it WAS!  All you need is some great cheese and meats, and a good mustard, then you have a great meal.  Oh, and don’t forget the wine.  🙂

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Gordon’s Italian Mac N’ Cheese

All you really need is one great Italian Dish, and the rest can be just Nibble Foods.

As in Roasted Garlic, lots of Great Bread, Open Jars of Italy to spread on that Bread, and a nice bottle of Red Wine.

(Recipe Down Below)

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Red And Green Pasta Sauce w/ Plant Based Meatballs

(Recipe Down Below)

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Spaghetti, and Plant Based Meatball Sub Sand

(Recipe Down Below)

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Spaghetti Between Two Toasted Buttered Garlic Bread, Sandwich

(Recipe Down Below)

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Our ‘Throw Together’ Italian Dinner

With TONS of Bread!  🙂

(Recipe Down Below)

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Happiness is Being a Tutu  🙂

The “I Don’t Know What To Call It Pasta/Pasta Sandwich”

(Recipe Down Below)

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Peachy/Beigey Pasta

(Recipe Down Below)

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Easy Basil Pesto/Sun Dried Tomato Penne Pasta Dinner

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Turning Loaf Bread Into Great Bread

(Recipe Down Below)

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Recipes Start Here

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Gordon’s Italian Mac N’ Cheese

There was a Mac N’ Cheese Contest at his workplace on the base.  (2023)

Gordon tied for 2nd. Place!  🙂

The win is significant for him because he made it the night before and not that morning as some did, including the winner.  It does make a difference when it is nice and fresh from the oven, as the winner’s was.  Regardless, it is truly spectacular!

Truly Spectacular!

Ingredients:

32 oz. 33% Less Sodium Chicken Broth
~3 – ½ inch Thick Slices of Pancetta – reserve the fat

(NOTE: diced Pepperoni Mini’s can also be used)

~4 Cups Fusilli Pasta
Flour – as needed (equal to the amount Pancetta fat
~2 Cups Milk
~1 Cup Half & Half
~1 Cup White Cheddar Cheese sliced and ~½ Cup shredded
~1/2 Cup Parmesan Cheese sliced and ~¼ Cup shredded
~1/2 Cup Asiago Cheese sliced and ~¼ Cup shredded

1 Tbsp. Dried Italian Herb Seasoning
1 Tbsp. Dried Oregano
2 Tbsp. Butter
Freshly Ground Black Pepper
1 Tbsp. Himalayan Salt

Pam Cooking Spray – as needed

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The milk and Half and Half used.

The pots we used…

the left pot was used for the sauce and the other was used to boil the pasta.

Start by pouring the Chicken Broth into the large pot… this will give your pasta some flavor instead of just
having plain water.

Then add enough water to cover the pasta when added.

Pictured are my thick slices of Pancetta.

You can get your local Deli to cut them this thick for you.

Slice the Pancetta into dice sized pieces as shown.

Place the Pancetta pieces into a medium sized pan and heat to medium heat.

While the Pancetta is cooking, add your Fusilli Pasta to the pot and cook as directed or until the pasta is
al dente or cooked so as to be still firm when bitten. Be sure to stir the pasta occasionally so it won’t
stick to the bottom of the pot.

When done and still partially firm (al dente) pour the pasta into a colander and immediately rinse with
cold water to stop the cooking process. Then set the pasta aside to drain.

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Still cooking the Pancetta until it is well browned.

It is almost done and looking great!

Use a non-splatter cover in this next step to stop the Pancetta pieces from falling out of the pan. Pour
the Pancetta fat into your medium sized pot and turn the heat to medium high.

Then place the Pancetta onto a plate lined with paper towels to catch the excess fat.

Very nice pictures
Julie!!!

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Now, add your flour in equal amounts to your fat. When mixed, it should have the consistency of wet
sand. You have now made a roux! The second picture is a good example of what I mean.

Stir the roux consistently for about 2 min. Cooking it this long will remove the flour taste without
browning the flour. I am also slicing the cheeses while this is happening.

When cooked for two minutes, turn down your heat to low, and add some of your Milk and Half and
Half to the roux.

Stir this mixture until well combined adding more milk if needed to get to the thickness you desire. You
want your sauce thick, so don’t add too much of the Milk and Half and Half in the beginning. You can
always add more later. You have now made a Bechamel Sauce. Over time the sauce will continue to
thicken, so keep your Milk handy. Be sure to continue to stir your sauce now with a whisk from time to
time to remove any lumps. Still slicing cheese while the sauce heats.

This is Mac N’ CHEESE!

Add ~1 Cup of your White Cheddar Cheese to the Bechamel Sauce.

And add ~1/2 Cup of the Asiago cheese to the sauce. Now you have made a Mornay Sauce.

Slicing the Parmesan Cheese

And add ~1/2 Cup of the Parmesan cheese to the sauce. This is also great as a Fondue sauce to dip
bread and vegetables into. Stir your Mornay sauce with your whisk until the cheese is thoroughly
melted and well combined.

While still melting the cheese, add your dried Italian seasoning to the sauce…

Then add your dried Oregano to the sauce.

Another nice closeup picture Julie!

Here you can see the cheese is melted and the other ingredients are well combined. Taste the sauce to
see if you need to add more seasoning.

Here, I am adding the Mornay sauce to a large mixing bowl, then adding a few Tbsp. of butter to enrich
the sauce. This will also provide a little more flavor and silkiness.

Stir in the butter well.

Add your well drained pasta to the sauce as shown.

Use a rubber spatula to remove every drop of the sauce from the pan.

Then gently mix the sauce and
the pasta together.

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Add your freshly cracked Black Pepper to the bowl…

Then add your salt. Himalayan salt isn’t as salty as table salt, which is why you can add so much as the
milk products and pasta in this dish are very bland. Stir to combine. Taste the pasta to see if you need
to add more seasoning.

Now, preheat your oven to 400’F.

Add your Mac N’ Cheese to a casserole dish or dishes that have been sprayed with a non-stick cooking
spray.

Fill the dish almost to the top.

Here I am shredding more of the three cheeses to the top of each casserole dish.

Add as much or as
little as you like.

They are now ready to go into my preheated 400’F oven.

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You may want to place the casserole dishes onto a cookie sheet just in case your casserole spills over
during the baking process.  (Although we didn’t.)

Here I opted not to as the cookie sheet isn’t large enough to hold both casserole dishes.

Bake the Mac N’ Cheese for about 25 minutes or until the top is well browned.

If needed, you can always turn your oven’s broiler on to brown the top as shown in this pic.
This was a somewhat complex dish to make, which does make enough for two meals.

We hope you give
this “from scratch” Italian inspired Mac N’ Cheese a try… we are sure you will love it!

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Red And Green Pasta Sauce w/ Plant Based Meatballs

This Quickie Came From My Idea of Wanting Red and Green Pasta, with Red and Green Sauce

Simple Really

It’s just a Red Pasta Sauce, and a Green Pesto Sauce

Heating the Sauces, Boiling the Pasta

Proceed to Mix the Sauces with the Pasta…

Bake the Veggie Meatballs as Directed…

Then Combine!  🙂

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Spaghetti and Meatball Sub Sand

The four things that I love the most are Spaghetti, Plant Based Meatballs, Bread, and Cheese.

Something Easy and Delicious to do with Leftover Spaghetti Pasta

Bake the Plant Based Meatballs, (According to package directions), Butter the Hoagie Buns and then Bake them to brown up a bit in the oven.  You can always use the Broiler.

Buttering The Breads

A Sprinkling of Garlic Salt…

Plant Based Meatballs Into The Oven

Buttered Hoagie Breads Into The Oven

Leftover Spaghetti Pasta…

Adding the Red Sauce…

Heating Up The Sauce in the Microwave

Heating Up Some Sauce for the Hoagie Buns

Spreading The Sauce In The Buns

Now, Adding the Heated Up Spaghetti Pasta and Sauce…

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Now, Add The Plant Based Meatballs…..

…Some Shaved Parmesan Cheese…. Fresh Parsley…..

Top with a bit of the Red Sauce

DONE!

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My Favorite Spaghetti Sand

I didn’t grow up in a particularly sophisticated family where food was concerned.  Oh, my grandmother that took me under her wing knew the fine arts of southern hospitality, and did teach me those, but for some reason my mother rebelled against such things and didn’t pass any of that knowledge on to me.  I think it was because she married my step-father and he was the one that rebelled against such things.  She just did whatever he wanted her to do. 

I believe that sophistication was looked down upon in my family when I was growing up so we ate like poor people did.  After all, my step-father, the surgeon, grew up poor in Texas so we did tend to eat like poor people did, even though there was money to eat like upper middle class people ate.

Having said that, sometimes my tastes do gravitate toward the more humble eating classes.

We didn’t grow up having our Spaghetti or Pasta Dinners with some lovely Italian Bread, it was always our Sandwich Bread smeared with some Butter and Garlic.  I have since added some Paprika to it as well.

When you grow up eating something simple then you get used to it. 

It then is no longer simple, but delicious.

Baking Sandwich Bread. Garlic Bread in the Oven (Broil)

Perfect to ME!

Browning The Other Side

Now, just place some Spaghetti and some Fresh Basil and then you have an excellent Sand!

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Our Throw-Together Italian Dinner

For Some Reason I, Julie, Love Black and Green Food Together

Eaten With A Lovely Tomato Focaccia Bread

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Our Throw-Together Ingredients:

Leftover Feta Cheese and Sundried Tomatoes Packed In Olive Oil

Black Olives

Pesto in Olive Oil

Leftover Pastas

Bread Crumbs

Parmesan Cheese

Roasted Garlic Cloves

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Our Leftover Ingredients

This is a Favorite Pesto of Ours, Look at that Beautiful Olive Oil!

Boil the Pasta Following Package Directions Until Al Dente

Here we Have Also Sliced and Buttered the Bread

Overdosing on Bread  🙂

(This bread was getting stale so I thought we should cook it before it went bad.)

You Just Need a Bowl to Combine Your Ingredients

Once You Have Drained the Pasta, Place it Into a Mixing Bowl

Next, Add Some of the Pesto, Bread Crumbs, and Grate Some Parmesan Cheese Over Top

(This is all done to taste.)

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Adding a Few Black Olives

Mix Together, Now Add Some Roasted Garlic Cloves

(We ended up adding an additional leftover Pasta to this dish, not pictured above in the ingredients.)

Place into a Casserole Dish Sprayed with a Cooking Oil Spray

Top With Some Grated Parm and Bake for About 20-25 Minutes

Delicious!

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The “I Don’t Know What To Call It Pasta/Pasta Sandwich”

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Ingredients:

Creamy Basil Alfredo Sauce

Jar of Marinated Artichoke Hearts, drained

Leftover Roasted Garlic Cloves, smooshed, and use as many as you like

Sun Dried Tomatoes, as many as you like

A Good Bread, Butter, and Cheese

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Just place the contents of the jar into a sauce pan on a medium heat, add the drained jar of marinated artichoke hearts, and as many of the roasted garlic cloves you desire, and then just let it come to a nice simmering boil.  Turn the heat down a few notches once it starts to boil.  I Julie, love a nice thick sauce so I will allow it to simmer away until it becomes as thick as I like.  Keep stirring the pot regularly so that it doesn’t burn on the bottom.  And just keep turning it down to lower settings.  When done to your liking, just keep it on low, or warm until you are ready to eat.

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In the Meantime…..

Bread and Butter

The Bread is a Tribeca Oven Asiago Cheese Loaf

The Butter is a Garlic Parmesan Basil, that I bought from Sprouts

All I did was to turn the oven on 350F.

On a foil lined sheet pan I placed the two halves of the bread, that I sliced into.  Then buttered both sides.

I then grated some Romano Cheese on each slice.  I also did a sprinkling of Paprika.

Into the oven they go.  8-10 minutes on 350F. 

Then turn off the oven and broil until a bit brown.

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When ready you can place this great sauce onto some pasta, with some of the great bread from above.  You can also add a salad to make it the perfect meal.

Don’t forget, you can also make a sandwich of it!

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Peachy, Beigey Pasta

I Julie, am known for mixing different pastas together to create a meal.  I just started pulling out ingredients from the pantry one day and that’s when I noticed that it’s all got this great peachy/red/beigey color to everything.  So….

..I decided to throw it all together, and here we are!

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Ingredients:

Red Lintel Penne Pasta

Chickpea Spaghetti Noodles

Rosa Alfredo Sauce

Various Italian Spices

A Good Bread, and Lots of Herbs

Garnish:  Crispy Harvest Snaps

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Just Heating Up The Sauce..

If you like you can grind some Black Pepper, or add a few dashes of your favorite Hot Sauce.  Perhaps even add some Chili Powder or Cayenne.  Make it as hot or as mild as you like!

To thicken the sauce simply allow it to simmer away on a medium-low heat, while stirring occasionally.  When it is as thick as you  like, then it is done.

Cooking The Pastas….

Draining the Pastas…

Plating The Pastas….

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My Herb Bread

This is a favorite bread of mine that we buy often.  I place it on a foil lined sheet pan, slice the bread without cutting through to the bottom, smear it with a butter or margarine all over it.  Place into a 350F oven for about 8 minutes.  Then turn off the heat and broil until a nice brown color.  That’s when I inserted fresh herbs all between the slices.  Then serve with your delicious pasta dinner.

Topped With Some Fresh Herbs and Some Harvest Snaps

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Easy Basil Pesto/Sun Dried Tomato Penne Pasta Dinner

I admit it needs some color here, as in a salad or fresh herbs.  But, this recipe was about using what is already in your pantry, also most people always have loaf bread at the ready.

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Turning Loaf Bread Into Great Bread

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But First:

I was shopping at Sprouts when I saw this Simply Organic Sweet Basil Pesto packet.  Needless to say, I bought a few.  It looked like an easy way to make weeknight Italian on a busy schedule.  I also bought some of Sprouts Organic Penne Rigate Durum Wheat Pasta.

I simply followed the package instructions….

Boiled the Pasta….

Drained the Pasta….

Added the Sweet Basil Pesto Sauce to the Cooked Pasta….

I then decided to add this great Cucina and Amore Sun Dried Tomato Bruschetta as well…

Mixing Together..

Now Let’s Grate Plenty of Cheeses Over Top

I’m using Parmesan and Romano, as much as I like!

I Then Sprinkled Some Italian Bread Crumbs In

And, some more Cheese…

Leftovers going into the refrigerator for lunches.

If you need to freshen the pasta up because it is a bit dry, just add a little bit of Extra Virgin Olive Oil.

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I do write above about how I grew up eating regular loaf bread as an accompaniment to our weekly spaghetti dinners.

I am featuring it here because it is something that most people have on hand in every kitchen.  Therefore, when in need of a nice bread for any Italian of your choice, here is a substitute.

Loaf Bread, Butter/Margarine/Garlic Salt/Paprika

Cook for about 6 minutes on 350F, then Broil until brown.

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Whenever you are in need of a Quickie!

Ciao!

Julie and Gordon

 

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To View More Italian Website Pages:

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Julie’s Italian Appetizers and Edible Gifts

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Gordon and Julie Italian Seconda Parte 2

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Cool Refreshing Summer

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Father’s Day Pizza Party

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00Whann Way Father’s Day

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La Sciatta Giulia Anna’s (Italian Sloppy Julie Ann’s)

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You Say Tomato

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Edible Gifts:  Italian, Greek, and Irish

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Pasta, Pasta, Pasta

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Autumn Pasta

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Mother’s Day in the Garden

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Amiamo I’italiano

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Pizza, Pizza

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Grillin’ Italian

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Italianate Tre

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A Labor Day Vacay Away

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Modern Day Mona (Lisa) Halloween

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Even More Italian (Just For You)

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Quickie Italian

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Tavolino Da Caffe Italiana (Coffee Table Italian)

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Julie Italian

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An Italian Natale

 

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Grazie,

Gordon and Julie

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Blogging With Julie MORE in 2024

Blogging With Julie MORE in 2024

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You Only Live Twice

You Only Live Twice

      You only live twice: Once when you are born, and once when you look death in the face. After Basho Japanese Poet 1643-94 ———————————————————- More Recipes Will Be Added In The Future, Julie and Gordon ————————————————————————————————- 00Whann’s Asian Balls (You Only Live 

John’s Pass, and Bubba Gump Shrimp

John’s Pass, and Bubba Gump Shrimp

 

 

 

Welcome to the Sunshine State

John’s Pass Intracoastal Waterway Located in Madeira Beach, Florida

John’s Pass is known for being a quaint fishing village.  It was actually created by a hurricane on September 27, 1848.  The locals just call it, “The Pass.”

John Levique, a pirate, made the first passage through the newly created pass, hence the name John’s Pass.

(His first name was most likely Jean, and not John.  His last name was most likely Leviche, and not Levique.)

Regardless, John’s Pass is located on the West Coast of Florida near St. Petersburg.

It is a beautiful area with lots of shops and restaurants, not to mention hotels close by. 

The Boardwalk is where we are here.  We decided to take our children and their partners out to lunch with us around Father’s Day, 2023.  Gordon and I also had such a good time that we decided to go back the following week for our 38th. Wedding Anniversary, and to do some more shopping.

Bubba Gump, was a MUST!  BOTH times!

Here is our depiction of our great days spent in John’s Pass.

See you at the beach!

Julie

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 Bubba Gump Shrimp CO.

185 Boardwalk Place West

Madeira Beach, Florida  33708

(727) 397-4867

Bubba Gump, Madeira Beach, Florida

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Bubba Gump Shrimp, CO. With Our Family

June 11, 2023

 L to R:  Susannah, Mackenzie, Veronica, Brian, Julie, Gordon, and Brodie

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Back to John’s Pass,  June 22, 2023

Julie and Gordon

Our 38th. Wedding Anniversary

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Our Florida Sunshine Orange Cocktail

We came across a store on the John’s Pass Boardwalk that sold Florida wines.

Needless to say, we bought a few and created this cocktail using 2 of our purchases.

It tasted exactly like an Orange Creamsicle from our youth.  🙂

The ingredients are simple as you just need to combine the Orange Cream with the Orange Sunshine
Wine. We had this drink at a quaint wine shop down in Madeira Beach. You also must have the cool
glasses to go with the drink!  🙂

Add a few cups of ice to your blender then add the Orange Cream, and the Orange Sunshine Wine.

Blend until the ice is crushed nicely!

Pour into your special souvenir glasses and ENJOY!

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Cheers to Us!

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We go Together Like Peas and Carrots

Forrest Gump

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Shrimp Baby Mobile Project

This was my, Julie’s, idea once I saw these cups of cute little shrimp for sale in the gift shop at the Bubba Gump restaurant.  I knew they would be great as a baby mobile.  It also fits our personalities and interests to have a shrimp mobile and not some other kind.

Here Gordon is working on it.

The Finished Results for Baby Isabelle

(Project Instructions Down Below)

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Our Recreation Dinner of Bubba Gump Shrimp

(Above purchases made from the Bubba Gump gift shop.)

We Wanted to Recreate Our Delicious Shrimp Dinners

(My old Elvis magazine, above.)

Elvis and Forrest Gump

Gordon Creating our Shrimp Dinner

He’s packing our shrimp into our souvenir Bubba Gump glasses.  I got out our Fondue Forks to use here.  They are long and can reach the shrimp in the bottom of the glasses.

Topping off with Bubba Gump Hot Sauce

(We asked our waitress for some of the paper newspapers to use with our dinner. 

She very happily agreed to give us a few.  🙂

Greenbow County Dispatch

Gump Shrimp and Peas and Carrots

(Recipes Down Below)

Greenbow County Dispatch

And Chocolate.. Because Life Is Like A Box Of…

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John’s Pass Boardwalk

As with any Boardwalk along the beach or ocean front, you will always find lots of quaint shops, and many eating establishments.  You know you will find lots of seafood and ‘Specials of the Day.’  Souvenir’s, T-Shirts, Beach Towels, Swimsuits, and lots of beach toys.  Just don’t forget the sunscreen!

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We wanted to take the family out to dinner for Father’s Day, and before Veronica gave birth to Isabelle, but also because Gordon would be leaving soon to work overseas for the foreseeable future, and it was just our way of creating some nice memories before he would be leaving.

Mackenzie and Brodie

Love all the restaurant themes!  There is nothing as quaint!

Now, who wouldn’t want to ride on that Shark Boat?

The John’s Pass Intracoastal Waterway

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Julie Along The Boardwalk

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I thought this was a great shot of John’s Pass and you can see The Gulf of Mexico in the distance.

Gordon and Julie

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You Can Eat Outside Or Inside

(Gulf of Mexico View)

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July 6, just happens to be Veronica’s birthday.  🙂

Also, interestingly enough, the book the movie is based on is actually very small.

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A Great Tourist Shot

(The bench is in Savannah, Georgia. 

They have since removed all of these great benches.  Why?  I have no idea?)

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Putting in our Reservation to Lunch

(They were short staffed that day so we had to wait awhile.)

Welcome

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Browsing the Gift Shop

“Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you’re gonna get.”

Forrest Gump

Takes me back to my groovy childhood in the 70’s!

Brian, Gordon, and Veronica in the Gift Shop

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While we were waiting for our reservation inside…..

we decided to have a drink at the bar outside.

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Drink Menu with Souvenir Glasses  🙂

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Enjoying The Atmosphere

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Shown To Our Table Inside The Restaurant

A view outside of our window of the drawbridge at the connection of the Intracoastal Waterway and The Gulf of Mexico.

Our Table

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Everyone Studying the Menu…

Virgin Cocktails, and Cocktails Have Arrived!

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Appetizers and Food Has Arrived

Gordon’s Ribs

Veronica’s and Brian’s Foods

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While Everyone Was Eating, I Took a Tour of the Restaurant

It was a pretty slow day, which I enjoyed so that I could wander around taking photos.

I do love a good themed restaurant.  Especially when based on a favorite movie of mine.

Not to mention that Gordon and I did grow up during the 60’s and 70’s.

Looks like one of our paintings we have at home.

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I Love These Booths!

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And Yes, There is Even a Hooter’s!  Hence, the Giant Chicken Wing.  🙂

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Plenty of Dinner and Drinking Boats to Choose From

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The Drawbridge

(You will see many Drawbridges along the West Coast chain of Islands along The Gulf of Mexico.)

I Thought This Boat Looked Fun and Tropical

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Yet Another Eating Establishment

I Do Love These Two

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Time For Some Family Photos

(Worst Lighting EVER!)  🙂

Julie and Gordon

Mackenzie, Brodie, and Susannah

Veronica, (Baby Isabelle) and Brian

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Shops and Restaurants, with Parking

(This area is next to the Boardwalk)

Back to John’s Pass and the Boardwalk

(One Week Later)

We came back for our Anniversary and to do some more shopping.

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A Quaint Ice Cream Shop

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We Hit The Shopping First..

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…Then Straight to Bubba Gump for Lunch

Our Booth

Run Forrest, Run

(You display that when you don’t need your waiter or waitress.

  When you would like someone to help you, then flip the sign to “Stop Forrest, Stop.)”

Sun’s Out, Rum’s Out

Happy 38th. Wedding Anniversary to Us!

Our Appetizer

I think this is the Run Across America Sampler.

The Fried Shrimp with Fries and Slaw is mine.

I think Gordon ordered the Jambalaya.

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RECIPES START HERE

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Write Up By Gordon

Peas and Carrots

Easy Peasy, Just Follow The Packaged Instructions

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Hush Puppies

(These were ready made in the frozen section of our Commissary.  Just follow the packaged instructions.)

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On The Stove Top to Cook

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Thawing the Shrimp in the Sink

(This is a 2 lb. Bag)

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Ingredients:

5 Garlic Cloves – minced

2 Tbsp. Butter

1 ½ Tbsp Bubba Gump Cajun Seafood Seasoning

1 Lb. Shrimp – deveined and peeled from Argentina – delicious.

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The Bubba Gump Hot Sauce and Cajun Seasoning we purchased from the restaurant gift shop.

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Slice your Garlic, then mince it.

Here I did enough for two recipes… the other will be explained later.

Place your butter in a large sauté pan and turn to medium heat. When the pan is hot and the butter is melted, add your Garlic. You can also see the Peas and Carrots cooking in a small pot off to the side with a touch of butter. Cook these on a slow boil to just warm them up.

Sautee your Garlic for just a few minutes…

Then add your Bubba Gump Cajun Seasoning and let it cook for about 1 min.

Now, add your Shrimp to the pan and stir together with the other ingredients.

Shrimp cook fast (About 7 min.) so when they go from opaque to white and firm they are done. Stir occasionally as they cook. They will also continue to cook as they will remain hot for some time after you plate them so slightly under cooking them is recommended.

Add them to your large plate and serve with the peas and carrots!

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Here we just wanted to make Shrimp Cocktail, so again start with your Butter then add your Garlic.

Now add your Shrimp and stir all the ingredients together.

Again, they will cook in just a few minutes, so continue to stir for even cooking.

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Here is our Bubba Gump Glass… fitting for this cocktail.

Start by adding some Shrimp Cocktail Sauce to the glass as shown.

Now, add a few Shrimp to the glass, then another dollop of Cocktail Sauce and continue until the glass is full.

Here I am also adding some of the juices from the pan! Top off the cocktail with some more sauce.

Now that is a meal fit for Movie night watching … Star Wars!

No, I think we watch Forrest Gump!  🙂

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SHRIMP MOBILE PROJECT STARTS HERE

Lots of Cute Shrimp in Cups we Purchased at the Bubba Gump Gift Shop.

I knew that I would be our Grand-Daughter’s main caregiver, I also knew that we would be providing duplicate of everything she would need, including a baby bed with all the trimmings that come with.  I also knew that along with the bed (which was given to us by our Son-In-Law’s sister’s mother and father-in-law), that we would need something along the lines of a mobile for her to look at.

Ready to Start The Project

We are beach people that love the ocean, and beach life living, we also love seafood, so when I saw all of these cute shrimp being sold in cute cups at the Bubba Gump gift shop, I knew they would make a great mobile.

Here is what you will need:

Plush Shrimp
Various sized Chop Sticks
Fishing Line
Small Drill Bit (1/32) and Drill
Scissors
Ruler
Needle

AND,
Two attentive dogs to provide morale support!

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At first, I was going to use this aluminum bar which would
attach to the crib, and I would hang the Shrimp Mobile from it.

I am removing the drill bit from the package.

I drilled a small hole in the end of the bar which would then
hold the nut and hanger seen to the left. I am using some scrap
press board to drill into, so I don’t ruin the table.

Here you can see me affixing the parts to the bar.

And Done! This may work well for you, but I ended up
scratching this idea… more to follow later. Now to make the
mobile.

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It was Julie’s idea to use Chopsticks.  I have two long Chopsticks as the top part of the mobile and
everything could then hang from them. I located the center of
the chopsticks and drilled a small hole in each of them.

I then drilled small holes at the ends of those chopsticks. I
repeated this process for my other chopsticks. One set of two
chopsticks for every tier of your Mobile. We used large,
medium, and small lengthened chopsticks.

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Spooky… ever watchful!

She is so cute!

There is our Sparky!

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I started with the two long chopsticks and using my fishing line,
made a loop running the line through the center of both
chopsticks. I used the metal loop to prevent the line from
pulling through. I would cut it off later.

I then strung long lengths of fishing line from each of the
chopsticks ends and tied them off. This is the top of my mobile

I now moved using plant hangars on our lanai and hung the
mobile from them. This made it easier to tie my knots.

I then repeated my first step, tying my fishing line through the
middle of the chopsticks and the ends. You can see the top set
is well balanced.

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I used a fishing knot to tie the items together. You basically,
run the line through the hole then twist the lines together
about 5 times then run the end of the line back through the top
and pull.

Now, run your fishing line through the end of your needle and
push your needle through a spot on your shrimp.

(It was Julie’s idea to hang the shrimp differently and not thread the fishing line through the same place on each shrimp.  This way, you have them doing different things.)

Pictured is a more detailed look at this step! Nice pic Julie!

Then place it to the length you want it to hang from your
mobile, and tie it off.

Here you can see we use the Sea Turtle’s flipper.

Repeat this step again and again!

Tie the shrimp at varying lengths from the chopstick ends.

Continue and repeat!

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Our Finished Shrimp Mobile

SHHHHH… she is asleep!

Sweet, Sweet Baby

Sweet Shrimpy Dreams Isabelle

What a great mobile she will have to look at when she wakes
up. Let’s just hope she isn’t allergic to shellfish when she gets
older.
We hope you try this great mobile yourself!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Outside Movie Night with Bond

Outside Movie Night with Bond

              How To Create An Outdoor Movie Theater In Your Own Backyard Area DOCTOR NO Released in 1962 Dr. No is the first movie to be released in the James Bond Franchise, written by Ian Fleming.  Dr. No was 

I’ve Got a Licence to Grill

I’ve Got a Licence to Grill

        (We have Licence/License spelled the two different ways because it is spelled one way in the U.K. and the other way here in America.) —————————————————————————-   JUST ASSIGNED TO DR. NO IN CRAB KEY, JAMAICA I Have A License To Grill, 

Blogging With Julie All Along (Past and Present Blogging)

Blogging With Julie All Along (Past and Present Blogging)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hello and Welcome to My Personal Blogs

I started this website in July, 2011, along with my very first blog post.  I tend to write about whatever I may be going through.  When I started the website I was being bullied by many a “Gray-Haired Bully” in our neighborhood.  I guess that we were the neighborhood ‘liberals’ and they were the neighborhood conservatives/MAGA’S.   They have all since died, and our neighborhood is a bit nicer place because of it. 

I have been blogging ever since about whatever I may encounter.  I have had a cyber-stalker for almost 3 decades now.  He is my husband’s former best friend, Paul Gray, of Charlotte, North Carolina.  He has played a roll in trying his best to sabotage my blog postings so that my voice will be silenced.  He is a very sophisticated hacker and one of those MAGA’S.  A religious right extremist who lives to silence me.  My blogs are my voice.  Paul has done his best to try and silence my voice.  In the past he has done a good job of it.  However, I now have a better and more secure server.  Therefore, he has a harder time doing the damage he used to do.  At one point he even gave us a computer that he had built, just so he could spy on us.

In having my voice silenced, I look around at all the good company that I am in.  Princess Diana, Meghan Markle, Hillary Clinton, Anita Hill, Jenna Barbee, Jane Fonda, Ashley Judd, Malala Yousafzai, etc….  Not that I am daring to compare myself to most of these icons.  Only that I am in the same boat as they are.

I totally understand why Meghan Markle left the Royal Family in order to have her voice back.  I too live to have my voice heard.  It really doesn’t matter if anyone is listening.  That is not the point.  The point is that I have the right to have a voice.  To proclaim it!  Loudly, sometimes!

You are very welcomed here.  This is a diary that is an account of my life and my family’s.

I do recommend that everyone needs to start a diary/journal/blog/vlog, etc.

Everyone should have their lives be known.  Your story told.  No matter how boring you may think it is.  Leave a trail behind for those that will follow you.  Your history needs to be told.

Thank you for your interest,

Julie (Barefoot)

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Julie’s Backyard Wildlife and Gardening Blogging Continues…

Julie’s Backyard Wildlife and Gardening Blogging Continues…

      It is Always a Thrill to see a Racoon in our Backyard (One time I saw one peeking in our Kitchen Nook window.  He was watching me while I was lollygagging around the kitchen.  He was adorable.  But, when he realized I 

An Old Florida Jezebel (Sauce)

An Old Florida Jezebel (Sauce)

  (The picture above not only showcases my Old Florida Jezebel Sauce, I also depict our daughter Veronica’s art from when she was a Fine Arts student in college.  Any chance I get to do that, I do!)       Let The Sunshine In 

Grillin’ Italian

Grillin’ Italian

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ciao and Buongiorno!

Welcome to Grillin’ Italian

We love to grill, we love Italian, therefore it makes sense that we would create a page dedicated to Grillin’ Italian.

Italian food showcases a lot of food that we love. 

For example, tomatoes, mushrooms, garlic, olive oil, cheese, artichoke, eggplant, herbs, etc.

So, here we bring to you some of our favorite recipes that are Italian inspired for the grill.

We hope that you will enjoy them as much as we do.

Arrivederci!

Gordon and Julie

(Be sure to check back periodically to see what new we have grilled.)

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Grilled Colorful Bell Peppers with Mozzarella, Pesto, and a Basil Leaf

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Grilled Stuffed Portobello Mushroom Sandwiches w/ the Works!

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Grillin’ All The Peppers and Portobello Stuffed Mushrooms

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A Lovely Appetizer

Quinoa Stuffed Peppers with Feta and Spicy Pepperoncini Oil

(Baked in the Oven)

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Fresh Peppers

Sourdough Bread

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Our Sandwich Spread Ingredients

(For our Portobello Stuffed Mushroom Sandwiches)

This was a delicious sandwich spread and very easy to make. 

My suggestion is to just eyeball the ingredients to your liking.

Of course you will need a Mayonnaise and a Mustard.

(I, Julie, used Dukes Mayonnaise and a Grey Poupon Dijon Mustard.)

I chopped some leftover Marinated Artichoke Hearts that we had in the refrigerator into small pieces.

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Just place the Artichoke into a bowl.

add some Mayonnaise and Mustard to your tastes.

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Grate in some Parmesan Cheese…

Stir Together

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Leftover Quinoa

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Beautiful Colorful Sweet Peppers

This was actually an afterthought. 

We had some leftover Quinoa and these beautiful Sweet Peppers.

I, Julie, thought it would be great to stuff them with the Quinoa and bake them with some Cheese.

Here Gordon is slicing them down the middle and removing the seeds.

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Stuffing the Peppers w/ Quinoa

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The jar you see in the photo top left, is a favorite food of mine.

  Cheese stuffed Peperoncini. 

The oil has some heat and I love it!  I will sometimes cut up other cheeses such as Manchego to marinate in that delicious oil.  We don’t tend to throw it out.  We use it whenever we can in our cooking and eating.  Here I wanted it drizzled over the Quinoa and Feta Stuffed Peppers to be baked.  Simply place them into a 350F oven for about 15 minutes or so until they are done to your likeness.

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Gordon Creating the Colorful Bell Pepper, Mozzarella and Pesto Appetizers

(This write up by Gordon)

Here, I am cutting our Bell Peppers into wedges using the natural curves of the pepper to hold the ingredients.

Now, lay the cut sections on a baking tray.

I like using the Fresh Mozzarella as it melts easily and tastes great. 

Being pre-sliced is another good option.

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Use your knife to slice the Mozzarella sections to fit into the peppers.

Fill the pepper sections with the cheese as seen above.

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Jarred Pesto

Use about a tsp. of some nice Pesto to accent the Mozzarella as it needs some additional flavor.

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Here I scraped out the black gills of the mushroom with a spoon, as they don’t taste good when they are this big.  I left the stem of the mushroom in, but it can also be removed and chopped up and mixed with the stuffing.

The Stuffing Ingredients for the Portobello Mushrooms

To make the stuffing we used Cream Cheese, Sharp Cheddar Cheese, Parmesan Cheese, Pecorino Romano Cheese. Fresh Garlic, Roasted Garlic, and Bacon.  How can this combination of ingredients not taste delicious on anything?

To start, grate your cheeses into a large bowl

Sharp Cheddar

Now, add your Cream Cheese…

Then slice your Garlic thinly using as many, or as little as you like. 

Once sliced, continue to chop them into a small mince.

Add the minced Garlic to the cheese mixture.

Chop the Roasted Garlic as well. 

I like using the varied flavors of Garlic which make the stuffing mixture more flavorful in my opinion.

Add the Roasted Garlic to the bowl.

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BACON

Into The Microwave

We like to cook our bacon using this cup like device which keeps the cooked bacon away from the grease. 

Using the microwave to do this is another plus!

Here are the results.

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We recently used most of the Grilled Artichoke Hearts which are in a nice seasoned oil.  I thought it would be good to use this olive oil on the mushrooms to keep them from sticking and add some great flavor.

Use a brush to coat the olive oil onto the mushroom caps as shown above.

Here I am breaking up the bacon to place into the stuffing mixture.  Be sure to taste the bacon to ensure it’s good!… Yeah right!  Add some freshly cracked pepper then mix the bacon into the cheese mixture until well combined, then taste the mixture.  You shouldn’t need any salt as the Parmesan Cheese and Bacon should have enough salt in them.  Either way, add more ingredients as needed to suit your taste.

Use your best tool to load up the mushroom caps.  Stuff them staying just below the stem as if stuffed too full, the cheese will run out creating a big mess.

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Here you can see all the items I am about to grill for this great meal.

I usually preheat the grill on high for about 5 min. then scrape off any excess items using a grill brush.  Then I turn the heat down to medium and spray the grill grates with a high heat oil.  Pam makes a brand especially for the Grill.  Now, place your stuffed mushrooms on the main part of the grill.

I placed the stuff Bell Peppers on the top rack to bake.

When the mushrooms become pliable, remove them and place them back onto your baking sheet.

I then grilled the long sweet peppers for a few minutes on each side until they were soft and slightly charred on each side.  When the cheese melts and the peppers are slightly softened, you can remove them and place them on a baking sheet.  You may have to remove some liquid around the cheese during the cooking process or as least before you place them on the tray.

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Take the baking sheet and place the stuffed mushrooms under the broiler until browned as shown above.  It will take a few minutes to broil them to this color.

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Here you can see the melted Mozzarella Cheese inside the pepper sections.

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The Sourdough Bread

Slice your bread loaf into sections about 3/4 of an inch thick as shown.

Use your broiler to toast the slices as shown on both sides.

To make this great sandwich, spread the Mayonnaise mixture on one side of the bread

Add some lettuce leaves, Green Leaf, Red Leaf, Romaine… etc then top with a stuffed mushroom cap.

Add a drizzle of Balsamic Vinegar and top with another slice of bread!

Here we basically did the same thing, but this time added some of the Grilled Sweet Peppers that were skinned and de-seeded!

Another great way to eat these great ingredients between two slices of bread!

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Here we garnished the Bell Peppers with some Basil Leaves. 

You could also add a drizzle of Balsamic Vinegar to them. 

What an excellent grilled Italian dinner!

CIAO!

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If you would like to view our other Italian food posts…….

Julie’s Italian Appetizers and Edible Gifts

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Gordon and Julie Italian Seconda Parte 2

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Cool Refreshing Summer

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Father’s Day Pizza Party

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00Whann Way Father’s Day

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La Sciatta Giulia Anna’s (Italian Sloppy Julie Ann’s)

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You Say Tomato

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Edible Gifts:  Italian, Greek, and Irish

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Autumn Pasta

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Mother’s Day in the Garden

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Italian Naan Pizza

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Gordon and Julie Italian

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Amiamo I’italiano

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Pizza, Pizza

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Grillin’ Italian

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Italianate Tre

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A Labor Day Vacay Away

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Modern Day Mona (Lisa) Halloween

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Even More Italian (Just For You)

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Quickie Italian

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Tavolino Da Caffe Italiana (Coffee Table Italian)

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Julie Italian

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An Italian Natale

 

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Grazie,

Gordon and Julie

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It’s a Mermaid Thing…

It’s a Mermaid Thing…

        Just a Tails up, everything is going to be Mermazing….   What with the popularity of Mermaids now, I would like to welcome you. I love Mermaids! At this writing (2022) I am a 61 year old woman on the outside, 

Pizza, Pizza

Pizza, Pizza

      Pizza:  Latin for “to pound, or stamp.”  The Lombardic word bizzo, or pizzo, meaning mouthful.   Was brought to Italy by the Lombards in the middle of the 6th. century A.D. A Pizza consists of a base of dough with a selection of 

Let Us Eat Cake, (Julie’s Cakes Continues)

Let Us Eat Cake, (Julie’s Cakes Continues)

 

 

 

 

 

Currently Baking Until You Can Insert a Toothpick and it Comes Out Clean  🙂

Strawberry Jalapeno Sheet Cake

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Gordon and Julie, Charlotte, North Carolina, 1982 in Gordon’s parents kitchen.

We are baking Christmas Cakes/Breads for his parents to give to their friends and associates as gifts.

Note the expression on my face.  I remember this day very well.  I HATED Baking cakes.  I HATED that they roped me into this.

All I remember are the Cranberries.  I HATED Cranberries.  Unless a cake was packed with Chocolate then I wasn’t interested.

That was a very long time ago and here I am starting yet another Cake Blog Page on my website, 38 years later at this writing, 2021.  I will need to ask for this recipe so that we can bake them all again.  🙂

p.s.  I’m pretty sure they passed our cakes/breads off as theirs.  Grrr….

Julie Lancaster-Whann

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Welcome to Let Us Eat Cake!

Julie’s Strawberry Jalapeno Cake

AND,

Strawberries Dipped in Strawberry Jalapeno Frosting

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Recipes Starts Right Here!

Julie’s Strawberry Jalapeno Cake with Strawberry Jalapeno Frosting

Gathering All of the Ingredients

Including my Vintage Electric Mixer

The Ingredients For The Cake:

3/4 Cup Butter, Room Temperature

1 1/2 Cups Sugar (We used Splenda)

3 Cups Cake Flour, Sifted

1 T. Baking Powder

3/4 t. Salt

4 Eggs

1 Cup Buttermilk

1 1/2 t. Vanilla Extract

2 Cups Chopped Fresh Strawberry’s

1-2 Chopped Jalapeno Peppers, De-seeded

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Get out your mixer….

This vintage Mixer was a gift to me from my Grandmother.  She bought it at a yard sale in Rome, Georgia for $20.00 and brought it in her suitcase to Honolulu, Hawaii to visit us when we were living there.  I treasure it!

The Ingredients on the Right are for the Frosting:

1, 8 oz. Cream Cheese, Room Temperature

1/2 Cup Butter, Room Temperature

1 Jar Jalapeno Strawberry Jam, or Less if you Prefer

5 Cups Confectioner’s Sugar

To Garnish the Cake:

A Jalapeno Pepper and Whole Strawberry’s

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Freshly Washed Strawberry’s for the Cake

Spray a Sheet Pan with Pam Baking Oil with Flour in it

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Time to Make the Cake…

You first want to place your room temperature Butter and Sugar into your largest Mixing Bowl and beat on a medium speed until well blended and a bit fluffy. 

You next want to add all of your Eggs, one at a time until well blended.

Blend together after each Egg.

Using a Food Mill Potato Ricer as a Sifter

(Hey, it works!)

In another bowl, adding my Cake Flour, Baking Powder, and Salt to the Ricer.

  Sifting into the bowl.

My Dry Mixture and My Buttermilk

Time to Add my Dry Mixture Interspersed with the Buttermilk

(Start with the Dry, and End with the Dry.)

In other words, add some of the dry mixture to the mixing bowl and blend.  Once blended, add some of the buttermilk until blended.  Then add some of the dry mixture until blended, then add some wet.  Start with the Dry, End with the Dry.

All Mixed Together

Now It’s Time to Add the Vanilla Extract

Mix Together

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Now It’s Time to Chop the Jalapeno’s and Strawberry’s

I Chopped About 1 and 1/2 Jalapeno’s into Small Dice

I then placed them into a colander with some Flour to coat.

I shook out the extra Flour and then added the Jalapeno’s to the batter.

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Mix Together

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Chopping the Strawberry’s into small Chunks

Coating Them With Flour…

Adding Them to the Batter

Time to Pour into our Sheet Pan

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Preheat the Oven to 350F

Bake For Approximately 25 Minutes

When You Can Put a Toothpick in and it Comes Out Clean, It is Ready

Cooling on Top of a Jigsaw Puzzle

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Jalapeno Strawberry Jam

(This entire cake and frosting is because of this Jalapeno Strawberry Jam inspiration.)

Making The Frosting

Again, time to use the Mixer.

Jalapeno Strawberry Jam, Cream Cheese, and a Jalapeno Garnish

Place your Room Temperature Cream Cheese and Butter into Your Mixing Bowl and Beat Until Creamy

Now Add Your Jalapeno Strawberry Jam, as much as you like, to the mixture. 

I added about 3/4 of the jar.

Now we add all of the Confectioner’s Sugar, beating as we go.

Gordon Being Goofy on the Right!  🙂

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The Cake and the Frosting is Ready

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Time to Pour the Frosting Over the Cake

We Want This to Set

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Delicious!  Garnish with a Jalapeno Pepper and some Strawberry’s

Really Good Too!

Can I fix you a Plate?

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Some of the Leftover Frosting

I thought that Strawberry’s would be delicious dipped into the leftover Frosting. 

I was right!

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Let us eat cake!

Julie

 

 

 

Our Asian Inspired 4th. of July

Our Asian Inspired 4th. of July

                Happy Independence Day!   On this particular July 4th. we wanted to do something a bit different. We always seemed to eat the same foods each year, over and over again.  Those classic and traditional foods are 

Gordon and Julie’s Everyday Seafood

Gordon and Julie’s Everyday Seafood

            Blackened Grouper Cheek Po’ Boys These are actually based on our love of Grouper Cheeks. The Slaw above is actually an excellent one we did for St. Patrick’s Day and we used the leftovers here.  See that recipe below: 

Sixty’s, (Sensational or Surviving?)  We’ll see, right?

Sixty’s, (Sensational or Surviving?) We’ll see, right?

 

 

 

 

Welcome to My Sixty’s

Currently Aging to Perfection

(Or Rotting and Disintegrating?  But I swear this to you, as long as there are moisturizers and Loreal Superior Performance Medium Blonde, I will always be here for you.)  🙂

When I look at myself in the mirror, I see that this is what I am supposed to look like.  My entire life has been leading up to this.  Being born, growing up, adolescence, adulthood, middle age, and now my senior years.  I have arrived!  Now it’s time to put all the pain of growing up and maturing behind me and just enjoy what time I have left.  I am hoping that this is MY time.  My time to shine!

Julie Lancaster-Whann

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I turned 60 on February 13, 2021

60!

Happy 60th. Birthday to ME!

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It is very easy to look in the mirror and see all the growing pains.  The scars of growing up.  My C-Section scar from where they removed my daughter when she was born.  The scars on my knees of every bicycle/skate board accident that I ever had when I would fall down and scar my knees bloody.  Every brown spot on my body from growing up in the sun whether it be in Georgia in my youth, or Florida and Hawaii in my adulthood.

Just like in an autopsy, everything on my body tells the story of my life.  I wear every scar as a badge of honor that tells my story.

I have no desire to erase the history of my life by having some face lift, or laser treatment to remove my sun spots that represent every fun day I ever had in the sun.  As long as they aren’t skin cancer then I am o.k. with them.  They aren’t beautiful but they represent my story.  And my story isn’t always very beautiful either.

I have no earthly idea what to expect from my sixty’s?  Will they be nifty?  Sensational?  Or will I just be surviving them?  I have no idea!  But, I will find out, won’t I? 

I will do my best to make them the best years of my life.

Julie Lancaster-Whann

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And we need to eat a lot more of this in our 60’s.  🙂

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If you would like to follow my 50’s:

Click Here For My:  Nifty Fifties

AND,

My Nifty 50’s and 60’s Skincare

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Loving the Organized GOLD!

Accessories That I Always Have With Me

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I.C.U.

(Photography is a fun and rewarding hobby of mine.)

My Herb Garden is Therapy to Me

So, Let’s Get Started.

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Blog Entries Start Here

Blogging With Julie

(Sparky and Spooky, always by my side.)

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March 15, 2025

I Turned 64 on February 13, 2025

I Wanted a Harry Potter Cake with the Mum Spelled out.  Not Mom as we say in America, but Mum.

The Mum is what they say in the U.K. when referring to their Mom’s, but I wanted the Mum because of the T.V. Australian T.V. show Bluey, where they refer to their Mom as Mum.  Isabelle’s favorite show.

The reason I wanted a Harry Potter cake is because Harry Potter got me through Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s, The Inauguration, and my Birthday.  I’ve been a bit down since Election 2024 when Trump won.  Harry Potter got me through it all.  Not Harry Potter the character, but the entire series with all of the characters combined.  I even did a Harry Potter Christmas.  We all enjoyed it immensely.  

Flowers and Isabelle Art

I LOVE MY Cake!

Isabelle Helped Me Celebrate

MUM!

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Isabelle and her Parents, Veronica and Brian  🙂

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Isabelle With Her Bluey Sidewalk Chalk

Future Artist, It’s In Her Blood

Her Mom Is An Artist

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Drawing Tutu a Pretty Picture

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I don’t know what 64 has in store for me. 

What with our failed American healthcare system I may not even make it to 65. 

Tutu and Peanuku, (I Live For Her)

My heart doctor originally from Syria fled the country with his family once Trump got elected.  The heart doctor I saw that replaced him forgot me in the exam room.  Dr. Muhammed.  After I waited 45 minutes he came into the room, turned the computer on, then received a phone call and left me in the exam room alone with the computer on.  Then, he never came back.  I heard him go into the exam room beside me and start to see that patient.  Had I not left the room and gone to the front desk I might have been locked in the building for the night!  I kid you not!  I informed the two people left in the office building what happened to me.  They were very sympathetic.  But…..

The bottom line is that I was invisible and I was forgotten.  My doctor from Syria cared about me.  Dr. Muhammed didn’t.  So yeah, let’s deport those foreign doctors that care about us and put into place those that don’t.  Oh, don’t be fooled by the Dr. Muhammed name.  He was a very handsome man fluent in English.  As in he has lived here his whole life and most likely was born here.  But, my impression of him is not very favorable.

As I see it, each and every one of us is going to be responsible for our own health.  We cannot count on this healthcare system to look after us.  Our American diet is designed to create ill health so that we are reliant on a ‘for profit’ healthcare system, where we go into debt just to survive.  We need to educate ourselves, eat healthy, exercise, and do what all we can to survive all that is to come.  We truly are on our own.

At least I’ve made it to 64.

Happy Birthday to Me,

Julie

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February 10, 2025

This is Me at 63, Almost 64

The older we get the uglier we are on the outside, but the happier we are on the inside.

At least that’s my story.

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Comparing Myself To Others

I am very sad to say that whenever I come across anyone around my age I can’t help but compare myself to them.  I don’t do it on purpose.  I know that there are many factors that determine how well we age.  Our DNA plays a major role, also our diet and our health.  How well we may, or may not have taken care of ourselves from youth on.

I do come across people that I will find out they are younger than me, and I am sometimes immediately shocked.  My insides are saying, ‘What?  YOU are younger than ME?’

I believe that I need to be kinder in my thoughts where that is concerned.  Oh, I never say anything to the person whom I see as not looking very well, but I do think it.  I really don’t want to think it anymore.

No one younger than you sees you as young.  Only those older than you.

Oh, there is that occasional person that will see you and acknowledge that you look good for your age.  But most will never see it.

I like getting older.  I am a much happier person now than I ever was in my life.  I think it’s because I am ageing.  I will be 64 on February, 13th. and I can’t wait!  O.K., birthday cake plays a major role in my loving birthday’s, but so does my Grand-Daughter Isabelle.

I just want to be old enough to put her before me, and young enough to keep up with her.

If someone were to ask me why I am a youthful 64 year old, my answer would be, “Immaturity.”  Too stubborn to age, willingly.  🙂

It’s actually quite freeing to age.  People don’t expect you to be this perfect person.  After all,  you are an old lady.  🙂

At the end of the day, it really has never mattered to me what people think about me.  I have always liked myself, even when there were times that no one liked me.

It all boils down to how you feel about yourself. 

As it is, I live in my head.

Julie

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November 11, 2024

MOOD

Today is Veteran’s Day.  Gordon is a vet.  Today we honor all of those that came before us and risked their lives, some died, lots of them bled just to give us the freedoms that we just freely gave away to Trump on November 5th. for him to destroy.  Yeah.  I’m having a hard time with these election results.  I ended up having an extra day off today.  I keep my granddaughter about 3-5 days a week.  I was originally supposed to keep her today but Veronica then informed me that I didn’t have to as Brian got the day off.  As much as I love her, I also needed this day to myself.  You see, I’m still grieving.  I’m not just grieving for me and my family, I’ve grieving for everyone.  Americans and the rest of the world.

I won’t be celebrating Thanksgiving this year.  Gordon is back overseas now so it would be me doing everything myself, and I just don’t feel like it.  It’s not that I’m not thankful, I just don’t have the energy to dedicate to the holiday, so if I do anything at all it will be something very simple like a T.V. dinner or a turkey sandwich.  I don’t even know if I will be doing anything for Christmas this year.  Usually, I already have my holiday plans, but not this year.

I guess that what I am trying to say to all of you is that if we don’t feel like doing it, then let’s not.  I understand that if you have small children that you really do need to make the effort.  I will do something nice for my granddaughter, and I have a nice idea of gifts that I will be giving everyone, I just don’t know if my home will reflect what all we used to do in the past.

We all grieve differently.  Oh, we may go through the same stages of grief, but some of us may take longer than others.  I’m going to go at my own pace, and not someone else’s.

Julie

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November 7, 2024

How The Next Few Years Will Affect ALL of Us

This is ME at 63!

I’ve been meaning to update my 60’s for awhile now but I’ve been busy doing other things, or working on other website pages.  However, I can’t get all of this out of my head unless I write it all down.  It becomes a distraction and I don’t wish to be distracted.  There are many things I want to get to.  I decided to write all of this here instead of my personal blog because all of this is going to affect my 60’s in a very negative way.  My 60’s blog isn’t just about my physical health, it’s also about my mental health.  Therefore, I wanted to place it here.  Know that every American will be affected negatively by the new administration coming into power come January 2025. 

Once I get this out of my system then I will be blogging here once again about any ailments I have, or will have.  You know, the fun topics.  But for now, I want to write about this.

I’ve Been Trying to Save my Fellow Americans Since 9/11

(Not from the terrorists, I figure a good National Security can do that, but from Republicans themselves.)

And as you can see, I have failed miserably.

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Time to Grieve, along with Self Love and Care

I’ve been up since 4:00 this morning.  Today I kept my granddaughter so I got up early to shower and be ready when she arrives.  Today was a short day to keep her. 

Isabelle, A.K.A. Baby Pierre  🙂

Her dad will pick her up after 10:00 a.m. and then I have the rest of the day to myself.  I don’t keep her everyday, but I do keep her a good 3-5 days a week.  Some days are short, some days are long.

Baby Pierre with her Toys

  I’m just happy that I have this block of time to myself right now as I really do need it.  I don’t keep her again until Monday.  That gives me until then to be sad, grieve, lick my wounds, eat some nice comforting foods, and just do whatever is necessary to heal myself.  Not totally, but to have it all sink in and form my survival plan.

My Second Breakfast

(Small Broccoli Quiche from SPROUTS with my Broccoli Greens)

In need of some comfort food.  Because I get up so early on those days that I keep Isabelle, by 6:00 a.m. I am hungry and in need of something in my stomach.  I will generally eat a bite or two of something after I give Isabelle a bottle and put her down for her very early morning nap.  I then take a nap too, but when we do get up a few hours later we are hungry for a real breakfast.  Today, this was mine!

I’m also doing some things around the house, but I’m mainly just taking it easy.  If the dishes don’t get done, or the laundry isn’t totally ready, it really doesn’t matter right now.  The priority for today, tomorrow, Saturday, and Sunday, is ME!

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It’s Truly Over

I’m not licking my wounds because the political party that I supported lost.  This isn’t the Super Bowl and my team didn’t win.  EVERYONE lost on November 5th.  Even the republican voters themselves.  They just don’t know it yet.  White people generally don’t suffer too many consequences when it comes to politcs, it’s usually black, brown, and poor whites.  But now, the chickens are coming home to roost for EVERYONE!

When I mention above about how I’ve been trying to save my country since 9/11, I’m referring to the policies of the republican party, I’m referring to the incompetence that enabled that day to even happen?  Did you know that not ONE person has been held accountable for the largest terrorist attack on our nation?  NOT ONE!  What the republicans did was to spread the blame around so that no one would be held accountable.  Condoleeza Rice should have been fired.  She wasn’t.  Not only that, but all of that happened under a George W. Bush Administration.  Yet, no one ever seemed to blame him, (except the families of the victims and those of us that know all the facts.)

If you were to come home and find all of your children dead but the babysitter is still alive, don’t you want to know what happened?  Or are you just going to shrug your shoulders and say, ‘well, we can’t bring them back, time to move on.?’  Are you going to allow the babysitter to talk you out of having autopsy’s done on the dead children to find out what happened to them?  Are you going to allow the babysitter to thwart any investigation into the matter?  And, will you be hiring the babysitter again to perhaps sit your dogs?  If you are a republican, then the answer is YES!

I’m not interested in getting into all of that.  But, 9/11 changed me forever.  I woke up that day, while most of my fellow American’s fell asleep, and they haven’t really woken up since.  Oh, they do stir occasionally, yawn, open their eyes, stretch their arms, babble something about the time, and then fall right back to sleep.

Such Is The American Way

When Kamala Harris gave her speech yesterday to her supporters, admitting the concession  to Trump, she said something rather unbelievable.  She told her supporters to keep fighting, to never give up.  Sorry people, but the time to fight is now before Trump is ‘anointed.’  Once in there, then it is truly over for all of us.  So, this is how Democracy dies.  It isn’t killed, it’s handed over freely.  This time, it is being handed over by the Democrats to the Republicans.  (You’d think they’d be a little hesitant?)

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Trump Will Never Leave Office Until He Dies

(Even then, he will appoint a successor.)

White middle/upper middle class people just never seem to suffer the same consequences as black/brown/ and poor whites.  It’s because they have more privilege than the rest.  They either have a good education, a good paying job, or something to sell if things go badly for them, stocks to cash in to help them out, or they have connections they use to give them that leg up on everyone else during tough times.   All of that is about to change.  And I am here to tell you how and why….

American Seniors

For those senior citizens that didn’t lose their homes during the Bush/Cheney years due to catastrophic medical costs, or those seniors that haven’t had to get those reverse mortgages just to stay afloat and in their homes, well, your Social Security is about to be slashed, or done away with totally.  That’s right.  No more money for you old people!  So, what’s your plan?  Did you manage to save a lot during your life?  Did your husband leave you behind a small fortune?  Or, do you have things that you can sell to get you through until you die?  Perhaps you have a child with a spare room that can take in grandma?  A mother-in-law suite would be great, wouldn’t it?  With your own bathroom?  I certainly hope that you will have some money set aside to help with the rent and food costs?  Oh, and what about those medical bills?  Are you a diabetic?  As I recall insulin used to be around $200.00 until those nasty democrats put a cap on it and made it no more than $35.00.  (Don’t you just hate those democrats!)

I hope you are prepared for all those dirty looks your son or daughter’s spouses will be giving you for ‘free loading’ off of them.  (We are talking about white republican’s after all.)

Oh, and just a reminder, your children/grand-children will be having it hard too, so don’t expect any luxuries there.  They won’t be able to take off from work to get you to your doctor appointments.  They will also need every penny they make to get through.

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The Middle Aged

So, you’ve managed to buy your ‘sort of’ Dream Home!  Wow!  What a great life you and your wife and your children are going to have there.  With the extra bedroom you can create your MAN CAVE.  Bit screen T.V., giant comfy couch, gaming system!  WOW!….

But wait!…..  Ring, ring… Ring, ring…

Phone call from mom and dad.  They can’t afford to live on their own with the Social Security cuts.  They want to know if they can live with us here?  What do we tell them?  Can’t they go and live with your sister?  I know she has a small apartment, but they can make it work.  I want my MAN CAVE!!!  (Again, we are talking about republican’s.)

So, now you are forced to take in your mother/father/or both in order to help them out.  Otherwise, they are homeless.

The stress is enormous.  4 adults and 3 children all living under the same roof. 

(Although that used to be the norm in the 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s, they were more tolerant than the average American is now.  America has since turned into a nation of selfish hot heads.  So, good luck in the ‘family’ environment.)

Paycheck to Paycheck

Oh, there won’t be any saving money.  Everything you buy from abroad, which is a lot, is about to cost you about 40% more.  You see, Trump’s Tariffs.  That means that all those business’s that import from other countries are having to pay more, therefore, they are passing their extra costs onto YOU.  After all, they need to make huge profits, ya know?

The Average Family Will Pay Around $4,000.00 Extra A Year

Also, expect to pay more for your Fruits and Vegetables.  A simple tomato may end up costing you $8.00!  Why?  Well, we don’t have all those brown illegal rapist immigrants anymore over here taking your job away?  And, exactly when did all those white republican’s ever work the fields picking vegetables?  Who knew?

Trump has promised that there will be immigrant deportations on day 1 of his Presidency.  Imagine driving to work and seeing armed guards with large groups of brown people in them.  They are worried, scared, their children are crying, they are being herded onto buses….  you are pleased.  After all, those damn rapists are finally getting their due.  Good, you think.

The news is filled with all the stories.  Oh, a watered down version of them anyway, after all we won’t have a free press anymore.  It will be the Trump News Network.  Our Great Leader will address the nation every evening with his accounts of how he is keeping us all safe, whether we like it or not.  WHEW!

The bills are adding up.  Everything costs much more.  You parents are no help as they are old and can’t get jobs themselves.  But, they do try and help out around the house when they feel good enough to help.  Your mom is doing some cooking and cleaning up, and your dad is mowing the yard while you are having to work extra hours.  Life just isn’t enjoyable anymore.  It’s just all work, work, and work.

Then something terrible happens…..

What with Daylight Savings Time it’s now dark when the kids have to catch the bus on their way to school.  That particular day two of your children were sick because RFK JR. is the ‘Health Czar’ and doesn’t believe in vaccinations, so your 11 year old daughter has to walk to the bus by herself.  A car of men see her and hone in.  Two men jump out of the car and grab her, throwing her into the trunk.  They then drive off to a secluded location and rape her.  They left her for dead on the side of the road, but she was found by passerby’s who called the police and she was taken to a local hospital.  The hospital alerted the family who were so relieved!  The family rushed to the hospital to be by her side.  So happy that they have their baby girl back again.  However, they are informed by the hospital staff that she will be monitored for a pregnancy.  Everyone is stunned!  NO!  She can’t be pregnant!  She’s just a child!!!  That doesn’t matter, we have no abortion laws so therefore she must give birth to her baby.

I Will Stop There…

But, I will say this.  If the child is forced to give birth then the new grandmother, or the great-grandmother will be forced to care for that child, or the child is put up for adoption.  However, the orphanages are full of unwanted children as it is, and must send the baby to another states orphanage.

Or, consider this…..

A young married woman is raped and it results in a pregnancy?  How is her new marriage going to work out?  There are no abortions, how will that marriage work out as the new wife’s stomach keeps getting larger and larger?  Is that marriage going to last?  Or is that husband going to resent the fact that another man impregnated his wife?

In This America Rapist Get To Choose The Mothers of Their Children

So, why is it that republican men and women can never see that all of this is possible?

Because they just don’t think any of this can happen to them….until it DOES!

THEN, they wake up!  But, there won’t be an Obama to save the day like in 2008, or 2012. 

NO!  There is a Trump for the rest of our lives.  Or a Trump appointed successor.

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I would like to add something else.  Trump has said that he will kick out all those welfare recipients from their housing.  Are you prepared to see thousands of homeless people on the streets?  Men, women, children, toddlers, babies?  Are you o.k. with that?  They will be dirty and begging.  They will be hungry, sad, mistreated, abused.  You o.k. with that?  Because if you are a republican, then the answer is yes!

Oh, and let’s not forget all the new homeless animals that will be everywhere.  Stray dogs and cats.  But, don’t worry, according to Trump the immigrants will be eating them, so….

Your Children Will Be Scarred

Imagine being at school one day when a group of armed military storm in and round up some of your children’s classmates?  Perhaps even their friends?  Or simply that sweet girl Maria from math class?  Your children will hear their screams and their cries of terror.  Your children will see their fear.  Your children will have nightmares over what they witness at school.  Unless they are republicans in which case they probably don’t give a damn.

Perhaps they don’t even come for children.  What if they come for your young teacher?  Never to be seen again?

Is everyone o.k. with that?  I guess if you’re republicans.

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I heard on Morning Joe this morning how the democrats need to do some sort of soul searching to find out where they went wrong in loosing this presidential election.  Seriously Joe?  The democrats have to do some soul searching?  What would you like for them to become?  Bully’s?  Criminals?  Rapists?  Liar’s?  When did the good ones need to do some soul searching?  My country really is fucked up!  But, there is nothing more I can do.  And you know what I’ve discovered?  They aren’t worth saving!

Julie

p.s.  It’s time to delete those accounts.  You know what I mean.  Do it!

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August 3, 2024

Update on Skin Cancer Neck Wound

10 Week Update

The photo at left shows me with a bandaid on my neck.  I don’t really need it, but I do use one when I go out because the wound is still unattractive.  The photo at right, shows you the wound as it is now.  It is getting smaller and healing nicely.  It will just take some time before it smooths out and is no longer that worm looking thing on my neck.  At least I no longer need those large bandages, and a simple bandaid will do.  🙂

Julie

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July 11, 2024

8 Week Update On My Skin Cancer On My Neck

(No Make-up Day)

I don’t believe the lighting is too good here.  But, my wound is getting better.  Next time I will shine a flashlight on it so that you can see it better.  But, I am still allergic to the glue on the bandages.

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June 15, 2024

One Month Wound Check

See that white bandage left?  That bandage that I asked for meant that the doctor I saw considered the wound check visit a ‘new visit,’ and charged me for it, along with my insurance company.  The wound check is just that.  Which means all is paid for they are just evaluating my wound.  When I removed the bandage so that they could look at it, I asked if they could give me another to place on my neck as I would be doing some shopping and errands and I didn’t want my yucky neck exposed. 

That prompted my doctor to see this as a new visit and charged me $37.00 for that bandage.  Not to mention the several hundred they charged my insurance company.  I no longer have respect for the woman that stitched my neck up.  I will also be requesting a different doctor in the future.

I never complain to them, I just never go back.

My neck is healing nicely.  I realize that it looks like my neck is sticking it’s tongue out at people.  The doctor stitched it up, so that it will settle down.  Had they stitched it flat, the wound would sink in.  This way it won’t.  It does take some time for it to settle.  I’ll keep you posted.

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June 4, 2024

My Skin Cancer Wound is Healing

Lucky You!  You Get 2 Yummy Photos!

It’s been about 3 weeks since the procedure.  One reason is still looks a bit bad is because I had just ripped off the bandage before I took this photo.  I am allergic to the glue on these bandage tapes.  Therefore, you see all this redness. 

I have tried some of the ‘organic’ kind, but they don’t stick very well.  I pretty much need those bandages that are causing the allergic reaction just because they work.

I am my Grand-Daughter’s main care giver so I need it covered so that she won’t poke it or even be exposed to it.  I also keep it covered when I go out and about so that no one has to look at it.  🙂  However, when I am at home alone, I cover it with Vaseline and leave it bare without a bandage.

I will get a ‘wound check’ in the next week or two from my Dermatologist.  The redness goes away when I leave it uncovered, but it comes back immediately when I use the bandages.

My Catch 22!

I’m sure some of you are wondering why I would even show these very personal photos? 

Answer:  Because these kinds of things don’t bother me.  I’m not trying to gross you out, I’m just giving you an insight into what it could be like for you, or someone you know and care about. 

I was raised in a medical family where my step-father would show us the kidney stones that he removed from a patient that day.  They were beautiful!  We passed them around at the dinner table and looked at them with fascination.  I guess that’s the reaction that I hope to get from you?

Julie

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May 31, 2024

Shopping Around For Bandages

If you are familiar with my Skin Cancer Neck Diagnosis, then you know that wearing a bandage around my neck is important for the healing process.  I write about my Skin Cancer below….

Keeping a moist bandage with Vaseline on it, keeping my wound covered, will greatly help in the healing process so that my wound will smooth out around my neck, and not sink in causing it to look unattractive.

However, it turned out that I was allergic to the glue in the tape of both brands of bandages that I was using.

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So, I went shopping.

(See Bandages in my sink in photo above.)

I bought most everything that I could get my hands on.  I need to wear a bandage when I am out and about.  I also need to wear a bandage when I keep my Grand-Daughter Isabelle, but other than that, I don’t bother to wear one while I am at home.  In order to heal the skin around my neck, I do need to keep it moist with Vaseline.

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May 26, 2024

You can see that I’m allergic to the glue in the bandages I’ve been using in the photo above.

You can see the redness all around my neck.

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May 29, 2024

Through experimentation, I think I’ve found my bandage that I can wear without it breaking me out and making me even more miserable.  Because, after all, the wound isn’t just the problem.  It’s also the irritation, rash, discomfort, and itching from the allergic reaction.

I’m wearing bandages when I go out in public, or when I am watching my Grand-Daughter.

Wound today, May 31, 2024

It’s looking better, but it does take time.

When I am at home I wear the kind of clothing that you see me wear above.  I also keep my hair back in a pony tail in order to keep it away from my wound.  I then smather the entire area with Vaseline so that it gets the moistness that it needs, without the irritation from the bandages.

I’ll keep track of it and let you know how things turn out.  Oh, and most important, I am sleeping on towels so as not to get any of the Vaseline on my bedding.  So far, it’s working out just fine.

Julie

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May 16, 2024

Everything is Changing, Everyone is New

(Hopefully, For the Better.)

And No, I Didn’t Try and Slit my own Throat

(No make up in the photo above left, just lipstick.)

All Bandaged Up!

Bandages for my Wound

(The waterproof are especially helpful for our humid Florida heat.  They are sweat proof, humid proof, and waterproof.)

Earlier this week I went to have a Basel Cell Skin Cancer removed from my neck.  It was discovered at a bi-yearly skin check recently.

I have my skin checked twice a year.  Sometimes a suspicious area is discovered and a scraping will be taken and sent off to a lab for analysis.  Most of the time everything is fine.  But, sometimes it isn’t.  This was one of those times.  I have had Basel Cell skin cancer in the past in another area.  Basel Cell is the most manageable of all the skin cancers.  All they have to do is to make sure they carve out all of it, so as to not leave any behind.  In the past they also found a Squamous Skin Cancer and they removed all of it.  I have never had Melanoma, that is the most dangerous of skin cancers.  Which is why I go for my bi-yearly skin checks in order to stay on top of my skin health.

I grew up in the south long before sunscreen.  I spent many months outside playing in the sun, running around barefoot, I got sunburned, I freckled, I tanned.  Then, once I got married to Gordon we moved to Florida.  More sunburn, freckling, and tanning.  Then we moved to Hawaii.  More sunburn, freckling, and tanning.  The beach was my life.  And it shows too!

Now, ever since 2003 we are back in Florida.  Sunscreen has been a part of my life since my late 20’s.  I wish I had started using it sooner, but I was using it sooner than a lot of people that were still tanning with baby oil on their skin.  (I have never done that!)

I also raised my children on sunscreen as to protect themselves.  Luckily, they have been regular users their entire lives.

When I was growing up my mother would allow me to get sunburnt so as to teach me a lesson.  When I was about 7 or 8 I got so sunburnt that my mother had to take me to the emergency room in Dahlonega, Georgia and have my back bandaged up.  I had been to the Dahlonega City Pool for 2 days straight all day with no lotions or clothing protection.  I was in so much pain but I was made to get dressed and go to some outdoor cookout party with my parents where I was so miserable and in so much pain I just laid down on some bench crying the entire time.  I think it must have been out of embarressment that my parents finally took me to get medical attention.

Oh, and don’t think my mother was just some ignorant woman, she was a Medical Technologist with a 4 year college degree.  And my step-father was the town doctor!  So, they basically took me to HIS Emergency Room Hospital!

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Tending to My Wound

Twice a day I clean my wound with an anti-bacterial soap and water.  I then pat it dry and apply a generous amount of Vaseline to my wound.  And then place a bandage over it.  You do NOT want it to air dry.  It will sink in and become some yucky looking scar.  You want to keep it moist as it heals.  Therefore, I am doing my best to care for my wound so that it heals nicely.  It is on my neck and I don’t want some ugly scar.

Did I Just Get a Mini Neck Lift?

The Dermatologist that removed my skin cancer is new and she is from India.  I knew she would be good because Indians are very good with the body.  They make great Coroners.  Also, the Dermatologist that discovered my skin cancer is also new at the clinic where I go.  New medical professionals for me to get used to.  Luckily, I liked both of them, including the woman assisting the Indian Dermatologist removing my skin cancer.

I do wonder though, if I actually also got a free neck lift?  After all, isn’t this the basic concept of a “facelift?”  They make an incision, cut out some skin, stitch it up, and viola!  A new neck!  🙂  We’ll see, right?

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My Heart Health

My Bleeding Heart Plant

About a month ago I had a CT Scan of my heart.  My daughter Veronica went with me.  I didn’t want to go by myself.  It was in an area of Tampa that I wasn’t familiar with, and at a time of day that had huge traffic.  Veronica knows that area so I just wanted her with me.  Gordon is working overseas so I am more reliant on my daughter, son-in-law, and son Brodie.

I wasn’t worried about the procedure, I was just worried about finding the location and arriving on time in all that Tampa afternoon traffic.  Having Veronica drive me just made me feel better.  Sometimes we just need a support system of someone we trust to be with us.  🙂

Everything went fine and I had a follow up appointment with my heart doctor for the results, and for the treadmill stress test I had taken 6 weeks prior.

Turns out, I HAVE THE ARTERIES OF A 20 YEAR OLD!!!!!

(Bragging rights!)

But wait!  There is bad news here…..

MY LIVER IS FATTY!

Probably from the amount of wine I drink, so……  I have to cut back. 

That’s O.K.  I can manage that.  And I am!  One glass a night now!  🙂

Depression may be setting in soon.  I will let you know.  🙂

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All joking aside, I tell you these things about my health, and show you ugly photos of my skin cancers in the hopes that it will encourage you to keep up with your 60’s health. 

When my heart doctor called me in through the waiting room for my appointment, I held the door for this very decrepit woman who needed to use the restroom.  She was short, overweight, and using a walker.  She just looked so old and in ill health. 

After my appointment, when I was leaving, I encountered that same woman.  She commented on the dress I was wearing.  She said that she liked it and asked about it?  I told her that it was a Lilly Pulitzer, a former Palm Beach, Florida designer, known for her shift dresses from the 1960’s.  She then said, “Oh, that is before my time.”  I then said inside my head, “Aren’t you like 80?”  Seriously, I am older than her?

I suddenly felt like a 30 something young woman and wanted to immediately go out and eat a bunch of bacon!

I then realized that the reason my arteries are that of a 20 year old are because I don’t do those things!

Know this, just because my arteries are young, I still have health issues.  I am working on those.  Because I want to live and be around for my children and grandchildren.  Plus, I have a TON of blogging to still do!  I’m not done yet!

Take Care of Yourselves!

Julie

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March, 2024

You Know You’re Getting Old When You Buy Your First Caftan Like Dress..

(And You Like It!)

I am not one for wearing “tents,” but I do love this dress.

My fashion sense has changed over the past few years once I discovered Lilly Pulitzer. 

A Palm Beach designer.

Lilly Pulitzer

Born November 10, 1941

I LOVE Her Shoppe!

She did die on April 7, 2013, (I think that’s the day my step-father died),  but someone is continuing her legacy and doing a nice job of it.  She was 81 years old upon her death.  I love all the clothing and accessories.  I even read not too long ago that there are Floridians that hang her vintage dresses around their homes.  I love all the colors and prints!

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If you happened to find yourself strolling along Palm Beach’s tony Worth Avenue on a warm day in the mid-1950s, it wouldn’t be unusual to encounter a small rhesus monkey. The monkey (Goony, as he was known) would likely be perched on the shoulder of a young, barefoot woman named Lillian McKim Pulitzer, who—despite what her dirty toes and unkempt hair might imply—was a local Palm Beach socialite with a privileged pedigree.

Lilly with her First Husband. Herbert Pulitzer

(I love this picnic!  I would have done the same thing with the coconuts.  The more I learn about this woman, the more I see her as a soul sister.)

As Taken From:

History of Lilly Pulitzer

For many people, the name Lilly Pulitzer conjures up images of an affluent, prim-and-proper woman on her way to the beach; not a free-spirited bohemian who loved martinis, loathed underwear (she rarely wore it), and toted her pet monkey around town. But Lilly Pulitzer had a penchant for surprising people, and the story of how she launched her namesake brand is no different: it began in the confines of a psychiatric hospital.

Lilly, 1961

(This is the year I was born.  I have a feeling I would have liked her.)

The year was 1958 and Pulitzer, a just-married heiress and new mom, felt she was on the verge of a nervous breakdown. (“In hindsight, I think it was really and truly postpartum [depression],” Lilly’s daughter Liza said in a phone interview.)

Not knowing what was wrong with her, Lilly did what any wealthy twenty-something would do—she checked herself into a mental health facility. (“In the old days, we used to call it Bloomingdale’s,” she joked.) “I had never had a responsibility in my life,” she said in a 1994 W magazine interview. “I couldn’t button my shoes or do my own pigtails…All I had ever had to do was get to my tennis lesson or ride my pony.”

Pulitzer spent several months in treatment and eventually received a startling diagnosis from the doctor. “There’s nothing the matter with you,” she recalled the physician saying. “You just need something to do.” And so, she decided to open a juice stand. 

As the story goes, Lilly thought up her now-iconic shift dress while squeezing oranges from her husband’s orchard. The design would be printed to hide the juice stains, thick enough to go commando, and unfitted, to keep comfortable and cool in the Florida heat.

Lilly Pulitzer Exiting a Plane, Key West, Florida, 1963

(I LOVE this photo!  That is my style!)

She asked a seamstress to create a sample, and before long, she was out of the juice business and into the dress business. “I asked my husband if we could put a few of my dresses in [his fruit shop], about 12 or 15,” Lilly told the Palm Beach Post in 1964. “He said ‘No—80!’ I said, ‘You’re out of your mind.'”

But they were an instant hit, even before Lilly developed a partnership with Key West Hand Prints, a screen-printing shop, which would become essential in establishing Lilly Pulitzer’s iconic vibrant aesthetic.

Jackie Kennedy Onassis Wearing a Lilly Pulitzer Dress in Italy

“The first Lillys were made from fabrics I’d buy in the dime stores in West Palm Beach,” she said in a 1971 interview in the Palm Beach Post. “We were a real shock to everyone. People thought the Lilly dress was a fad that would last about two years…We just picked up steam and kept going.”

The clothes sold because they were unlike anything else on the market.

“They were the antithesis of what most women were wearing at the time. In the late ‘50s, early ‘60s, women were corseting themselves to fit the clothes. They were wearing heavily constructed longline bras, panty girdles, full slips, stockings, stiletto heels—it was that Mad Men look, and Lilly would have none of that,” said Steven Stolman, who not only curated the brand’s 50th Anniversary Retrospective, and worked on the revival collection of Lilly Pulitzer in the ‘90s, but also had a personal friendship with the woman

herself. (Stolman is a regular contributor to TownandCountryMag.com).

“Remember, Lilly was not a little lady. She had a big personality, a huge heart, and an appetite for life. She loved good food and she loved a good cocktail,” he said.

Key to the success of the business was Lilly’s network of society women, both in Palm Beach and back in New York, but none of whom influenced the brand’s popularity quite like Jackie Kennedy.

After the first lady was photographed in Capri wearing a polka-dot Lilly Pulitzer shift in 1962, the business “took off like a zingo,” to quote the dressmaker herself. And by February of 1963, Lilly was the one being featured in magazines; the popularity of her clothes, which by that point were being sold in boutiques nationwide, had warranted her a Life spread of her own.

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Me, Wearing One of Many of My Lilly Pulitzer Dresses

I just wanted to say that I really do like her.  Not just her clothing.  She was a unique personality.  I never knew she went around BAREFOOT, but hearing that just solidified my admiration of her. 

I do shop her website and buy her clothing.  What I love the most about it all are the loud colors.  There was a time when I was so wearing so much black and all these dark colors.  When I discovered her clothing I found myself wearing so many beautiful and loud colors.  Bright and happy shades.  It’s as if I wasn’t invisible anymore.  I was suddenly seen, and admired.

I can’t tell you how many times I get compliments on her clothing that I wear.  Just today I received a compliment.  I have people that tell me they love the dress I’m wearing as I pass them by with my shopping cart, both men and women!  I can be out at a restaurant and I will receive a compliment from the staff, or guests sitting at nearby tables.  The clothing is truly magnificent!

All the colors also give a lift to my mood.  Oh, the ‘Little Black Dress’ will always rule but, for all those other occasions, I like wearing color, many colors sometimes.

You know, I’ve been coming to Florida my entire life, probably having seen her clothing many times, I just didn’t connect it to her.  Perhaps somewhere in the back of my mind I associate some of my happy Florida memories with some of her vintage clothing?  Or the lovely ladies I saw wearing her dresses?  Perhaps even my own Grandmother?

Either way, her clothing makes me happy.  I will continue to wear her.

Thanks Lilly. 

I would have loved to have known you. 

I think we would have liked each other, seeing as how we have so much in common.  You are an inspiration.  RIP.

Julie

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February, 2024

Turning 63

February 13th., 2024, My Birthday

I feel as if I am at an Alcoholic’s Anonymous Meeting and I’m making a confession.

‘Hello, my name is Julie and I’m 63.  I’ve been 63 now for a few hours.  It’s been a rough journey but I’m still alive to tell my tale.’  🙂

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My Birthday Dinner

Tiki Docks

(I wanted an Aloha Birthday.)

Gordon Carrying Isabelle

Brodie and Mackenzie

Veronica, Isabelle, and Brian

Isabelle, Being Entertained by her Dancing Fruit and Vegetables

(I have a problem with this but, I’ll get to that in the future.)

My Tiki Docks Cocktail, The Painkiller

(In my Lovely Souvenir Cup.)

Cheers!

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Our Appetizers Before Dinner

Fish Spread on Pork Rinds (This was GOOD!)

Scallops

Pork Nachos (Ours are Better.)

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Veronica and Gordon’s Shrimp Tacos

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My Coconut Shrimp and Fries

(I should have photographed them before I added all the Ketchup.)  🙂

Mackenzie’s Shrimp Ceviche

Brian’s Pulled Pork and Fries

And, I believe that Brodie also ordered Scallops for Himself.

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Gordon Lighting My Birthday Candles

I wanted my birthday cake to be Isabelle’s first taste of Sugar.  It was!

Gordon, Gettin’ Some Sugar  🙂

We all met up at Tiki Docks for my birthday.  We all have Hawaii on our minds right now.  The reason will be revealed in the future.  Although, to be honest, Hawaii is always on my mind.  Hawaii is like the greatest love I have ever had, but lost.  The memories are beautiful, exciting, seductive, obsessive, and heart warming.  They say that it takes most people 6 months to get over leaving a place.  It took us 2 years to get over leaving Hawaii, and even then I’m not sure we are over it.  It sometimes hurts to think about Hawaii.  In the same way it hurts to talk about the greatest love you have ever had in your life, and then lost.  Kind of like going from riches to rags.  I miss the riches!

Back Home:

Late Night Snack of Hawaiian Chocolate Macadamia Nuts

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Thoughts On Turning 63

To be perfectly honest, this is all new for me. 

On the one hand, I am so much happier on the inside being 63, yet uglier on the outside, being 63.

Most days I don’t fix myself up.  I am my Grand-Daughters main care giver so there are many days of no make up and styled hair.  There is stringy wet hair that she tends to pull, and a very plain looking me, while wearing big glasses that she loves to look at the reflections they pick up.  Comfortable clothing, not frumpy is a must, but comfy.

I’m not here to tell you how wonderful it is being 63, that will depend on your own health.

And I think that if I didn’t have a website I would probably feel so much better about taking photos of myself at 63.  Being in the spotlight, whether large or small, seems to come with some responsibility, and some angst as well.

Some days when I feel so wonderful about myself, I’ve just gotten out of the shower with wet stringy hair, put on nice comfy pajamas, no make up, no hair styled, just wearing a color that looks good on me and I feel so beautiful!  However, if you were to take a photo, I’m not sure I would actually be beautiful.  Why can’t feeling beautiful, be beautiful?  I ask you?

  Why does everything have to be so visual?

I want to age gracefully.  I do not want to photo shop my pictures.  To me that is such a waste of time.  Not posting how you really look is deceitful.  If you feel the need to disguise how you really look then just put someone else’s photo as your Avatar.  Just sayin’.

I just want my photos that I post on this website to be honest.  Not airbrushed, or photo shopped.  I may not always be beautiful enough, but I do want my photos to be honest enough.

Julie

P.S.  I will say this about Tiki Docks, they didn’t have a good Hawaii menu, they had a Florida version of a Hawaii menu.  I would have loved some Mahi-Mahi, Ahi Tuna, etc.  It just wasn’t to be here.  But, the company was wonderful!

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jANUARY 21, 2024

lEARNING tO lOVE mY aLARM cLOCK

fIRST OF ALL, i lOVE gROUNDHOG dAY!

iT IS ACTUALLY PLAYING IN THE BACKGROUND RIGHT NOW AS i WRITE THIS.  iT IS A FAVORITE MOVIE OF MINE.  🙂

i CHOSE THIS aLARM cLOCK AS IT REPRESENTS HOW i FEEL EVERY TIME MY ALARM GOES OFF EARLY IN THE MORNING.

i WOULD LIKE TO CONFESS SOMETHING TO YOU.  wHENEVER MY ALARM CLOCK GOES OFF EARLY IN THE MORNING i HAVE ptsd.  rEALLY!

i DON’T THINK THAT ANYONE LOVES IT WHEN THEIR ALARM GOES OFF EARLY IN THE MORNING.  bUT FOR ME, IT BRINGS ME BACK TO MY YOUTH IN GETTING UP EARLY TO GET READY FOR SCHOOL, WHERE i WAS BULLIED HORRIBLY,  aND, IT TAKES ME BACK TO MY DAYS OF WORKING JOBS WHERE i WAS VERY UNWANTED AND UNHAPPY.

sO, WHEN MY ALARM GOES OFF IT MAKES ME VERY SAD.  i’M NOT JUST SAD TO BE GETTING UP EARLY, i’M SAD AT ALL THE UNHAPPY MEMORIES THAT IT BRINGS FLOODING BACK TO ME.  tHAT IS THE ptsd!

hOWEVER, IF YOU REALLY THINK ABOUT IT, OUR ALARM CLOCKS ARE ONLY DOING WHAT WE TELL THEM TOO, WHAT WE ASK THEM TO DO?

aND, ALTHOUGH WE MAY NOT BE LOOKING FORWARD TO THE DAY IT IS AWAKENING US UP TO, IT IS WAKING US UP TO PREPARE FOR THAT DAY.

sOMETIMES WE NEED THAT PREPARATION.  oUR ALARM CLOCK GIVES US THAT.

aLTHOUGH i STILL HATE IT WHEN MY ALARM CLOCK GOES OFF EARLY IN THE MORNING, i AM MORE APPRECIATIVE OF IT THAN i WAS.  i AM COMING TO VIEW IT AS A FRIEND, NOT AN ENEMY.  iT DOES TAKE SOME WORK TO SEE IT THAT WAY.  bUT, AS i SEE IT, i DO HAVE THE TIME.

i DO HAVE TO ADMIT THAT MY FAVORITE DAYS ARE THOSE WHERE i DON’T HAVE TO SET AN ALARM.  lIKE TOMORROW MORNING.  oR THE WEEKENDS.  dAYS WHERE i CAN SLEEP IN UNTIL i DECIDE WHEN TO GET UP.

fOR THOSE DAYS WHEN i DON’T HAVE THAT OPTION.  i THANK MY ALRAM CLOCK FOR GETTING ME UP TO PREPARE ME FOR THE DAY AHEAD.

jULIE

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September 14, 2023

THE DENTIST

For the first time in 4 years I had a dental appointment today.  I am embarrassed to admit that I haven’t seen my dentist in 4 years, not since the pandemic started.  I have pretty good teeth and gums.  I take very good care of my mouth.  However, it is unrealistic to think that I don’t need a dentist ever.  Of course, I do.  I have just been a bit paranoid about Covid.  I have never had it.  One reason, because I avoid places like the dentist.  It is the one place where we can’t wear a mask, and we are vulnerable to the people that we are around.

With Gordon working overseas now for the foreseeable future, I especially don’t want to encounter any sort of illness that I will then have to take care of on my own.

It looks as if I don’t have any dental issues other than a good deep cleaning, as in numbing me up in order to do so, AND, only being able to do half of my mouth at a time.  So, two appointments to get the job done.  I’m dreading it, but I will do what is necessary to keep me healthy.

I did notice something at my dentist’s office while I was there today.  Things just seemed different.  I recognized a lot of the same people.  Some were new, but plenty were still there from years ago.  Although everyone was professional, there just seemed to be a ‘cloud’ hovering over head.  A sadness that wasn’t there before.  I really don’t know why?  Just an observation and a feeling on my part.  My favorite dental hygienist, Rhonda (not her real name), was especially different.  Not as friendly, not as happy, she even implied that she was looking for another job.  To tell you the truth, she was the main reason I loved going there.  She and I would watch The Price is Right on the exam room T.V. and laugh about jokes from Saturday Night Live.

It’s sad how things change.  People change.  I’ll still continue to go there.  I like the place.  I’m just noticing a difference in people’s behavior.  Perhaps this is a reflection on what is going on out there in our country.  It’s the working class that will be affected by whatever our politician’s come up with.  Whether good, or bad.

Julie

P.S.  You need to go to the dentist whether you want to or not.  We just need to get through it.  Our mouth health is just as important as our body health.  We can do it!  Just make the appointments, show up, and deal with it.  🙂

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September 8, 2023

Christie Brinkley and the ‘No Filter’

I tried to copy the original photo that she posted months ago and entitled, No Filter.  I couldn’t manage to copy it in order to post it here, but I do have these lovely photos of her.  It was a few months ago that Christie posted a photo of herself in New York, in her car, that she had entitled ‘No Filter.’

She then received a barrage of criticism into her looks.  Some people were quite cruel.  All that I can say is, we should all be so lucky as to look like her in our late 60’s!

I believe where Christie went wrong was to advertise that she was using a “No Filter.”  I think when you do that, you are implying that all of your past photos had a filter, thus inviting scrutiny.  I’m sure that it is very easy to invite scrutiny into your life without even wanting it.  The press is always there to pounce on celebrities.

But, as we age we tend to grow into a new and different person.  Our clothing sense does change and become different.  Perhaps a bit more conservative, but that’s o.k.  Our hairstyles change as well.  Not as elaborate as they once were.  Easier hairstyles to meet our more casual lifestyle as we age.

The next time Christie is condemned for not being perfect, then I would just breathe a sigh of relief that she has the life that she does.  Why care what some average mind thinks about her?

She is a very good person.  Most of the time she is aware of her influence on the public,  And most of the time she tones it down when she needs to.  Some times she does forget that, but, we can forgive her because she is a nice person.

More Power To Her!

Julie

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September 8, 2023

Pajama Comfort

One thing that I absolutely love, are comfortable pajamas!

I especially love a Sunday where I can get out of the shower, and put on a pair of comfy cozy pajamas for the day.

Invest in something that you love and is comfortable.  I love attractive, yet comfy.  This is our day to veg!

Julie

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March, 2023

I Am Being Left Behind

I just got a phone call today cancelling my doctor appointment with my family care physician for this Friday.  He rescheduled me for the end of the month.  This was an important appointment for me because I have not seen my bloodwork results in over a year.  The last blood work I did was at my old clinic and that appointment was cancelled on me at the last minute just when I was supposed to find out the results for that blood work.  Which is why I left that clinic because they had a habit of cancelling on me and I needed more reliable healthcare.  I just had my blood work done last week and I was anxious to find out these results as I am a borderline diabetic, otherwise known as a pre-diabetic.

At the end of 2022 when I was supposed to take the heart stress tests at my cardiologist’s office, I was in that office for hours past my appointment time.  As it was, I was in a weakened state with no breakfast or coffee so as not to interfere with the results.  I was supposed to get on the treadmill.  At one point they did come out to the waiting room to let me know that the patient in front of me was having trouble and I would be seen eventually.  I honestly tried to stay alert and awake for another 40 minutes later, but I just couldn’t.  So, I left!  I let the office know, but I just felt as if I was being neglected.  I also realized that most every appointment I have there, I am kept waiting long past my appointment time while I see so many others being seen before me.  Sometimes I wonder if that is done intentionally? 

I did have my mammogram and pap smear on Valentine’s Day of this year.  🙂

That all went smoothly and I’ve already gotten the results back and they were good!

I made the appointments specifically for Valentine’s Day because I couldn’t think of anything better that I could do for myself. 

I would like to say that I did have a follow up with my cardiologist and saw another doctor instead and he said that everything looked good.  I don’t go back for a year.  I am just trying to catch up with my health.  I feel as if I am doing my part but the so-called healthcare professionals aren’t.  Sometimes I feel like I am on my own, all alone in the world to just squeak by until I drop dead one day.  I have an unborn grandchild that I need to be healthy for.  Our son-in-law Brian just lost his mother to a heart attack, she was 61.  I am 62.  My granddaughter deserves a grandmother, and it is going to be me.  Treadmill, treadmill, treadmill…..  🙂

Julie

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February 13, 2023

Happy Birthday to ME!

62!

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September 24, 2022

My Cardiologist

For those that are regular readers of my many blogs I have on this website, then you know that I see a Cardiologist.

My heart is fine, as far as I know, but I do have a family history of both of my parents sides where heart attacks are prevalent.

Therefore, I do see my heart doctor every 6 months for a check up, and every few years for the heart stress tests.

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It was over a month ago while I was waiting to see my doctor in the exam room when I suddenly heard steps coming down the hallway.  They weren’t the soft shuffle of orthopedic shoes from old doctor Blank, (although I am probably older than ‘old doctor Blank’), they were the steps of stiletto heels.  Confident stiletto heels!  Judging by the length of the steps of the person walking down the hallway, I would say it is a tall woman with long legs.  Also, judging by the weight of the steps and the sound resonating, I can tell she is a beautiful woman.  How do I know this?  Those steps taken were of confidence!  Those steps were not steps, they were struts!  Someone that confident walking down the hallway, strutting, is obviously gorgeous!  The last time I heard the strutting of confident stiletto’s was on a runway when I was modeling in my youth.

Suddenly, there was a knock on the door.  I then said, “Come in.”  That was when the door suddenly opened as if by magic.  Standing there was a tall woman, wearing a lab coat over her skirt, and wearing stiletto heels.  She was Latina.  Her hair was blowing!  Why the hell is her hair blowing?  I then realized the A/C had kicked in and the fan in the ceiling was aimed towards her.  O.k., whew!

She then entered the room….

ALLOOOOOW, How are Jew??

She was gorgeous! 

Yes, My doctor is Sophia Vergara…

Tall, slim, wavy brown hair down to her waist, perfectly coiffed.  She told me her name, but I can’t remember it?  She told me that my usual doctor, old doctor Blank, who is probably younger than me, was at the hospital with a patient and she was seeing his patients today.  She then asked me the usual questions that I get asked every 6 months at my appointments.  You know, the standard, have you had any chest pains, or hospitalizations since my last appointment? 

I told her no. 

She then realized that she had forgotten her STEEEETHOSCOOOOPE, and left the room to get it.

It was while she was gone that I looked down at my flip flops on my feet.  My eyes then moved up to my new colorful Lily Pulitzer skort that I was wearing, and a black cap sleeve t-shirt.  When I got ready that day I thought I looked kind of cute…. until about 5 minutes ago.  🙁

When she came back in I told her that I didn’t realize I would be seeing Sofia Vergara today. 

She then threw her head back and burst out laughing with this very loud booming, yet charming laugh.  She had a huge smile.  Her hair flew back as she laughed, then fell back into perfect place.  Yep, you guessed it, she has Disney Princess Hair!  🙁

She then told me that all of her patients call her Sophia.

Patients?  She has patients?

I wanted to ask her if her patients were still alive?  I mean, how many have died of a heart attack BECAUSE she is their doctor?

Not only did she look like Sophia Vergara, she also sounded like her.  She must have read my mind because she then went on to explain that even though Sophia Vergara is from Columbia, and she is from Puerto Rico, that when they speak English they sound the same.  She also told me that the Colombian people speaking their native language sounds as if they are singing.  I thought that was a beautiful thing to say.  She also told me that when she speaks Spanish that she sounds very rough.

The appointment went well and she ordered my heart stress tests.  But, it was as I was leaving and in the waiting area for my next appointments that I realized that I could pick every pocket in this room and no one would notice!  Everyone would be looking at her!  Even though there are cameras here, even the security watching wouldn’t notice a thing because they were be looking at her!

I then thought that if I could just convince her to go the supermarket with me and ask someone about this jar of Peeeekkkkeelllllssss, that a large crowd would gather around her and I could wipe out every cash register there!

We Could Be RICH!!!!

It was then that I realized, why am I contemplating a life of crime?  It was a nice little fantasy that I had for about 5 minutes.  I then reluctantly came back to Earth, (although I know damn well we could pull it off!)  Wink. Wink..

After spending some time with my doctor, Sofia Vergara, I then totally understand what it must have been like on the set of Modern Family to be Claire?

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I did go for my Treadmill Stress Tests a few weeks later, but after being neglected in the waiting room for hours I decided to reschedule and just leave and go home.  I could barely keep my head up and my eyes awake.  I didn’t have much sleep the night before and I wasn’t allowed caffeine before I take the test, so being in a weakened state I decided to leave. 

There have been many days that I have been left waiting in the large waiting room without being called.  I can’t tell you how many times I see everyone in that waiting room being called back, while I’m still sitting there.  I have even asked a time or two if I have been forgotten?

You are probably wondering why I still go?  I have looked into leaving and seeing another Cardiologist, but I figure they all probably know each other and I’ll just get blacklisted at the next location, and thus get the same treatment.  Therefore, I just take a book or two and try and occupy myself during the wait.  I’ve also decided that I will give them an adequate amount of time and if I’m not seen then I will leave.  Thus, they won’t get paid.  I have discovered that people are different now.  Not as professional as when I was growing up.  Also, people just seem to be more selfish and petty, vindictive, etc…

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I Fell In Love With My Heart

I did go for my Echocardiogram last week.  Interestingly enough, I was seen fairly quickly that time.  Not that that is what I want?  I just want to be seen in a reasonable amount of time and not kept waiting for 2 1/2 hours at a time, every time.

The Echocardiogram is when they take an ultrasound of your heart.  Kind of like when you are pregnant and they do a scan to see your baby? 

The woman that did my scan was very professional, something I greatly appreciate, but she must have weighed over 300 pounds.  Why is it so many health care industry workers are so obese?  If anyone should understand how deadly that is, you would think that they would?  I especially thought that the woman doing my scan, who looks at how hard hearts work every day, that she above all people should understand the importance of loosing weight?

As I lay there on the exam table and she placed the monitor on my heart and I could see it so clearly, I was enthralled!  It looked so beautiful!  I realize that sounds so ridiculous for me to say, but I just fell in love with it.  My heart was just so busy and working so hard that I was grateful.  Grateful to that little organ that is working so hard for me.  I just wanted it to take a break from all that hard work and rest.  Then I realized that I would die if it took some time off!  It just gave me a greater appreciation for it, that’s all.

You know, just because someone dies of cancer, or diabetes, or an accidental death, or even a murder or suicide, in the end we all die of the exact same thing, our hearts stop beating.

Maybe all of us should fall in love with our hearts?  🙂

Julie

p.s.  Next month I go for my Treadmill Stress Tests and then I see my doctor to get the results of the tests.  I’m assuming everything will be good, but you never know?  I’ll let you know.

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April 5, 2022

Colonoscopy Day, April 6th.

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Colonoscopy Prep, April 4th. and 5th. (ugh!)

Although I have blogged about my last two colonoscopy’s, you now get to hear about my third. 

Lucky you!

My first one was at age 52.  That prep went fairly smoothly and even the surgery went nicely.  Except that I am prone to polyps, so my doctor recommended that I have a second one at age 55.  I did.  Everything went fine, except I was sick during the “prep.”  Nothing wrong, just sick from sucking down yucky broth and drinking all that crap that they have you drink.  You know, that Magnesium Citrate.  Yuck!  I don’t care how much lemon they put in it, it’s gross.

At this writing I am 61.  I was supposed to get my 3rd. colonoscopy at age 60, but because of the pandemic I kept putting it off until I felt better about it.  Now, I’ve decided it’s time.  I hope that by postponing it for a year that I didn’t make a mistake.  But, in these times I believe that we need to weigh the odds and make calculated decisions based on many things that are going on around us.

I’m seeing a different doctor for this colonoscopy.  You see, the doctor that did my last 2 was always shoving this last form to be signed in my face when I am in the operating room.  I didn’t have my glasses to read it.  I think that’s why they do it.  It’s probably a form exonerating him and his staff from killing me if they do so.  The fact that they would slip it in right before my surgery made me no longer trust him or want anything to do with him.  I also woke up from my last colonoscopy hearing him yell horribly at his staff.  I don’t know what that was about, but when they noticed I was awake they all quickly shut up.

Tomorrow will be a new doctor and staff, and if they shove some paper in my face as I am in the operating room without my glasses then I will loudly protest and we will just see what happens.

My Liquid Diet

This is a much better “Prep Diet” than I have had before.  In the past I was only allowed water, white grape or cranberry juice, and broth.  But, this diet gives me coffee, sugar, jello, sodas, popsicles, etc.

Even though I have the thing memorized, I do keep consulting it just to see if I missed something.  For example, cheddar biscuits, or pancakes?  I just keep expecting those foods to appear.  One can hope.

My Last Meal (April 3rd.)

Fried Chicken, Italian Green Beans, and Cheddar Biscuits

These green beans are the closest that I can find to my grandmother’s pressure cooker green beans.  They are pretty good.  Hers were just better.

I always put some thought into my last meal before a colonoscopy.  After all, it really could be my last meal.  Anytime any of us has surgery and we are put to sleep we always run the chance that we may not wake up from it.  Therefore, I wanted my old southern favorites.

My Last Meal at Noon on April 4th.

A Repeat of the Night Before

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Afternoon of April 5th.

It’s time for me to start drinking my second bottle of Magnesium Citrate.  I’m choking it down.  It’s very sour and it kind of makes me sick.  I am then supposed to chase it with 10 ounces of a clear liquid.  I am to do this 3 times today.  My stomach is so huge from all this liquid that I easily look 7 months pregnant. 

I am chasing it with a green Jolly Rancher’s candy.

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Green Jello

I do like that I can have green Jello.  So far, this has been breakfast and lunch.  It will probably be dinner too.  I do love slurping it between my teeth.  Good thing I am alone.

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Gordon just called.  He is on his way home from work, and looking for me some other popsicle’s besides green and orange.  Fingers crossed that he is successful!!!!! 

(After today I don’t think I’m going to eat the color green for a long while.)

To Be Continued…..

April 7, 2022

I wanted to continue where I left off.

Straining the Noodles out of the Chicken Soup

I do have to say that this colonoscopy prep was my worst so far.  I thought the schedule was a bit screwed up.  As in at what times you are supposed to do this and that.  They had me drinking that Magnesium Citrate at 12:00, 2:00, and 4:00 p.m.  Then, they had me take 4 Dulcolax at 7:00 p.m.  (Of course I was going to be up all night, if you know what I mean?)

(Am I the only one that flosses after eating Jello?)

I would have preferred to have taken the laxatives earlier in the day so that I could have had a good night’s sleep the night before my surgery.  But NO!  I must have gotten out of bed and headed to the bathroom a good 8 times before 2:30 a.m.  THAT, was when I really got sick!

I am sorry that I am about to get graphic, but I also want to explain to you what all I went through.  Perhaps, it may help you in some way with your experience.

Well, it was 2:30 a.m. and I headed for the bathroom, once more.  As I was sitting on the Throne of Whann, I suddenly started to feel funny, as in strange.  I broke out in this terrible sweat!  I was hot as hell!  My entire body was wet with sweat!  It was then that I imagined that this is how I am going to go?  On the toilet, just like Elvis.  Gordon is going to wake up tomorrow only to find my dead body, face down on the floor, and butt upwards.  The last image in Gordon’s head of me is going to be THAT!

It was then that I screamed for Gordon!!!!

He came running into the bathroom!  He asked me what was wrong?  I then told him that I am going to die unless I get some water in my dehydrated body!  Gordon then said, “No.  You can’t drink anything after midnight.”  I then informed him of the instructions on the list for those that take important medications.  According to the instructions they are allowed to take their meds right before surgery.  Exactly how do you think they are supposed to take them without drinking any water?  By shoving them up their noses??  No!  They get water!  And if THEY get water, I get water!!!  GET ME WATER!!!!

So, needless to say, I got a little bit of water.  He also gave me a washcloth that he had doused in cold water and I placed it all over my face, neck, and chest.  That cooled me down.  I also had him to lay a big towel on the bed for me to lay on, and not get my sweaty wet body on the sheets.  I also used an old blanket to cover me with so that I wouldn’t ruin our bedding.

Oh, and I was also nauseous.  But, there was nothing to throw up, so….

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After all that drama I was able to get to sleep for a few hours.  When my alarm went off the next morning, I got up and showered.  I didn’t drink any water, BUT, I did rinse my mouth out with water just to keep it moist.  I didn’t swallow, I just spit it out in the sink.  I did this up until it was time to leave for my appointment.  I would also dip my finger into a glass of water and place it into my mouth.  Just a little bit of moistness.

I was able to get ready and we did leave the house and headed out where we needed to go for my appointment.  From then on it really was smooth sailing.  We arrived at the surgery center, checked in, and waited to be called back.  I was very impressed with everyone that I encountered.  When I was signing the paperwork I did tell the girl that I am not signing anything while I am in the operating room.  So, therefore, I want all paperwork here in front of me now.  She said that there is no paperwork other than what is here.  And that they would never do that to any patient.  I then felt better that there would be no surprises from that point on.  🙂

It was when I was wheeled into the operating room and I met all the nurses that one of the nurses was asking some weird questions to the other nurses.  What letter comes before _urse?  Is it curse?  Purse?  What can it be? 

As I am just laying there, I wondered if she was doing a crossword puzzle?  The other nurses joined in with great relish.  They were all wracking their brains over what could be that letter?  There was also very nice music in the operating room.  It was a bit jazzy.  I liked it.  I do know from my step-father being a surgeon that they have fun in the operating room.  It isn’t as dramatic as the old medical shows would dictate on T.V.  There is levity.  They do laugh.  It was then that one of the nurses suddenly realized that the _urse, was NURSE!

Kind of alarming that the Nurses never figured out until a long time later that the word they were trying to figure out was the word NURSE?

Well, things went well for me.  They did find one polyp that they removed.  According to them it doesn’t look like cancer.  But, I will find out eventually as they did send it off. 

It was on our way home from my colonoscopy that we hit up 3 fast food restaurants. 

I pretty much got fried chicken, fried chicken, and fried chicken!

Hey!  Death by Fried Chicken?  Really isn’t such a curse.  It’s my heritage.

All for now!

Julie

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March 4, 2022

Referrals, Where Do I Even Begin?

Because Gordon is a retired Navy Chief, 20 years in the military, we have very good health insurance.  However, it was during the pandemic that our once great top of the line medication’s and insurance were suddenly reduced to generic pills and creams.  Gone was my top of the line Dexilent, to some generic pills that are supposed to do the same to help my heartburn.  My $1,200.00 foam to kill pre-cancer on my chest is no longer, but replaced with a generic cream that is supposed to do the same.  (I hope so.)  I’m using it now.

As it was, it was hard enough making medical appointments.  I can’t just call some foot doctor and make an appointment for a foot ailment of mine.  Oh no, in the past I had to make an appointment with my family practitioner to get the referrals so that can make the various appointments.  That was hard enough.  But now, we have to make an appointment with our family practitioner, ask for the referrals, and now they are sent up to our insurance company for them to APPROVE!  APPROVE!?  Can You Believe It?

They now need to be approved?  It’s as if they just assume that I love to have a Colonoscopy?  Damn!, I want 2 of them a year!  Not to mention that Mammography!  I LOVE having my boobs smooshed in a machine!  Oh!  And!  You know that yearly Pap Smear of mine?  Make that 2 a year!  Yeah!  Love ’em!  I so love that vaginal scrape!

This is what we are up against right now.  I have a pre-cancer on my back that needs to be cut out soon.  I also have a Colonoscopy that needs to happen in the next month, as I am prone to polyps.  Yet, who knows?  I am at the mercy of generic people to do what they need to do in order to make this happen.  Are they competent?  Or, are they losers?  I guess I will see.

The very sad thing is that this should be basic health care for us.  We are pretty healthy people as it is.  It’s just maintenance.  I just feel as if I am at the mercy of a system that is not in my favor.  I’ll let you know the rest…..

Julie

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On February 13, 2022

I Just Turned 61!

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January 21, 2022

I Have a Rash Underneath My Eye

Your first thought is probably, ‘Gee Julie, why in the world do we care about your eye rash?’

Well, I’m gonna tell ya, smarty pants.

Right now I am just ‘surviving.’

I have had itching underneath the eyelashes on my right eye now for about 2 months.  The first month I just had the itching, then some red bumps appeared after that.  I knew that I needed to have it seen so I waited until my family practice appointment which I had a few weeks ago.  The Nurse Practitioner that I saw sort of blew me off about it.  She even said that giving me an antibiotic isn’t worth it for that small of a rash.  She then recommend an ointment for me to use to apply to it.  I asked her to give me a brand name that I can go and purchase?  She wracked her brain trying to think of something and that is when she suggested Neosporin Ointment.  I am very familiar with Neosporin as it is a staple in our house.  I also believe that it was originally an ointment used for dog wounds.  My late step-father, being the retired surgeon that he was, would tell us about things like that.

So, without even reading my Neosporin Ointment tube, I came home and applied some of the ointment to the bumps underneath my eye.  It was about 30 minutes later that some of the ointment drifted into my eye and I got concerned about it.  That’s when I did my reading and found out that it cannot get into the eye.  And, not to use it around the eye.  So, I flushed my eye to get it out and then called Gordon who was on his way home from work and asked him to stop into a drug store on his way home and find an ointment for me that can go around the eye.

(I’m mad at myself for just taking the word of this Nurse Practitioner, and not doing the research myself.  Never assume these “experts” know what they are talking about.)”

I have sort of just self-diagnosed the rash around my eye as Eczema.

I have never had Eczema before so this is new for me.  My mother and brothers have always had Eczema around their eyes but I was always spared that problem.  Until now.

I do have an appointment with my Dermatologist in a few weeks.  Shannon will take care of me.  I’ll just deal with my eye rash until then.  In the meantime, Gordon found an ointment for me that is for the eyes.  It needs to be a sterile ointment.  Gordon had to go to a few drug stores before he was able to find something.  I always told him about how people from India are excellent where the body is concerned.  They make excellent Coroner’s.  So, when Gordon saw a man from India behind the Pharmaceutical counter he approached that man and he recommended the ointment.

Turns out, it does take away the itching and it does feel better, but my rash is still there.

I need medical attention, but I did not get what I needed from my Family Practice at my last appointment so I am going to just suffer through with this until I see my Dermatologist soon.

This is the American healthcare system, broken as it is.

Seeking help from our professionals doesn’t mean that you will receive it.

Julie

p.s.  This ointment must emit some sort of vapor that fogs up the middle of my computer glasses on my right eye.  I get that foggy spot in that same area no matter which pair of glasses I wear.  Interesting.

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January 11, 2022

New Glasses and My Health

In December of 2021 Gordon and I finally made appointments for our eye exams and new glasses.  Covid kept us away.  It had been 3 1/2 years since our last appointment.  Seeing as how they opened a new optical facility on the military base in Tampa, and had a large assortment of glasses, we decided to go there for our eye health.

Turns out my eye’s hadn’t changed that much in 3 1/2 years, much to my satisfaction.  But, none the less, I picked out a new pair of frames with my new prescription.  I also took in an additional 3 pairs of my old glasses to have the new prescription placed in them.  I also brought in a pair of glasses to be made into computer glasses.  You see, I don’t use my regular glasses when I am online.  I don’t like the Progressive Lenses getting in my way of viewing the computer screen.  Therefore, in the past I would always wear a pair of reading glasses.  Except that I have different vision in each eye.  One eye is a 3 and the other eye is a 4.5.  I have astigmatism in one eye.  I do love my new computer glasses, but I’m not so crazy about the new lenses in my old glasses, or my new pair I picked out.  They just don’t turn as dark as my old ones used to.  I like having the transition lenses that are sunglasses when I am outside, and regular glasses when I am inside.  Therefore, I will be taking them back to be made to be darker when necessary.

Now that it is January I do get to pick out a new pair with my insurance so I am going to try and get a nice pair of prescription sunglasses.  We do go kayaking and canoeing so an outdoor pair will be very nice.

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My Labs

It was back in September 2021 that I had my labs done and they were not good.  I weighed 155 on their scale.  (I actually think that my accurate weight was more like 158.  I had diarrhea the day before and I was empty, if you know what I mean.)  So, I was actually thrilled to hear their scale register me at 155, I figured it would be more like 160.

I was told that if I didn’t make some changes in my weight and diet that I would be a diabetic.  Therefore, I decided to make some changes.  I started choking down that Fish Oil everyday, (lemon flavor my ass!)  I also started taking a pill to help control my sugar levels.  I also cut out my morning bagel, potato chips, Doritos, and potatoes.  I also started eating less.  Although, I don’t eat a whole lot as it is.

I was originally scheduled at the end of December to see my family practice nurse practitioner but my appointment was cancelled because she had Covid.  I didn’t know that at the time.  It was about a week later when I went in for my rescheduled appointment that she told me she had Covid the week of New Year’s.  She told me that her entire family had it.  Her husband, son, parents, nieces, nephews, etc.    The thing is I’m not surprised to hear it.  She was very careless when I first met her a year ago when she carelessly whipped off her mask after me telling her I had only had the 1 shot so far.  I was really surprised that she just took my word for it.  She didn’t even know me.  She was new at my clinic and that was our first meeting.  I really like her.  I’m glad she is o.k. but she did say that even though she was fully vaxxed and boosted that Covid really kicked her ass.

I went into my appointment expecting to hear the worst about my latest labs.  Although interestingly enough I was in a great mood that day and I kept chastising myself for it.  After all, consciously I assumed I’d hear bad news and subconsciously I think I knew I would hear good news.  Well, subconscious won!

I did weigh in at 152.  A weight loss of 3 pounds (officially) although I think I probably lost a good 6 pounds.

I was thrilled to hear that everything was better!  My triglycerides were good, my sugar was good, my kidney’s are registering at a 95 even though a good kidney is at a 60.  I thought it was funny when they remarked that I must drink a lot of water for my kidney’s to be so perfect.  (Right.  Try Ginger Ale and Red Wine!)  Water?  Honestly!

My cholesterol was down, but still higher than it should be.  Still working on that one.

Making changes does work!  I knew that they did but I have gotten lazy over the past few years.  I no longer want to do that.  At this writing I have so much to do around my home that I really need to focus on that.  Putting Christmas away, bringing down from the attic the rest of the Christmas that we haven’t gone through and sorting it all out and giving it away to Veronica and Brodie.  Also, we have old furniture up there that we need to get rid of.  Either by donating or selling.  Probably donating because it’s just easier.

I may not be on my treadmill right now but I am very busy and active around my home.  An active lifestyle isn’t always about exercising, it’s also about just constantly being in motion.  I want to get some of these projects and work done around our house so that I can actively get back on my treadmill.  Right now I am working on my diet and getting our house back in order.  And dare I say it?  Downsizing!  🙁

I also have about 5 referrals for medical that I need to take care of in the next few months.  As far as I know everything is fine with me for now.  My referral appointments will give me more insight into my health.  After all, we are running a marathon.

Julie

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 December 30, 2021

Trying to Incorporate More Healthy Pasta Into My Life

I’ll be giving more of a healthy food update to this post soon.  But for now, I’m trying to change my old eating habits and incorporate healthier foods.

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December 29, 2021

Ageing, Or Just Letting Go?

I really debated about writing this because I am about to use a woman as my example for this blog posting because she is the perfect example of what I have been looking for in showing the difference between ageing and letting oneself go.  I guess you could say that I am about to “fat shame” someone.  I realize that is a taboo in our society, and it should be, but I’m hoping that by doing this I am perhaps helping other women to consider loosing some weight themselves and becoming healthier as we age.  As well as to give myself encouragement to keep going in my own struggles.

The woman’s name is Greta Scacchi and she is 61 years old.  I myself will be 61 in about a month and a half.  I’m using her as the example because she is in her 60’s.

I saw an article in a U.K. tabloid.  Your first question probably is, ‘why am I reading a tabloid?’  This particular tabloid gives us more information on what goes on in our own country than our news outlets do here in America, so to answer your question.  That’s why.

Just to give you an example.  When the Parkland shooting took place on Valentine’s Day 2018, our news wasn’t giving any official number of dead.  I read about the 17 dead in that tabloid HOURS before our news was reporting the tragic number.  Why?  Don’t know?  But, I now turn to them as an additional source of information as they have a track record of being fairly accurate in our own country reporting.

The photo I saw of Ms. Scacchi was a tabloid photo.  Obviously, she wasn’t posing for it.  But, she was in a public place and she chose to wear that swimsuit out in public.  It’s not like she was in her backyard when the paparazzi chose to intrude on her privacy.  I’m sure she knew she would be photographed especially since she was with her daughter who is a celebrity in her own right and was married to Sean Penn.

For those of you that may not know of her, she was an actress in the 80’s and 90’s probably most known for her role in Presumed Innocent with Harrison Ford.

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Greta always had this very unique look about her.  She wasn’t the typical average beauty.  She had this spectacular exotic intelligent uniqueness to her.  She stood out.  She was sexy in a suit.  She was sexy without trying to be sexy.  Everything about her was unique.  Which is one reason why when I first saw photos of her months ago having really looked as if she had just let herself go, I was shocked.  This once beautiful woman now resembled someone that I would see at the DMV (Department of Motor Vehicles) wearing sweatpants with house shoes, there to renew her driver’s license.

The reason that I am pointing out that this isn’t ageing is because it was her explanation about how she looked.  She chalked it all up to ageing.

It is true that as we age our metabolism does slow down and we tend to put on a little weight.  But, we also don’t need as much food as we used to.  It’s not like we are still growing.  It’s also o.k. to skip a meal occasionally, it won’t hurt us.  I think food is more of our enemy as we age and not our friend.  Changing our diet as we age is key.  I myself am in the process of changing that.  Is it hard?  No.  But, it’s also not easy either.

I also do not know what health issues that Ms. Sacacchi has going on in her life at this time.  Perhaps that could explain the weight gain. 

Oh, and just to be clear, this isn’t about how we need to get Greta a plastic surgeon STAT!  This is about real ageing, and how we age will determine our health and happiness as we spend our remaining years.

I would like to try and enjoy what time I have left and not have to spend it dealing with major health issues.

No matter what health issues or problems that we all have, keeping our weight down is really important.  Fat also acts as an incubator for cancer.  We all know how cancer is becoming a part of our lives whether we are young or old.  But, there does come a time when we have to take control of our health and become more responsible where it is concerned.  Loosing weight is key.  Eating better is key.  Excercising is key.

When I look at Greta I see someone with “good bones.”  The expression is usually reserved for an old house that is in need of fixing up, but that is how I see her.  A once grand mansion that just needs a bit of work here and there to bring back that beauty that it once had.  Just by loosing a bit of weight and excercising and choosing clothing that is more flattering to our ageing figures can make all the difference in the world.  Sometimes we just need to care enough to do something about it.  I sometimes get into a rut and sometimes it’s hard to get out of.  But, I try and most of the time I succeed.

I really don’t mean to offend anyone with this post, especially Ms. Scacchi.  I’m sure that she will never hear of any of this.  After all, I think she has far more important things to do than to read my blog about her.  (More power to her.)  🙂

Whether or not she looses any weight or not, she will always be that very unique beauty from the 80’s and 90’s that I remember her to be.

Julie

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December 9, 2021

I Start With The Worst and Go From There

Fish Oil

I have dabbled in fish oil now for the past few years.  Usually, I would remove the cap from the bottle of the pill form of it and hold it in my hand ready to place the GIANT pill into my mouth, only to be disgusted and place it back into the bottle.  It’s just so damn big!

However, now that I am 60 I can no longer “entertain” the idea of perhaps dabbling in it, and now I actually have to go through with it and choke it down. 

I did find this bottle of fish oil at Sprout’s and purchased it.  It promises the taste of lemon.  (Yeah, right.)

Well, I choke down the spoonful while holding my breath.  (You can’t taste it as much when you hold your breath.)  The bottle is a bit pricey.  It was $28.00.  But, my health is worth it.  I am trying to think of something that I can make with it and add the lemon tasting fish oil into a recipe but, until that happens, I just choke it down while that song from Mary Poppins goes off inside my head, ‘Just a Spoonful of Sugar Helps the Medicine go Down.’

MY GUMMIES!!!!!

And now for the highlight of my day.

And again, I start with the worst and go to the best.  GOLI!  I HATE it!  But, I take one a day.

Then, I savor the flavor of my little gummy orange Vitamin C.

Followed by a pill to help me control my sugar.

Now, I save the best for last…..

Digestive Advantage Gummy!!!  Yeah!!!

It’s the little things…. 🙂

Julie

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December 7, 2021

Treadmill, Treadmill, Treadmill

(Always Posing)  🙂  Sorry, can’t help it.

You know, I am not the ‘jumping up and down in some exercise class at the gym’ kind of person.

I’m also not some pilates kind of person.  (I can probably do like ONE sit up.)  BUT, I can walk and I’ve been kind of a pro at it since I was about 9 months old.  Therefore, walking it is!

If every person walked every day there would be NO Type 2 Diabetes. 

So, WALK!

My recommendation is that since we live in a dangerous country, buy a treadmill so that it’s safely in your own home.  People disappear all the time while out for a walk, even when they have a dog with them, so, walk in the safety of your own home.  I do have to say that I believe the future is being in our own homes.  Yet connecting to others virtually.  Working from home, exercising from home, virtual school, etc.

I used to know this woman in Canada that wouldn’t go the gym unless her hair was colored and she looked great.  I tried to convince her to buy her own treadmill, that way she could use it whenever she wanted and it didn’t matter what her hair looked like.  Well, she wasn’t interested.  So, I guess her physical heath depends on whether her roots are showing or not. 

I don’t like being at the mercy of some gym membership.  Or, heaven forbid, if my roots are showing and I’m too afraid to go to the gym.  I like being independent.  I like being in control of my life.  I enjoy walking.  I also do a lot of thinking while I am on the treadmill and I solve a hell of a lot of problems that way.  If I so desire there is a large screen T.V. for me, which I normally forgo.  I also have a mini DVD player with headphones that I can use if I please.  But, most of the time I am just enjoying the time that I have with myself on the treadmill.

Julie

p.s.  I also drink a ton of water while I walk.  Another bonus.

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December 6, 2021

It’s The Little Contacts That Lift Us

Sixty Selfies

I am a news and political junkie.  I can’t help it, I am from a long line of political scientists and intellectuals.  I keep up with what is going on nationally.  Oh, I can’t tell you crap about what is going on locally.  However, I can name almost all of our Representatives in Congress, Senate and of course, The Supreme Court.  Which is probably why I am always a bit down.  When you read all of that on a daily basis it does get to you.  I have however, discovered that the day to day contact with average people to be very uplifting.

On Friday Gordon and I had appointments for our eye exams and to get new glasses on the military base.  It had been 3 1/2 years since we had last had our appointments.  The pandemic kept us away.  However, we did have our appointments and I discovered that my eyes hadn’t changed that much, neither had Gordon’s.  We both had our eyes dilated, which was interesting driving home.  I also picked out a new pair of glasses while my eyes were dilated.  So, that will be interesting when I pick them up in a few weeks.  Who knows what I picked out?

I also had the lenses replaced in some of my old glasses.  But, it was while we were at our eye exams and choosing new glasses that we had the chance to interact with the people there.  Everyone was very nice and helpful.  They were pleasant to talk to.  Extremely helpful.  They went out of their way for us.  And I did tell them how much that I did appreciate them.  But, what they gave me just in being nice and helpful was a boost that I needed in my daily life.  Reading the news as closely as we do can cause us to feel very isolated and lonely and a bit sad.  So, being in contact with strangers on a daily basis I think, helps us to appreciate and understand that there are good people out there that care about the same things that I care about.  I need to know that.

I always said that the less I know about someone, the more I like them. 

Well, I still think so, but, who says that I need to know all the deep stuff about anyone?  Just the day to day niceness is all that I need to care about.  It does give us a boost.  Sometimes a much needed boost.

I know that I am very appreciative to those that are very helpful and nice to me, and I let them know that.

So should you,

Julie

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(I have removed photos here for copyright purposes.)

November 9, 2021

The (Senior) Women Around My Age

(That I Adore, and Admire)

At this writing I am 60 and going through changes relating to that.  I think that I look pretty good to be 60, judging by other people that I see as being younger/older than me.  I’ve never had any work done.  I also think that is obvious and I shouldn’t even have to say that.  I do think that living in Florida has something to do with my being more limber and spry.  After all, the warmer climate does contribute to us not having those aches and pains that other seniors do in colder climates.  Also, because I am living in Florida I am on the younger side of being a senior so there are so many other people older than me living down here that I am not so invisible that other seniors go through while living in other states.

Me, Cooking in My Kitchen

As someone who comes from a modeling background (in my youth) I can relate to someone like Paulina Porizkova.

When you are known for the way that you look then that plays a big role in who you are.  I was modeling as young as 17 so people that knew me then expect me to look a certain way now.  Models like Paulina have been high profile models for way longer than I ever was and they are expected to look even better than I do.

Beautiful Paulina, age 56

Paulina has been very open and honest about aging.  I loved her TedTalk.

Paulina and her then husband, Ric Ocasek and their sons, Johnathon and Oliver

Paulina pretty much goes over her upbringing here so there is no need for me to add to any of her history.

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I will say about Paulina that she is known as the “Crying Lady” on Instagram.  Although I refer to her as the “Naked Lady” as she is always taking her clothes off.  I do admit that it does make this Georgia Southern Belle a bit uncomfortable but I just chalk it up to shrugging my shoulders and saying, “She is from Europe, ya know?”  As if they all go around taking their clothes off over there.

Paulina’s Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/paulinaporizkov/?hl=en

I have to admit that sometimes I think “The Crying Lady” on Instagram is nuts and other times I think she is brilliant.  I know that she does appeal to a segment of any population in any country out there.  I’m sure there are many people that cry and are unhappy, they just hide it whereas she shares it.  I’m sure that does help many people in her same boat. 

According to her she was not treated very well in her marriage which led to their separation and their impending divorce before her husband died from cancer.  He then cut herself and his 2 oldest children out of his Will but when he did that he was taking in her money and saying it was his.  Therefore she got nothing which wasn’t right.  She has since sued and was given a settlement from the Will.  Good!  I hope she made out well.

I like her!  I want her to be well and happy.  I hope she does meet someone special someday that will appreciate her, and love her, and give her everything that she deserves.  As in respect and consideration.  She is a beautiful woman and a nice person.  She still has quite a bit to contribute in life.  I love that she does crochet.  I can do all those old crafts as well because I was raised to do them by the ladies of leisure that I knew growing up in the south.

I also think that Paulina wants to have something very good and special in her life while she can.  She is a very loyal person and that loyalty that she had in her marriage to Ric Ocasek wasn’t the fairy tale that she wanted and deserved so she wants to find that in her life before she dies.  Someone to be in her forever home with her.  I wish her well, but if she doesn’t find someone special it’s only because he’s not out there for her.  But, still try and enjoy life.  For all we know this is all that we get.

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Christie Brinkley

I Love Christie’s New Casual Hairstyle

 

Christie.  Where do I even begin to talk about her?  I have looked at that pretty smile on that pretty face since I was a teenager.  At this writing she is either 67 or 68, I forget, but, she is still that pretty super model that we all know and love.  Christie is also single and I don’t think she is by choice.  She isn’t the reason her marriages ended.  It was the men she married that screwed up badly.  Christie has even said that she would slow her life down a bit if she were to meet someone. 

I do love Christie’s attitude towards life.  She is very positive, upbeat, active, energetic, etc…  I’m sure she could outdo me with her energy any day of the week.  I love that she has such a close relationship with her children and their partners in life. 

Jack, Sailor, Christie, Alexa, and Nina (Jack’s girlfriend)

I also like that she doesn’t hang around with a bunch of old models from her past.  She seems to have real friendships with real people.  (No offense to any past models on that one.)  It’s just that I see Christie as being raised in a very loving functional home and she doesn’t need all the drama that those of us raised in dysfunctional homes have.  That’s all.

I too adore my children and their partner’s they have chosen in life and Gordon and I are very supportive of them and include them in our lives as often as they will let us.

I don’t believe that I need to go into some biography of hers because we all know her well.  I do believe that she would love to have some partner in life but the fact that she doesn’t isn’t stopping her from enjoying the life that she has.  That is how we all should be.  Take an important lesson from Christie and just enjoy the life you have whether or not there is someone special in it with you, or not.

Christie’s Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/christiebrinkley/?hl=en

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Jane Seymour

I adore Jane!  Always have!  She was just one of those actresses that had the ability to be quite strong and vulnerable at the same time.  In every part she played you were always rooting for her and supporting her.  You knew she was good and deserving.  Not just on film but also in real life.

She is also someone that has had a few divorces in her life, just like Christie.  I also don’t think they were Jane’s fault.  She, like Christie, just married the wrong kind of person.  They wanted forever marriages, that just wasn’t what the men they married wanted. 

I do love Jane’s attitude towards life.  It is a lot like Christie’s.  They just make the best of it and constantly go forward.  That is all that any of us can do?

Jane does put other people before herself.  Her children, grandchildren, ……

She is a drop-dead gorgeous woman of 70!

She should probably start a website depicting the Sensational 70’s that she certainly is!

What I loved the most about Jane was how she would reach out to her husband’s ex-wives and be friendly towards them.  After all, in some cases they would be co-parenting and Jane took that role very seriously.  She wanted to make everyone comfortable.  Whether or not the relationships were ideal, she at least tried which is a lot more than most do.

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Jane does have a companion, his name is David Green

I do not think for one minute that David is the love of Jane’s life, but, I do see him as being a very important person in Jane’s life.  He allows her to shine and be the star while he happily supports her.  I think he’s just happy to go along for the ride.  Jane has her sisters that I believe are very supportive.  She just also has the ability to make friends and to keep those friends throughout her life.  I admire her tremendously!  She is special!

It was Jackie Kennedy that said, “The first time you marry for love, the second for money, and the third for companionship.”

Jackie Kennedy didn’t marry a third time but she did have a very loyal companion until her death.

  I see that being Jane’s life.

That saying also does apply to my own mother.  She married my biological father, her high school sweetheart for love, then she married my step-father the doctor, and now she is living with a man that she has known her entire life from childhood.  So, I guess that rule also applies to my own mother.

Visit Jane on her Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/janeseymour/?hl=en

AND,

https://www.janeseymour.com/

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Nigella Lawson

I have adored Nigella since about 2001 when I first saw her on the Style Network when we were living in Maryland.

I believe she is now on her 12th. cookbook and fixing to go on tour for it.  Cook, Eat, Repeat is her current cookbook.  The cookbook did debut on October 29, 2020, over a year ago.  I don’t know that much about cookbook’s or the tour’s they go on to promote them but it seems as if going on a cookbook tour over 1 year after the cookbook is debuted wouldn’t be so lucrative.  But, what do I know?

Nigella is 61 at this writing.  62 on January 6th. 2022.

I believe that she has a fairly decent U.K. following.  They seem to adore her.  I just find it hard to believe that her tour will be very successful.   All of her diehard fans have probably already bought the book.  I have watched a few of her speaking engagements and although I’m sure her fans find it nice to see her in person, the interview questions, (which she screens ahead of time) are very fluff.  ‘What would your last meal be?  And, ‘What food do you absolutely despise?’  Or something to that affect.  (The answer is green bell peppers.  She has also stated that the only people that should be allowed to eat them are Hungarian’s.)  And how would she even know how to answer that question unless she had tasted every food in the world? 

Asking about her children is off limits which I think is a bit harsh.  I mean, we don’t want their addresses and phone numbers, we would just like to know what they are up to?  How are they doing?  She did start out with them on her first T.V. shows so we’ve seen them since they were little and are curious about them.  When I run into someone that I haven’t seen in awhile I always ask about their children.  Not because I want salacious details on their activities, I’m just curious as to how they are doing and what they are up to?

To me, you need to grow your audience as you age because they are dying off or have moved on.  Nigella is a very attractive woman who could steal the limelight a bit more than she does by using her wardrobe to help enhance her appearance, and not just her intelligence.  Nigella always seems to wear the same old thing.  Black baggie pants, black shirt or turtleneck sweater, white blazer, and white tennis shoes.  It’s not like she is poor or something like that.  She chooses to wear the same old thing.  (In my opinion) In order to appeal to a new audience and to grow that audience, you need to appeal to them.  Wearing the same old thing doesn’t cut it.  After a while people start to wonder if it smells or something.

It’s not just her wardrobe.  Her audience is ageing.  I wish that she would reinvent her T.V. show.  It is very high quality but again, in order to stay relevant you do revamp yourself.  Something she doesn’t ever do.  I realize that I myself don’t do much to appeal and grow my audience on this website but you also don’t see me going on a tour for it.  The tour is about making money.

I am curious as to how her book tour goes?  Perhaps it will be very successful!  I don’t know the mindset of the average European to judge at this time.  The fact that she is going on tour and venue’s are booked does indicate an interest in her.

Regardless, she is still very relevant and I do enjoy hearing all that she is up to.

Good luck to you Nigella!

Nigella Lawson Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/nigellalawson/?hl=en

AND,

https://www.nigella.com/

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Giada De Laurentiis

https://www.instagram.com/giadadelaurentiis/?hl=en

Who doesn’t love Giada?  So cute and petite. 

A trained Chef that looks like she only sucks down broth every meal.  (Oh, I’m just jealous, that’s all.)  🙂

Giada barely made my list, only because she is 51.  I didn’t want to include anyone younger than 50.  She is also the youngest on my list.  I’m pretty sure that everyone knows Giada so I’m not going to go into any lengthy biography.  She was born in Rome, Italy while I was born in Rome, Georgia.  (We could be twins!)  Actually, the two Rome’s are sister cities.  They are Romans, and so are we.  Giada is divorced from her first husband Todd Thompson.  They have a daughter together named Jade.  Interestingly enough, Giada means Jade in Italian.  So, they are both named Giada and Jade at the same time.  Cool, huh?

Giada is of course from that famous De Laurentiis family from Italy.  Her grandfather was famed director Dino De Laurentiis.  Also, other family members are in the show business industry in many forms, such as producers, actors, etc.  Her mother Veronica De Laurentiis is an actress.  Interestingly enough, I named my daughter Veronica.  It isn’t a name that you hear all that often.

I believe that Giada had something of a tough upbringing here in America when she first moved over.  She couldn’t speak English and I can only imagine the bullying that she endured.  She did go on to be trained at Paris’s Le Cordon Bleu and had quite an impressive start before starting her T.V. shows.

I envy her from coming from such a large and interesting family.  I can imagine them as the loudest table in every restaurant with lots of laughter and the clinking of glasses.  I also envy Giada as belonging in two different countries and being comfortable in both.  America and Italy.  One country that houses her past and family history with it’s beauty and success, and the other housing her present and future.

Giada always seems to be having a book coming out or a new T.V. show in the works.  It does help in your success when you come from such an important film industry family.  They may help get her to the top, but her talent has kept her there.

I love her Aunt Raffy!  I wish I had one.  I love it when they bicker.  They are so cute together.  Aunt Raffy obviously adores Giada but she is also very honest with her and doesn’t tell her what she wants to hear.  That is the best aunt there is.

Giada with Raffaella De Laurentiis

Giada also has a boyfriend Shane Farley.  I don’t know if they are engaged at this writing, I just know that he is in her life.  I loved that he was helping to film her show during the pandemic.  There were cameras set up in her kitchen filming while he hand carried a camera.  I liked that.

https://www.giadadelaurentiis.com/

Giada’s Website Link

Giada and Shane

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It was back in the spring or summer when I was in this “mood” one day and looking at Instagram when I saw yet another recipe that Giada had posted which consisted of a white pasta, red tomato, and something green, and that is when I made a comment about it.  I told her that all her food looks alike.  The basics of Italian food are white pasta, lots of red tomatoes, and always something green like parsley.  That’s just Italian food.  And Italian food is delicious regardless of that.  But, I think I angered some of her fans because my notifications starting going up in numbers.  I don’t read them, btw.

I took a photo of this about an hour ago to show you that I don’t read my notifications on Instagram.  I have read them in the past, a few years ago, but I stopped because they really weren’t important to me and by reading them I am allowing their comments about me into my life and I wasn’t going to give them that power.  So, I no longer read them.  And to tell you the truth I don’t even know what all that means?  I guess the image of a person means a comment left by someone but I don’t even know what the little house means.  Home, I guess?

But, the point is that it doesn’t matter.  Likes, re-Tweets, Follows, none of that matters.  If 100 people disagree with me that doesn’t mean that my comments are wrong, it just means 100 people disagree with me. I am not the kind of person that needs validation.  I’m also not the kind of person that reads instructions, but that’s a story for another day.

The truth of the matter is that when you look at Giada’s website’s food, the colors are all bright and beautiful yet very similar.  Perhaps using the same camera, or the same set, or similar platters, plates, cutlery,background etc…. all of that contributes to it’s overall look.  That’s why I said what I did.  What I said, I’m sure, was unwanted critique.  And before I go I would like to offer up one more.  Giada has admitted as much that she will under cook a chicken because it looks better in pictures that way.  I believe that the chicken should be cooked to it’s doneness and photographed as such so that the average person knows what their chicken is actually supposed to look like and not believe that their chicken is overdone when comparing photos.

Having said that know that all the comments on my website have been disabled so don’t waste your time writing me.  I only had them disabled because of the amount of SPAM I was getting, as in comments that were thousands of words long.  But, I like no comments.  I’m freer to say what I want without having to deal with any haters.

Giada’s website is stunningly beautiful regardless.  And her food is delicious.

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Why I Wrote About These Women

The women I write about here are successful, mature, attractive, and just nice examples of women around my age that I believe have very full lives.  No matter what any of them may be going through personally, if anything at all, they just seem to continue to strive to be the best they can, not only on the outside but the inside as well.

I know that having reached the age of 60 this year that I am noticing changes in myself that are new.  I’m sure the pandemic had something to do with it as well.  But, it just seems like there are so many challenges that we women are facing now that our mother’s and grandmother’s just didn’t.  Life is just more complicated.  And I guess I am just wondering how women around my age are handling things themselves?

Some of the women I mention above are in relationships, while other’s aren’t.  It does seem like the pool of decent eligible mature men has dried up out there.  I find myself thinking about death more now that I’m 60.  I’ve wondered if I myself would even consider dating if Gordon were to die before me and I was young enough to even want to date again.  (The answer is NO btw.)  I don’t think that I would.  I enjoy being alone too much.  I would just much rather occupy my time with dogs, children and perhaps grand-children.  I have told Gordon that if I die before him to go ahead and remarry.  I would be o.k. with it.  My only stipulation would be that he choose someone good because she would be the grandmother to my grandchildren.  And I love my unborn grandchildren more than any jealousy that I would have towards another woman.  (And besides, I would be dead so what would I care?)  🙂  Although if she is 25 I will haunt his ass!

I am post-menopausal and thrilled by it!  I’m not one to mourn the loss of child-bearing years.  However, menopause itself certainly had it’s challenges.  I refer to them as my “ugly” years.  I put on weight, I was a sweaty mess, always miserable….  you get the picture.  But having all that behind me has been wonderful!  It’s funny but whenever I open up an old purse, or piece of luggage, or clean out a bathroom cabinet, I always seem to find the old maxi-pads or tampons.  I keep passing them to my daughter whenever I find them and she’s amazed by just how many I had stashed everywhere.

I was driving on to the base one day when the gate guards decided to do a random search of my car and when one guy reached underneath the passenger seat (looking for a gun), he pulled out a giant ziplock baggie of maxi-pads.  I then lit up like a Christmas tree and said, “Oh, I’d forgotten about them!  Thanks for finding them.”  He just looked embarrassed and put them back.  I then told him that maxi-pads are the most dangerous thing you will find in my car and then I asked him if he wanted to keep searching?  He said no and then they let me continue on to the base.

It’s amazing how the older we get the less we care about those things.  I can remember being with my mother when I was in high school at the grocery store and she was buying me tampons and how devastated that I was because I knew the bag boy bagging up our grocery’s.  Oh the horror!!!  🙂

Well, I suppose that I just wanted to let you know that I have my good days and my not so good days.  Being an Empath, I pick up on so much unhappiness out there that sometimes I just can’t block it all out.  I worry about the direction our country is going in.  I worry about my children.  I worry about Gordon’s and my health.  Not just physically but mentally.  I want us to be of sound mind as we age and enter into the last phase of our lives healthy.  I can always do more towards that, we all can.  Treadmill, diet, no sugar, cut back on carbs…

And for my news, my tests are indicating diabetes.  I have until January to loose 15 pounds and take these meds to help control my sugar.  If I can straighten all of this out by then, great!  If I can’t?  Well,  🙁

I do hope that everyone above is doing better than me in that department.  I do wish you all health and happiness.  And I hope you will be around for a very long time.

Julie

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July 13, 2021

Just Catching Up

As you may have read in my blog posts below I have been doing my best to catch up on all my doctor appointments that I slacked off on because of the pandemic.  In some cases I hadn’t seen certain doctors in a year, to a year and a half, to two years.

One of my doctor’s, my heart doctor, I saw about a month ago.  I usually go about every 6 months.  My heart is fine but I do have a family history on both sides of my family with heart disease.  Therefore I qualify through my insurance for the bi-yearly visits.  I got an EKG and everything is fine.  I really just go for a check up, just a wellness visit.  I was happy to hear that I am fine.  Nothing really changed for my health during the pandemic.  I was worried what with my age that not seeing my doctor’s on a regular basis would hurt me but it turns out that it didn’t. 

I will say this.  I have had some pain in my hands a few times this year and that is new.  One morning I woke up a few months ago and it was as if I had injured both of my hands.  That is what it felt like.  And as the day progressed by noon the pain in my left hand had disappeared.  Then about an hour or so later the pain in my right hand disappeared.  The pain didn’t come back until a few weeks ago in my left hand and it hurt for about 2 days.  I decided to purchase some Aspercreme and the second I did the pain went away and it hasn’t come back.  I’m sure it will but these are the first signs for me that I am aging and here come the aches and pains.  🙁

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As usual, I sometimes post photos of some of the food that I eat to share with you.

I LOVE SPAGHETTI!!!

To me it is the most perfect meal.  It satisfies all of my tastes and senses.

Whenever I make it, I make a big batch to last for several meals during a week.

I also ADORE BREAD!

I filled this loaf with butter, Parmesan Cheese, and our Herbs

Here are mine and Gordon’s plates. 

The meatballs are meatless and from Sprouts.

We also load everything with our garden herbs.

Red Wine is also a big hit with us.

The Reds are also loaded with antioxidants which are very healthy for us.  Also, seniors that drink around 8 glasses of alcohol per week are less likely to break a bone when they fall down.  Something to think about in our old age.  🙂  Because once we do break a bone, our health tends to deteriorate from thereon.

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My New Favorite Pizza

Dr. Oetker Virtuoso Thin and Crispy Crust Pizza

Mozzarella and Pesto

This is a new favorite pizza of mine.  I love to add some of our homemade pesto, or some jarred pesto, and some cheese stuffed peppers along with some Manchego Cheese and a drizzle of the very hot and spicy oil from the jar.  Also some of our fresh Basil.

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Another Great Salad

Here we cut up a small baguette and spread butter on the slices and then topped with a garlic cheese and baked for about 8 minutes on 350F, and then broiled it until it got a bit browned.

A Great Salad and Bread Stick

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May 27, 2021

A Great and Easy Dinner

Broccoli Stuffed Chicken Breasts

In the past I have featured a few foods that I eat at 60 just to give you an idea and perhaps influence you to eat something similar.  It’s important for us to try and maintain a more slender frame in our later years.  We don’t need foods to help us grow anymore.  We need foods to sustain us and give us healthy poops.  Sorry, but it’s true.  We need to eat foods that will go through us and not linger around inside of us, that is when cancer can occur.  Also, fat acts as an incubator to cancer so perhaps it’s time for us to shed a few pounds.  It also won’t hurt us to skip a meal occasionally.  We’ll be fine.

The Broccoli Stuffed Chicken Breasts that you see above are the size of my fist, which is a good portion size for meats.  Remember that.  The Chicken is from when I joined Nutri-System over a year ago.  I was only a member for a few months and still have a ton of the foods in our freezer.  Every now and then Gordon and I will dig something out from my Nutri-System collection and we will eat it.  However, you can find chicken breasts like the ones we have above in the freezer section of your grocery stores.  We always doctor ours up as in adding more spices, or herbs… here Gordon broiled them to give them that great finish.

We also always have fresh lettuce and veggies in our refrigerator so creating a nice salad can be fast and easy.  Here our salad bin extras helped to make this meal even more healthy and fun to eat.  Drizzle a nice dressing over top and you have a very tasty dinner.  Just a suggestion….  🙂

Julie

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May 26, 2021

The Dentist

It was during the Pandemic, probably around this time last year that a company took over the company that Gordon works for.  Not much actually changed except some of our insurance through them.  Gordon did get a small raise from this company which was much appreciated.  🙂  Yet the insurance for our Eye and Dental did change.

I didn’t think that it would be any big deal.  We just had different insurance, that’s all.  Well, now that we are getting back out there with our medical needs we called our family dentist the other day to make our appointments for our usual cleanings, X-ray’s, etc.  We also both have chipped teeth.  Yes!  We are hillbilly’s!  Actually, mine chipped off a few months ago.  You can’t even tell given the angle of it.  I can smile big and you won’t even notice it.  But, one of my veneer front chipped off.  Gordon’s tooth chipped off the other day.  Again, it isn’t noticeable when he smiles.  BUT STILL, we do need a dentist.

I  have a very healthy mouth only because I work very hard at it.  Gordon and Veronica have very healthy mouths and they don’t even have to try.  Veronica will be 34 in July and she has NEVER had a cavity!  It’s just hereditary that they have healthy mouths.  Brodie, took after my side of the family and in order for us to have healthy teeth and gums we have to work at it.

Anyway, I had called my regular dentist that I have seen for the past few years and have spent a lot of money there btw.  I had made mine and Gordon’s appointments and told them of our new insurance.  It was 2 days later that one of the girls called me to tell me that they aren’t in our insurance “network” and that is a problem.  I didn’t understand why it would be a problem?  We just changed insurance companies, other than that things should be the same?  Yet NO, NOT really!

We contacted our NEW Dental Insurance Company to find out more and we were told that because they are not in our “network” that we would have to pay a higher copay.  Instead of our usual $25.00 we would have to pay $50.00.  Well, o.k., we can do that.  Not such a big deal.  BUT, we then found out that we would need to pay them in full, up front.  They would then submit the paperwork and we would receive a check from our insurance company reimbursing us for the services.  O.k, we can do that.  But THEN, we found out that they have the ability to charge us as much as they want to and our insurance company will only reimburse us a certain amount and no more.  So, if our dentist charges us 1,000.00 for work done and our insurance will only reimburse us $500.00 then we are out $500.00. That is NOT o.k.

So, we now have to find a new dentist that is in our “network.” 

The thing that I do know from having a surgeon as a step-father and my working in his offices in two locations, in two states, as I was growing up is that a dentist or a doctor can charge whatever they want.  They don’t have to charge an arm and a leg unless they want to.  I saw my step-father erase $350,000.00 from his books that patients owned him that never paid.  He didn’t have to do that.  He did it because he knew what it was like to grow up poor and he had a sympathy for those people and he didn’t want to send the bill collectors after them.  He always said that it is the people that don’t have the money that pay him, and the people that do have the money don’t.

My step-father may have been extremely abusive to me, but he was good to a lot of other people.  That just wasn’t the man that I knew.  I knew the monster while everyone else knew the kind person.  I will always give him credit for the good he did to other people.  I just didn’t know that person.  I do recognize that other people did though.

So, my dentist whom I have been very loyal to for years will not agree not to charge me an arm and a leg for my dental procedures in the future so therefore I am saying goodbye and am forced to find another dentist.  You know, I had very healthy teeth and rarely saw the dentist.  I mostly saw the dental hygienist whom I adored.  Having a good relationship with who does your teeth is important.

Gordon immediately got online and was looking up dentists in our network.  The first one he came to was a woman with an uneven haircut.  As am Empath I was paying particular attention as I can read people in photographs.  I saw her and instantly disliked her.  First of all, I have never gotten along with anyone with an uneven haircut.  As I told Gordon, “She is a Karen and I am not going to her.”  He then pulled up a middle aged man with a giant beer gut and told me that his office isn’t far from where we live.  I told Gordon that I didn’t like him but show me his office anyway.  The photo depicted several pick up trucks were parked outside his office.  NO!  I am not going to some MAGA Dentist!  Go to the next one on the list…..

He then showed me a photo of an African-American woman in her late 30’s or early 40’s.  Her credentials were educated.  I didn’t pick up anything negative about her in her photo.  Now show me where she is located.  Turns out in a nice progressive area.  And every car out front in the photo is a 4 door sedan.  DONE!  She is our new dentist!  We just need to call and make our appointments.

Being an Empath is a Gift, and a Curse.  In times like these it is a Gift.

Julie

P.S.  Right now I feel as if we are just surviving.

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May 18, 2021

Still Working Outside

My Medical Appointments

And,

Indulging in a Bit of Gossip

What you don’t know is that in the photo at left was taken 1 second before I suddenly fell backwards for no reason whatsoever and hit my head on the table that is behind me that you cannot see, I also skint my arm in the process, photo right.

Post Menopausal Clumsiness

It’s as if I am 12 all over again and tripping over my very long toes and bloodying up my knees.  I’m going through adolescence all over again and now my head and elbow hurt because of it.  But I’m tough and I will get through it.  I’m hoping there is some ending to this clumsiness other than death.

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Medical Appointments Update

I write way down below about how I am maneuvering our healthcare system all over again except as a newbie.  Most of my medical doctors retired during the pandemic so I was left with pretty much starting over in trying to find good quality care in a system that is still broken.  So, today I finally got my wellness checkups for my Pap Smear/Pelvic Exam and my Mammogram.  My new nurse practitioner whom I met for the first time back in March at my Family Practice recommended this place.  It was a very nice elaborate clinic, brand new, and a large building.  It was a woman’s health clinic.  I liked that.  It is just for women. 

I was kind of nervous as I haven’t had these much needed appointments in 2 years.  When I was set to have all this done last year the pandemic hit and I went underground.  Now that I am emerging I am trying to get back into the swing of things where my healthcare and just life in general is concerned. 

I am not used to big and elaborate, I am used to small and intimate.  I grew up in small towns my entire life and my step-father was a country doctor that made house calls so that is what I am used to and I tend to gravitate towards the small clinics and shun the large ones.  I just feel as if I am going to get lost in them.  Metaphorically, and literally.  To be perfectly honest, I couldn’t figure out how to make the elevator work.  Really!  There were these big black buttons all along the front before you enter the elevator yet the button to make it work was this small silver button with a light in the center.  I felt so stupid.  Besides, my mind doesn’t work to initiate the simple things in life, my mind sees through all the noise to find that small hidden clue that most people miss.  I was once at a restaurant and I couldn’t figure out how to use the salt shaker grinder.  I was so embarrassed and the people that I was dining with were looking at me as if I were stupid but later on that night we were playing a memory game and I beat them all 3 times.  I then regained a bit of dignity from that one.  🙂

I will say that the OBGYN part of the building was very efficient.  Everyone was perfect.  They said the right things, they were very organized, Oh! it is now required in the state of Florida to sign a statement saying that you are aware you are there to get a Pap Smear.  I guess it’s not enough that I made an appointment FOR a Pap Smear for that to be obvious? 
This is the Ron DeSantis Administration, our governor, inserting himself in women’s healthcare.  Just where white men love to be.  I will say this about something my right-wing wacko step-brother said a few decades ago.  He was talking about women and he said that women are just the hosts that carry the men’s seeds.  So, this has been going on awhile.  It’s just coming to full fruition now.  Especially now with Roe v Wade at risk and right-wing men feeling emboldened.

While I was sitting in the exam room waiting for my doctor to come in I noticed the rubber glove boxes on a shelf on the wall and how the Small box was full, the Medium box was half empty, and the LARGE box barely had any left.  I then knew that my doctor most likely had large hands and that doesn’t bode well for a Pap and Pelvic Exam.  Just sayin.’  🙁

They had me watch a 4 minute video before my appointment on how we can’t sue them if they maim or kill us and we need to just go into mediation.  Also, our spouse and children can’t sue them either because our signature prevents that.

Just another day in the American healthcare system. 

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Mammogram

Right after my Pap and Pelvis Exam appointment on the 3rd. floor, I entered the elevator to take me down to the 1st. floor, after learning how to maneuver the elevator successfully.  🙂

I liked the people in the mammogram department.  They were just less robotic and extremely friendly but not in a fake way.  It is a bit humiliating to be exposing yourself and have someone touching your breasts and manipulating them into various positions in that machine to have the much needed photos taken of them.  But, I have never had a bad mammogram experience other than just the discomfort of the process.  I will say this, when we were living in Hawaii and I would go to the Air Force military hospital for my Pap Smear there would be a Magnum P.I. poster on the wall above us and that is what we would look at during the proceeger.  I get the humor, but it can be construed as very inappropriate.  After all, there are teenagers that have Pap Smear’s that would be looking at that poster and that is when it is a bit inappropriate.

Bottom line:  Everything went well.  I am very happy to have these two big appointments behind me and now I am just awaiting the results.  My test results always tend to be on the healthy side but as I age you never know, do ya?

Gordon drove me to my appointments and afterwards we did a bit of shopping.  Found some great things and then grabbed a late lunch to take home and eat.  I then took a nice nap because I was very anxious about my appointments the night before and didn’t get as much sleep as I needed.  That is also something new with me.  Anxiety.  Once I was rested I put my hair up and hit the garden.

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I found what I wanted to put into the last vacant pot in my herb garden, Lemon Balm.  🙂

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I did finish the new plantings of our round retaining wall.

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A Bit of Gossip

Because I mention Chrissy Tiegan below I do feel obligated to say something about the ‘cancel culture’ surrounding her.  I do defend her below when I talk of how the trolls drove her off Twitter.  She was a good voice for the under privileged that I hate is silenced.  And now she is even further silenced.  I really didn’t know of her past comments to people like Courtney Stodden that are quite harsh.  Telling a 16 year old girl to kill herself is quite horrible.  She should apologize and should have never said such a horrible thing.  I remember Courtney Stodden at that time and to me she was a young train wreck.  The difference between me and Ms. Tiegan is that I kept my mouth shut and she didn’t.

Also, something that Ms. Tiegan said when she was 9 years old is being used against her.  That is ridiculous!  There needs to be a line drawn where something someone said at that young age should not be used against them.

You know, to get to the top of the super model spectrum is not an easy achievement and given my modeling and pageant background I can tell you that the kind girls don’t get that far.  The mean girls do.  Chrissy Tiegan probably did say some horrible things about other girls to get as far as she has but I also recognize that she became a better person as she grew and matured.  Now karma is catching up to her and she is having a hard time because of it.  She has been given such an excellent teachable moment.  She can either use it to a good advantage, or not.  That is up to her.  But I do see good in her and I hope she comes back and continues to be a voice to the voiceless that she does recognize.

TTYL….

Julie

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May 11, 2021

Social Media/Anti-Social Media, and Tawny “Julie” Kitaen

We all hear every now and again how social media is ruining lives.  I do believe that had I grown up in this era of social media it would have harmed me emotionally way worse than I had it, and I had it bad!  As many of my readers know I grew up moving around a lot and was the new kid in school 9 times in 12 years.  Being the new kid in school that many times meant that people never had a problem showing me their worst selves. And oddly enough that pattern has continued throughout my life.  For some reason people have never minded showing me their worst possible selves?

I have also had a love/hate relationship with the telephone my entire life as well.  Although at this writing it is only in the “hate” relationship.  The telephone was a means of communicating to my friends and boyfriends, but it was also the weapon of the mean girls when I was growing up.  Now it’s just the weapon of spam and con artists, which is why I cringe every time it rings and I rarely budge when it does.  If someone I know starts talking then I meander over to the phone and pick it up if they are in the process of leaving a message.

When our neighbor Lesia lived next door to us she would always have her cell phone and beeper strapped to her body, while carrying her house phone in her hand as she would walk her dog.  I used to ask her why she carried all her electronics with her and she said that she didn’t want to miss a call or a page.  I then told her that I don’t live my life at the beckon call of others.  They can just call and leave a message and I will get back to them when I have the time.  She then looked at me as if something was “wrong” with me.  🙂

In my youth I was one of those people that worried all the time about what people thought of me, and if they liked me, and I worried when I had disappointed them.  Those days are gone because I eventually realized that they were never worth my time to begin with and sometimes I kick myself for ever believing that they were?

The telephone was invented to help people communicate with each other and then the mean girls took it over and turned it into a weapon.  Just like everything that is invented for good is then turned into something bad.  Social Media comes to mind.  It may have been started as a good way to connect to each other but was then taken over by trolls as a way to hurt and harm people.

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Most things are invented or created or developed in order to help you, but then the bad people take it over and use it against you.

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My Website

I never viewed my website as an interactive tool.  I always viewed it as my way telling my story to whomever is interested.  Kind of like a diary whether it be through food, or holidays, or how-to’s, or our history, crafts, or even my personal blogs.  I never saw it as a tool to communicate with other’s.  I used to have comments on my website and I welcomed them whether they be positive or negative as long as they were constructive.  However, the majority of my comments were nothing more than spam, as in someone leaving a comment that is thousands of words long.  So, when a comment would come in that is thousands of words long, I would have to scroll alllllllllll the way down to the bottom of the comment before I could delete it.  And I did this about 7 times a day to several of these comments a day.  The comments were nothing more than gibberish as it was.  Just spam intended to clog up my website.  I put up with this for a few years and I then told my website security company to just disable my comments.  They really did object for a few weeks before they finally did it, but I kept insisting that they do it.  I have not regretted it since.

Although I would love to hear “real” comments from “real” people, that is just no longer an option thanks to the bad guys taking over my comments with their spam.

But, I can communicate to you and you can receive my communications, we just can’t communicate with each other personally.  That’s the social/anti-social aspect of my website.

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The Social Media that I Use

I mainly use Twitter.  I am however signed up for Facebook and Instagram.  I just don’t really use either of them.  To me, Facebook was about connecting to our past and I don’t really care much for any of them.  And Instagram to me is more of a mean girl bully forum.  I do follow some very interesting people on Instagram and I will certainly give my share of likes and even a comment here and there but I really don’t care if they interact with me.  I am only interested in what the people that I follow post, period.

I have never posted anything on Instagram.

Instagram Notifications that I have never checked in over a year.

In the past when I did check my Instagram notifications they were always mostly negative so I decided to quit checking them.  I have never posted anything on Instagram but I do follow people that do, and I do “like” many things as well as leave a comment here and there.  I just figure their loyal followers will occasionally read what I post and not the recipient of the post.  I am o.k. with that.

Twitter

I am active on Twitter and I do read my notifications that I receive.  I just tend to like that crowd better than the other social media forums.  I have come across some very nice people through Twitter and I do like connecting to them.

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The Trolls

For those of you that aren’t regular readers of my website I have had a cyber-stalker for almost 3 decades.  We know who he is.  He is my husband Gordon’s former best friend.  His name is Paul Gray.  My brother Johnny one day referred to Paul as a troll that harasses me when he was talking to a group of people.  I then corrected my brother Johnny with this explanation:  “To me, a troll is someone who stands outside your house yelling and screaming at you.  You can close your drapes or blinds so that you don’t have to look at them.  You can even turn the volume up on your T.V. so that you don’t have to hear them.  But, Paul is inside our house.  That is what I put up with.  So to refer to him as a troll is downplaying just how serious my situation is.”

Everyone knows Chrissy Tiegen?  She left Twitter due to the amount of trolls that harassed her?  When I read that she left because of that the first thing that I thought was why did you leave?  Why not just NOT read your comments?  Why do you have to?  Who cares what anyone says about you?  Your true fans only care about what you post.  Just continue to post, that is all anyone cares about?

Well, she left.  And the next thing that I thought of is that she let the trolls win!  But, I then realized that is not what happened.  She left because she had a life to go to.  She is married to John Legend.  They have two great kids together.  She has a few cookbooks underneath her belt.  She is a former model.  She has a family that loves her and she is opening a restaurant.  She left because she had a life to go to.  The trolls may have run her off but she ran to a great life whereas the trolls are still there because they have no life to go to other than to try and make people as miserable as they are.

I just wish that instead of her leaving Twitter that she had found a balance between being social/anti-social in her Twitter account.  Why not hire someone to sort through the crap so that she didn’t have to?

We all need to find a way to still use social media but do it in a safer way?  What works for me may not work for you.  I suppose we are all figuring this out as we go. 

One of my Mother’s Day gifts from Veronica

When I saw this it was perfect for me!  My daughter does know me.  And at first I thought it was a dig at my anti-social behavior but then I wondered if it also has the meaning of that I would just rather be with the rest of the mermaids and not with the people?  I should ask her?  🙂

I write above about how people have never had a problem showing me their worst selves.  Perhaps had I not known those experiences then I would be more social?  I guess we’ll never know?  But, through my anti-social behavior I have come to know myself very well.  I like myself.  I’ve also learned that the average person out there is nothing special.  Average is neither smart nor dumb, and the majority out there is average.  I don’t think I’m missing out on much by being a person that only surrounds herself with people that I love and can trust and rely on.  Besides, I think the future is isolation.  But, why not create your own oasis in your environment?  Consider it your ‘all inclusive resort’ right in your own home.  At the end of the day we are responsible for our own happiness and we can either take on that responsibility, or leave it up to others.  I’m too much of a control freak to leave something as important as my happiness to someone else.  🙂

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Tawny Kitaen

Tawny was born Julie Kitaen on August 5, 1961, and died on May 7, 2021.  She was an actress most known for her role in Bachelor Party with Tom Hanks.  I liked that movie and thought it was really cute.  The movie came out in 1984.  Tawny was 59 at her death just 3 months shy of her 60th. birthday.  Which actually confirms to me the importance of my holding my birthday cake in my photo at the very top of this page.  I knew turning 60 was a milestone for me that other’s may not achieve, Tawny included.

Tawny’s most famous role was in her then husband David Coverdale of the band Whitesnake, video Here I Go Again, while doing gymnastics on the hoods of two cars parked close together.  One of them was her husband’s.

 

Whitesnake, Here I Go Again

To me this is one of the most famous music video’s of all time.  It had everything in it.  A great song, a great band, a great video format, and the beautiful Tawny Kitaen.

You can’t help but be captivated by her beauty.  That big smile with those gorgeous dimples.  Her slender figure that she had no problem maneuvering into those gymnast moves, which is what she used to be.  Her graceful movements and that magnificent head of hair.  Tawny was the total package and I don’t think that video would have been as successful if not for her contribution.  She was the icing on the cake.  She also had a very unique look to her.  In this day and age everyone seems to look alike to me.  I like those who are different.

Her marriage to David Coverdale only last about 2 years.  I remember that he once said in an interview that she just one day left and never told him why she was leaving him?  And to this day he never knew why?  I also saw him in an interview where he had won some award and was giving credit to her as one of the reasons he did win that award.

She is also in this video.  I do love this song and can listen to it over and over again.  Whitesnake did create some excellent songs and music video’s.  They were talented musicians.

 

I did write to Tawny on Twitter a few years ago complimenting her on the video, Here I Go Again and explaining to her that no one will ever rival it and to be proud of it.  She not only liked what I said but even wrote back some nice words. 

I was following her on Instagram but I decided to just unfollow her about a year ago as it was hard for me to continue to watch the train wreck that she had become.  (In my opinion.)  Some of the photos she would post looked as if she had a mattress in her walk in closet where she would writhe around in her underwear taking selfies of her bloated self.  I hope that her family has since removed some of those photos. 

I know that she had a troubled life.  I believe she was an unstable person.  Two divorces, arrested for battering her 2nd. husband with her shoe.  She one day got mad at someone who took the parking spot she wanted so she keyed their car, etc. etc…..

Although she may have been 59 on the outside I think that in her mind she was still that young 25 year old.  She aged on the outside but never really grew up on the inside. 

I don’t want to think about the troubled 59 year old.  I just wish she had made it to 60.  I think we are in a pretty exclusive club.  I would much rather remember her as the beautiful girl doing cartwheels on top of the cars to that Whitesnake video.

RIP Julie “Tawny” Kitaen

Julie

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April 27, 2021

Grow Something, Anything

(Or at least nurture something that is growing.)

I started this herb garden a few years ago.  It was nice to have this part of our backyard sectioned off just for me and my project.  My project, to inject more fresh herbs into our diet.

Julie’s Herb Garden

This is my first herb garden.

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This is my Second Herb Garden

Julie’s New Herb Garden

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And this is my continuing Herb Garden

Gordon Helping With The Hard Work

Every two years we have to clean the herb garden bed out and prepare it for the new year. 

You can see how messy it is here.  It usually collects a lot of dead leaves and sticks and some mold that needs to be cleaned off.

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Now It’s Time To Start Buying Up the Flowers and Herbs

(One of many carts btw.)

I always have herbs that last through the year, we do live in Florida after all.  But, some I always need to replenish because we either eat them faster than we can grown them, or they just get too old that I want fresh new growth.  Our Rosemary comes to mind.  It is a very sturdy herb but it turns into long spiny sticks and no longer looks very good.

I can always buy our favorites at places like Lowe’s but some more exotic herbs I like to order from online.

Gordon and Myself Picking out our Favorites

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Excited to Get Started

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You can see my now cleaned out Herb Garden ready for me to start planting.

This is Thai Cilantro that I am Replanting

It’s Always a Fun Dirty Job

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How Pretty and Green

I like a mixture of Herbs and Flowering Plants

You can also see the fresh layer of Wood Chips in the Border Bed

Obviously I’m not finished yet as I do have some empty pots. 

I’m trying to decide what I want to put in them?

The reason that I keep things a bit elevated and in pots is because I live in a neighborhood where many people will use those cancer causing lawn treatments.  And although we never have, our neighbors have done so in the past and when it rains we will get the run off from their yards which means those chemicals drift into our property.  Sometimes it takes decades to get those toxins out of the soil.  Therefore, by bringing in organic soil and keeping everything elevated I am hopefully keeping our herbs safe from those pesticides and carcinogines.

I have a new goal that everyday I figure out how to incorporate fresh herbs into our foods.  Sometimes it’s not easy.  I mean herbs don’t exactly go with a peanut butter sandwich?  🙂

Can’t Wait to Fill These

New Rosemary

I love my Dirty Pots

To the right, Dill.  To the left, my String of Pearls.

Thai Basil, Thai Buddah

Purple and Green Basil with Sparky

My Wild Garlic

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Do not be deterred from beginning your own Herb Garden simply because you don’t have some large plot of land to get started on.  You could have a few pots sitting in your windowsill’s.  It doesn’t have to be big or elaborate.  It can be simple and productive. 

Here we have two hanging baskets of Mint on our Lanai.

Mint to the Left, and Mint to the Right

So, get started.  The benefits of growing something that contributes positively to your health and your life also contribute to the peacefulness of your soul.  The two are connected.  You can thank me later.  🙂

Julie

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April 20, 2021

Fried Rice and Veggie Egg Rolls

I just like posting the kinds of foods I do eat. 

Many nights I eat light and not heavy.

ALSO,

We have a new Grand-Dog!

Meet Hank 🙂

Do you know how important animals are in our lives? 

If you don’t then I feel very sorry for you.  If you do then I needn’t speak another word about it.

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April 18, 2021

It’s Common Knowledge That I Hate My Hair!

I do write about it below.  It is also common knowledge that I prefer a perm to my natural straight hair.  It is mainly because of the volume that a perm gives me that my flat straight hair doesn’t.  (I am from the deep south where big hair rules the day.  Look, it’s in my DNA so just accept it.)

But, it was while Gordon was working overseas and I was relaxing on the Lazy Boy chair watching T.V. and using this thingy to massage my head…

The Head Massage Thingy

…that is when I went into the bathroom and WOWEE!!!  LOOK AT MY HAIR!  The Volume!  I knew then that I was probably the envy of every limp haired girl from the south at that very moment if they could just see my hair.  I was a HAIR GOD!  I then looked down at the head massage thingy as if it were the equivalent of Thor’s Hammer, Wonder Woman’s Bracelets, Nancy Drew’s Magnifying Glass… well, you know what I mean.  My hair looked wonderful!  Beautiful!  I could have gotten a job at Hooter’s as a waitress and beat out all those young girls with my hair alone!

It was at that moment that I knew the head massage thingy will be a part of my grooming process until I can safely get a perm once this pandemic is over with.  This tool pretty much lifts your hair from underneath.  I don’t just use it to to lift up and down.  I use it to swirl around and around.  I do close my eyes so that one of the prongs doesn’t blind me.  (Highly recommended.)

But this tool lifts your hair and gives you volume and then you can style your hair how you like. 

I will say that I have better volume when I have something of a perm still left in my hair.  But, until that time, this tool does help with what I have.

Adding Volume, Added Volume

Finished Hair

(With a Curling Iron and Hair Spray)

Oh, and the dress above is what I call a house dress.  I always wear old dresses like this when I apply my make up and fix my hair so that I don’t get all that stuff on my clothing I will be wearing out that day.  I usually get face powder and hair spray all over my clothes.

Just a tip from me. 

From one steel magnolia to another.

Julie

P.S.  I do believe that Dolly Parton would be supportive of my big hair triumphs and attempts. 

God bless her!

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April 17, 2021

2nd. Shot Yesterday!

Covid Vaccine

(Raymond James Stadium)

I was getting my cell phone camera set up and I didn’t even know that I had taken this photo of me.  🙂

The look in my eyes is…  I don’t even know?  Dread?  Anticipation?  But, I find it interesting.

Driving Through the Cones

As you can see there is hardly anyone here at 5:30 p.m. on a Friday evening. 

That’s Red State Florida for you!

We got the Fizer shot both times and our only side effects have been a sore arm for about 24 hours and then it goes away.  That’s it.  Now whatever lingering things that have yet to be determined, have yet to be determined.  But, we are fully vaccinated….for now.  🙂

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April 14, 2021

Health Issues Verses Health Problems

(April 17, 2021 Update:  When I write below what I live for I failed to mention that I live for my husband and children and animals as well.  I didn’t mention them because that is just a given.  Oh, course I live for them.)

I believe that when I write below about trying to get an appointment since last March 2020 I am misleading you.  I do wish to clarify.  What I meant was that all of my doctor appointments were due last March/April 2020.  But, the pandemic changed all that.  I cancelled all of my appointments and I decided to wait and see how things would go.  I knew that putting my important medical appointments off was a risk, but I also knew that attending them was a risk as well.  I don’t know that there was a right answer.  I was making decisions based on my instincts and logic.  But, as time went by I saw that cloth masks did make a difference in the spread of Covid 19.  I also learned that we can interact as long as we take precautions. 

I did start my current health activism in late February of 2021.  It is now mid April and I have yet to have my much needed appointments.  They will come in May.  It is because I needed the referrals to then see my much needed health specialists.  That is our American health care system.  But, I do have those appointments and I will show up to those appointments and then deal with whatever issues that I have to deal with.  But, for now I am fine.  As far as I know.  🙂

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Health Issues Verses Health Problems

To give you an example:

A health issue is something that you have to deal with to stave off a health problem.

A few years ago I injured my back.  It caused sciatic nerve pain from my right buttock down to my calf.  It was a shooting pain that I had never experienced before.  It was horrible!  It was painful!  I hated it!

I looked online to try and read up on it.  That is when I diagnosed myself but I was shocked by the treatment.  Opiods!  What?  I am not taking those brain altering drugs!  I will live with the pain before I ever become addicted to those things!  But, I did notice that there are exercises that I can do to help me stave off that pain.  So, every morning before I get out of bed I do those exercises and I haven’t had any pain now for almost a year.

That is a health issue.  I found a way to control it and it isn’t a health problem.  Understand?

If you have the same problem as me I would like to tell you how I deal with it.  When I wake up in the morning, before I get out of bed, I like to stretch out my back and legs.  How I do that is to bring my knees up to my chest until my knees are pressing against my boobs.  It sometimes takes a while before I can do that.  I am 60 and as we age out bodies become stiffer.  Not as flexible as they once were.  So, as I lay on my back I am bringing my knees closer, and closer to my chest, stretching my back as I go.  I hold it there for a minute or so, then I release it, then I bring it back.  Once I have done that I will then place my left leg straight, and take my left arm to grab my right leg and bring it around to my left side, stretching it.  I can feel the stretch all down my right leg.  The stretching.  Then I do the same thing to the other side.  Laying my right leg straight and stretching it out.  I like that I am doing this in my bed.  It is a more age friendly stretch than doing it on the hard floor.  For all I know I may injure myself and I won’t be able to get off the floor.  Did I mention that I am 60?

I may look fairly young but I do have a 60 year old body.  And I do respect it.  🙂

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I am also a borderline diabetic.  That means that I have a health issue.  The moment I am diagnosed as a diabetic, then I have a health problem.

So, right now I have health issues that I am dealing with.  I am hoping to stave off health problems by eating better, exercising, and stretching.  What I do at age 60 will determine whether I make it to age 70.  And I don’t just want to make it there, I want a nice quality of life when I get there. 

We will talk about that in another post.  But, we do need to take responsibility for our own health and not just rely on some outdated system to get us where we need to go.

Also, those people that have something to live for do tend to outlive those that don’t.

So, what is it that I live for?  I plan on outliving all the bullies.  I am determined to get to a point in my life where all the bullies are gone and I am left standing.  I am determined to know what peace is.  I can only know that when the bullies are gone.  I will outlive them.  I am determined.

Julie

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April 5, 2021

FINALLY!  Had My Doctor Appointment

Julie, Easter 2021

Me, Easter, and with our backyard construction site in the background.  Yuck!

I write below about how I have been desperate for a doctor appointment from since the pandemic first started, but because of staff shortages, doctor’s quitting my clinic, many doctor and nurse retirements….  I have not been able to get an appointment.  Well, last week I finally got my appointment.  It was supposed to be with the new female doctor who would be taking over our clinic, but, she is not confirmed yet and is still a “floater” so, I saw the new Nurse Practitioner. 

The way our insurance works is we go to see our family doctor/nurse practitioner who will then give us a referral to other doctor’s to address whatever medical needs that we may have.  They are pretty much a Middle Man.  I cannot just call up and get an appointment for a mammogram.  I have to see my family doctor or nurse first, and then they issue me a referral and only then can I get an appointment for a mammogram.  I can’t even call where I receive my mammogram to make and appointment before I get my referral and just bring it with me to my appointment.  Oh, NO!  So, just think about that.  If I need a mammogram I have to time it so that I can see my family doctor and get the referral weeks before my appointment in order for me to make the appointment about 3 weeks prior to my appointment, in order to receive my mammogram on time.  As in the same time every year. Understand?  I know.  It’s complicated.

Our American healthcare system is broken, and has been for a few decades, but I had figured out a way to maneuver a broken system so that I could receive quality care from all angles.  However, because of the pandemic, and so many medical retirements and departures, not to mention that my insurance has now decided to get all cheap on me, I am unfortunately back to square ONE in trying to work this broken system.

When I met my new nurse practitioner I liked her immediately.  She was nice, and funny, and very friendly, not that I particularly care about those things.  I just want someone competent and thorough.

I told her that both Gordon and I had received the first dose of the vaccine.  It was then that she ripped her mask off, and told me that she was vaccinated so she wasn’t worried about being around me now. 

O.K., alarming!  I just met her.  She doesn’t know me at all and yet she is just going to take my word for it?  And, if she is going to just take my word for it then how many other people’s word has she just taken at face value when she meets them?  My point is, how cavalier of her to not be more cautious!  That in itself is very alarming to me of her carelessness during a pandemic.

I didn’t say anything to her about how alarmed I was with her behavior, but I was glad I was double masked in the same room with her.

She then put in my referrals for the mammogram, a pap smear, and my heart doctor.  I am just awaiting them to arrive in the snail mail now so that I can then call for my appointments.

And Oddly enough I just got a call today from our pharmacy leaving a message to pick up my prescription.  What prescription?  News to me!  Guess I’ll call them tomorrow to find out what that is about?

But, in the meantime, I am awaiting my referrals in the snail mail so that I can then call for my appointments that will probably be given me 3-4 weeks from now. 

Right now I think I am just surviving.

Julie

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March 29, 2021

My Hair

(Tupperware for my Hair Color, Kitchen Baster to Color my Roots, and Hair Scissors.)

When my gray comes in I look very tired and old.  I see my mother’s tired eyes when I look at myself. 

Not something I like to see.

My Hair, Straight as a Board

(My hair holds water.  I can wash my hair at 8:00 a.m. and it is still damp at 3:00 p.m.)

When the Pandemic first hit in March of 2020 I was really surprised how helpless so many women were when it came to a lack of caring for their hair as we were all in lockdown.  All the whining and moaning because they couldn’t get to their hair stylist or beautician, or whatever they call the people that do their hair?  OMG!  My roots!  My brown hair is showing!  My gray is showing!  All I could think of is, my goodness, how helpless all these women are?

I am no hairstylist, but I have been tending to my hair now for several decades.  I can color my hair, I can cut and trim my hair, I can even add layers to my hair.  The only thing I cannot do is to PERM MY HAIR.

So, how do I know how to tend to my hair?  It’s because I have been watching everyone that has ever cut/trimmed/styled my hair for the past few decades.  Instead of reading a magazine I am paying attention.

To me the atmosphere of a beauty shop is hell!  The gossip, the insults…  I can’t tell you how many times I have sat in that chair when a client would leave a salon only to hear the insults hurled about her when she only has one foot out of the door.  I even spoke up to the ladies in the salon that I can only imagine what you say about me when I leave….

You should have seen the looks on their faces when I said that.  🙂

It’s as though their secrets have been exposed!

As an Empath a beauty shop environment is a toxic environment.  I only go when I have to.  Other than that, I don’t.

I have needed a perm since December 2019 but I no longer wanted to go to the person that I have been seeing since 2004 because I no longer trusted her.  I will not reveal her name or where she works but I have come to believe that she was putting something into my perm when she would give it to me in order to ‘fry my hair.’  I think she has been doing that for a few years now.  Whenever I would get an appointment it was always in the afternoon when it was just she and I in that beauty shop.  Also, she, as the office manager quit ordering my Paul Mitchell Awapuhi Mist, BUT, she said that she would pick it up for me at the Beauty Supply Store as a favor to me.  I paid her for the items and even a little extra for gas money for the items she purchased for me.  When I started using them my hair started coming out in clumps.  When I quit using the products and started ordering from the company itself I received quality products.  I believe that she was putting some sort of chemical in them to make my hair fall out.  I still have the bottles.  I always keep the evidence.

So, what motive does she have to ruin my hair?  Resentment. 

First of all, there is no motive for crazy.  People do what they do because it is in them to do it.  Secondly, from the time I first started seeing her as my hair stylist, her life has gotten steadily worse, while my life has gotten steadily better.  She is a devout Catholic and she knows that I am not a religious person.  And, from what I know about religious people is that when they deem someone a heathen or a pagan then they see it as their duty to destroy that person in their god’s name.

One day I witnessed a woman that pretty much saved Gerda’s (not her real name), skin when it came to her job.  She had gone out of her way to help her and fix a major computer problem that Gerda was having with her job.  After the woman left the shop Gerda was thanking god for helping her to fix the problem.  I then asked why she didn’t thank the woman that did all that work to help her?  Gerda then said that because she didn’t help her, god did.  Everything comes from god.  I then asked if all the large tips I give her come from god as well?  She said yes.  I then told her that I don’t think that god wants me to tip you so large anymore.  He just told me not to.  🙂

I was simply trying to prove a point.  Yet, is it possible to prove a point with a person like her?  I think not.  She has been indoctrinated since birth into believing what she does and there is no educating her.  All that I can do is to move on to someone else to do my hair once I feel safe as this Pandemic continues.  But, until then, I am not totally helpless with my hair.  There are zero curls left but I will just manage until the time comes when I can find someone new in my area of Florida.  Hopefully a sane person.

Not holding my breath on that one!

Julie

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March 28, 2021

THE SHOT

First dose down, one more to go!

When our Governor lowered the age from 65 to 60 on March 15th. to get the shot, that is when Gordon and I started looking around for places where I could get it.  Our medical clinic said they were trying to get it so that they can administer it to their patients.  The local grocery stores were expected to get the shots with an appointment only but the details were still being worked out.  That is when Gordon went online and we found a place at Raymond James Stadium.  You have to live in the same county, and have proof of residency so Gordon signed us both up.  They were also giving the shots to 50 and over.  Gordon is 4 years younger than me so we were thrilled that we could both get the shot together.

So, we made the appointment online and got a call the following day confirming our appointment and asking us some questions about our health.  We answered them.  We were also given instructions on what to do the day of the shot.  Just things like, ‘don’t show up any earlier than 15 minutes prior to your appointment,’ that kind of thing.

When our son Brodie’s girlfriend Mackenzie’s mother got her shot back in February, she had to wait in her car for 5 hours so we didn’t know how long we would have to wait.  Turns out we were there a total of 30 -35 minutes the entire time.  There were lots of workers and not that many cars in front of us.

I told Gordon to take a photo of me getting the shot.  Well, there is my arm getting the shot.  Which reminds me of the time back in 1986 when we were at Sea World and I got to pet a dolphin,  I was so thrilled!  He just swam up to me and had his head out of the water wanting me to touch him.  I motioned for Gordon to take a picture.  He did.  I couldn’t wait to get the film developed!  I was so excited when I got the pictures back…. and that is when I saw it.  He got my ARM petting the dolphin.  The point is, that could have been anyone’s arm.  I wanted ME and the dolphin.  Looks like things haven’t changed much.

Julie

P.S.  We both woke up with sore arms from that shot but nothing else, so far.  Finger’s crossed!  🙂

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March 29, 2021

I just wanted to let you know that our arms feel so much better the second day than they did the first.  Just letting you know that both Gordon and myself are fine with no side affects.  Looking forward to our second shot.  🙂

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Our Foods of Late

We are a big fan of Naan Pizza’s because they are a great way to use up a few things in your refrigerator.  The Naan is a nice base and then you just go from there with whatever toppings you may want.

For example, the pizza above is Gordon’s and he spread a Hummus down first, then added some of our Cheeses, Sun Dried Tomatoes, Marinated Artichoke Hearts, etc. and just cooked it in the oven to heat things up and melt the cheese and then he has a tasty dinner.

Before and After

These little Naan’s are mine.  Cheeses, Mushrooms, Sun Dried Tomatoes, Peso, and a few Spices.  I like these for lunches.  Quick and easy.  Ready made, just microwave for about 25 seconds.

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We’re Also Still Eating Our Chili

Cooked White Rice and Chili with Cheese and Crackers = Hawaiian Chili Cheese Rice

We love making a big pot of Chili because of the many ways we can eat it and have it taste differently each time.  For example.  Chili over Rice, Chili over Spaghetti, Chili over Corn Chips, Chili over French Fries, Chili over Slaw, oh and a Chili Dog.

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Grocery Store Bought Salad w/ Chicken and a Sprinkling of Bacon

w/ Parmesan Dressing

This salad can feed me a good 2 meals with lots of leftovers that I pass on to Gordon to finish.

We are currently trying to eat a bit better while also eating up the food that is already in our refrigerator.  For example, I did add a sprinkling of our leftover bacon on top of my “healthy” salad.

I am not about to go cold turkey from eating rich, to eating light overnight.  I am trying to incorporate the foods in the fridge with our healthier eating as well.  I don’t want food to go to waste.

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I LOVE GARLIC!!!!

Roasted Garlic

If you know me at all, then you know that I LOVE Roasted Garlic!

All that I do is to turn on the oven to 400F.  I then add as many garlic cloves as I like to a small baking dish.  I then add as many pats of butter to that dish, cover with foil, and then place into the oven for about 20 minutes.  I do cook this garlic for about an hour but removing from the oven every 20 minutes to stir together until nice and done.  I love it nice and tan/brown and caramelized.

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I can pretty much eat this about 3 meals a week.  However, I noticed in one of my cookbooks where they were frying garlic and I decided that I wanted to try that.

I pretty much told Gordon that this is what I want and he went to work creating it for me.  I knew that I wanted to try fried garlic, but I wanted it to have some spice and crispness to it.  Which was not mentioned in the cookbook I got the idea from.

Gordon sliced the garlic and then added some olive oil to a pan…..

He then added some Italian Pizza Spices to the oil….

Then, some dried oregano…..

Now add the chopped garlic to a medium-low heat in a saucepan to cook.

Cooking Away, You Want It To Cook, Not Burn

Simmer Away on the Stove for About 10 Minutes, While Stirring

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Our Italian Appetizers

This is also a favorite meal for me:

Sun Dried Tomatoes, Feta Cheese, Pesto, Marinated Artichoke Hearts, Cheese Stuffed Peppers, Bruschetta, Roasted Garlic, and now Fried Garlic, along with some Toasted sliced Sour Dough Bread with a drizzling of Olive Oil.

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Gordon’s Italian Appetizer Plate

We do so love all the little tasty apps.  🙂

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March 25, 2021

Socially Distance Shopping

Gordon With The Binoculars

I was shopping around for Mackenzie something special for her upcoming birthday and I wanted Gordon’s opinion.  We are socially distancing because he had surgery and you just never know…..

So, I wanted his opinion on which one to buy out of 3?

He helped me decide by using the binoculars to view each item on the computer.  🙂

Between the two of us, I think we nailed this one!  🙂

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The best Naan Pizza I’ve Ever Eaten

Julie’s Naan Hummus, Green Gouda Pesto Cheese, Mozzarella, Pesto, Mushrooms, Sundried Tomatoes with a drizzle of the Olive Oil, and a sprinkling of Garlic Salt, LEFT.

Right:  My cute little Mini Me Naan that I had for lunch today.

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This is Gordon’s Pizza, same as mine, except he added some Marinated Artichoke Hearts to top his.

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I’ll get to all this in a minute, but…..

Brodie and Mackenzie’s Mushroom Tartlet

(Mackenzie’s parents recipe.)

Last night Brodie sent us this photo of what he and Mackenzie were eating last night.  Apparently the recipe is from Mackenzie’s parents.  Looks delicious?  Doesn’t it?

Seeing as how great minds think alike I decided to post our pizza’s.  I’ll try and find out the recipe for the Mushroom Tartlet, but in the meantime I can give you the recipe for our Naan Pizza’s.

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As I have been writing about, my cholesterol is high and I need to lower it so I am becoming more aware of what I put in my mouth.  We all pretty much slacked off this past year due to the Coronavirus, and I need to return to my past behaviors that were far more healthy than I have been of late.  The Naan Pizza’s that we made above are a good example of being able to eat healthy and have that great taste to go along with it.

Our Socially Distanced Naan Pesto Pizza’s

I told Gordon that I wanted the larger Naan and the medium sized Naan so that we can make pizza’s with them.  The larger Naan is great for dinner, but the medium sized Naan is great for lunch.

I wanted to use up the cheeses that we already had, along with some pesto. 

The first thing that Gordon did was to turn the oven on 400F and place the Naan in the oven to cook for 5 minutes on the bottom side of the Naan. Now, it is ready for the toppings.

I told Gordon that I wanted a thin layer of my Red Pepper Hummus on the Naan.  I then wanted some mozzarella and some grated Pesto Gouda on top. 

Followed by a few blobs of Pesto.

Next, some sliced Mushrooms with a drizzle of the Olive Oil from the marinated Sundried Tomatoes.

As well as a few Sundried Tomatoes on my pizza.

Now, it’s time for a sprinkling of Garlic Salt and then placed into the oven for about 8 minutes until done.

Perfection at it’s best!

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March 24, 2021

My Fast Food Indulgence of Late

I just wanted to address the irony of my doing my best to stay away from Gordon since his surgery out of a precaution that he may have picked up Covid while he was there in order for me to be healthy, and my indulgence of Burger King and McDonald’s of late.  I know, I’m a hypocrite!  🙂  BUT, sometimes we need to feed those indulgences because although they may be harmful to my body, they do tend to soothe my soul. 

And, although this is no excuse for my indulgence, I hurt my big toe and ruined my pedicure, while we were visiting with Brodie and Mackenzie last Saturday.  I didn’t see the step up in their garage and I rammed my toe into it.  It sent me flying through the air while holding a pretty potted plant.  Luckily, me and the plant slammed into their washer and dryer that prevented my fall from being worse than it could have been.  I was wearing flip flops.  Had I been wearing shoes then I do recognize that I wouldn’t have hurt my toe.  Yet another irony for Julie Barefoot.

Julie’s Gnarly Toe

The good news is that because of this I cannot wear any tennis shoes in order to get on the treadmill.  So, why is that good news?  Because Gordon is isolating in the den where the treadmill is so instead of my resenting the fact that I can’t get in there to get on the treadmill, I can’t use it anyway because of my toe.

As far as my diet is concerned, I’ve gotten the fast food urges out of me and now it’s back to eating better food.  The pandemic has contributed to throwing me off my game and I need to return to my old ways in order to be a healthier person in my 60’s.  I promise I’ll do better.  🙂

Julie

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March 23, 2021

Isolating Gordon

I write below about how Gordon had surgery yesterday and because of that we are trying to Covid distance ourselves from each other as a precaution.

The fact that Gordon was unconscious during surgery is why we are isolating away from each other for a few weeks.  He was not in control while he was in surgery and recovery so therefore I am assuming that he is infected with Covid and I am treating him as such.  For MY health and safety.

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I speak below of how Gordon spends most of the day in our den working from home, watching T.V., reading books, and relaxing and recovering from his surgery.  But, when it comes to sleeping, he is sleeping on our new sofa bed in our living room.

Our New Sofa Bed

The door you see above the bed is our bedroom where I have it all to myself until after Gordon’s isolation period.  Gordon did say that our new sofa bed is very comfortable.  That’s good to know.

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We were both so disappointed in our McDonald’s lunch yesterday after Gordon’s surgery because they were sold out of breakfast sausage biscuits, so Gordon ran to the drive through of McDonald’s AND Burger King for their breakfast sausage biscuits this morning.  Seeing as how he won’t be cooking breakfast all week he bought us sausage biscuits to heat up for breakfast for a few days.  Just something quick, tasty and easy for the microwave.

Burger King and McDonald’s

Burger King And McDonald’s

Burger King And McDonald’s  🙂

Eating on my Lap at my Computer

Right now we are doing what we can to keep me virus free and healthy.  In this day and age that is the meaning of trying to stay healthy.  I just wanted to note that Gordon has not been diagnosed as having Covid 19.  We are just living as if he has it in order to keep me safe and healthy.  You never know.

These are precautions that we are taking.  Perhaps you should as well.  If you are in our similar circumstances.

Julie

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March 22, 2021

Gordon Had Surgery Today

(Barely)

It was on March 12th. exactly when I was writing the blog post below this one that the phone rang and Gordon answered it.  It was from our family practitioner’s office with news for Gordon of his labs that he had taken a few days ago.  They were calling to tell him how wonderful he is and how his cholesterol is perfect, his sugar is perfect, his triglicerides are perfect.  Blah, blah, blah…..yeah, yeah, yeah….

Funny how I always ask to have my labs sent to me in the mail and I never receive them but Gordon gets a phone call!  WooOOooo……..  He then asked them to mail him his labs to our home address.  I was also waving my arms in the air signaling to him to have them to send me mine as well.  And of course they did!  After all their boy Gordon requested it!  I can ask till the cows come home but NO, I don’t get my labs sent to me, much less a phone call telling me how wonderful that I am.

So, I got my labs in the mail about a week later.  I am only going to give you my sugar level results, 120.  But, I am going to withhold my cholesterol and triglicerides.  Hey, I have to have some secrets.  And besides, they are high!

About my sugar:  I am supposed to be under 100 in order to be “normal.”  However, there was a time when it used to be that you had to be under 150.  Then 130.  Now 100.  So, if you get an older doctor then he/she will not be as alarmed with a number of 120 like mine.  But, if you get a younger doctor then they are alarmed by it.

The only reason I am telling you what my sugar level is, is  because I have told you that I am a borderline diabetic.  My labs state that I am Pre-Diabetic.  Is there is difference?  To me, a borderline diabetic means that you can go either way, but to be determined to be Pre-Diabetic tells me that I am destined to be a diabetic.  This is why I need to speak to a doctor and not just diagnose myself through Google.

I am the kind of person that sees and fears the worst.  If I were to read the symptoms of Ebola then I’m pretty sure I could convince myself that I have it.  Which is why I need a professional to set me straight and address my fears.

I am still waiting for my family care physician appointment which comes at the end of the month.

Gordon however, was able to see a floating physician a few weeks ago at his appointment, that was able to diagnose his problem and refer him to a surgeon and schedule his surgery, which was today.  And although this blog is not supposed to be about him, I will bring him into this as this is also about my health as well.

It was about a month ago that Gordon had an ingrown hair to become festered and turned into a giant zit on his stomach.  It was huge!  He was able to get an appointment to see a doctor.  (Of course, he did.)  And the doctor recommended surgery to have it removed.  He was also told that it is probably the size of a tennis ball underneath his skin.  O.k., gross. 

So, today was the day!  Surgery Day!!!!

We both got up early.  Gordon had been fasting since last night so he was ready to get this surgery over with.  We had also made arrangements for Gordon to spend most of every day in the den after his surgery and just sleep on the pull out sofa bed at night in the living room once I go to bed so that he doesn’t infect me with whatever he may have picked up at that surgery center.  Which btw:  that surgery center is the largest in all of America.  I loved the place!  Parking was great!  Dropping off and picking up was easy.  Hey, I’m into all that.

What with Covid being still a threat and Gordon undergoing surgery where he would be rendered unconscious and not in control, I was worried that he may pick up something and then pass it on to me.  So, prior to his surgery we started making plans for Gordon to spend most of the day in the den where he can work from home, watch t.v., read, and relax on the Lazy Boy Chair.  But, when it came to sleeping, he would sleep on the pull out sofa bed in our living room.  I could then retreat to our bedroom when it came time to going to bed to watch T.V. and to just isolate myself at night away from him just out of a precaution.

We had our last meal, last night.  Blackened Grouper Cheeks Po’ Boys with our leftover Grilled Cabbage Slaw.  They were magnificent and Gordon said that they were one of the best foods he has ever eaten.  We always like to plan for a last meal, just in case. 

Our Blackened Grouper Cheeks Po’ Boys Sandwiches

They were Superb!

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When it comes to surgery, anytime that they put you under, you always stand the chance that you may never wake up.  So, we like to prepare something special to eat for dinner, and to visit with our kids just in case things don’t go the way they should.  I believe in saying goodbye.  🙂

It was as we were preparing to leave the house this morning for the surgery center that we get a call from someone at the surgeon’s office telling us that Gordon may not have his surgery today because although the surgery has been approved, our insurance company has not signed the paperwork for the surgery.  The woman that called Gordon also told him that she is having a hard time getting our insurance company on the phone to officially approve it!  That’s when Gordon started dialing our insurance company to see if he could get the ball rolling.  He did get through.  That is when he put his surgeon’s office personnel that he had on his cell phone, next to our insurance agent that he had on our home phone.  He pretty much put the two phones together so that they could talk and work it all out.  They did.  After 35 minutes of stupid conversation.  Turns out that all it took was to replace an L with an M in the code to approve the surgery.  Is this not ridiculous?  Or what?

So, after a hell of a lot of stress and worry, the surgery paperwork was signed and approved so off we go to the surgery center.  I dropped Gordon off and he went inside.  I drove home.  I was not about to stay.  He’s a big boy and he can get through this on his own.  I also don’t want to expose myself to any unnecessary atmosphere.  If you know what I mean?

I came home and I made my Chili!

I wanted to make a big pot of something comforting, mainly for me.  I knew that Gordon wouldn’t be cooking for a good week so I wanted to make something that I could very easily heat up and eat.  Something that I enjoyed.  Something comforting.  Hence, CHILI!

I also knew that Gordon would enjoy it as long as he could eat something as hearty as this.

I Topped our Grilled Cabbage Slaw with our Chili.

  Perfect!

Chili Cheese Slaw (Something New.)

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Gordon’s surgery was at noon.  I got a call around 12:35 that he was out of surgery and in recovery.  I was told to pick him up within about 45 minutes.  I did.  I left my chili to continue to cook on the stove top on a very low heat.  I was able to pick him up and everything went according to plan.  He was famished and we decided to run by our favorite McDonald’s for our usual breakfast sandwiches that they are supposed to have available all day long.  Only to be told that they don’t have any more Sausage Biscuits or Egg McMuffin’s available.  Yuck!  Therefore, we had to order from the regular menu, which we normally don’t care for.

I ordered a yucky Spicy Chicken Sandwich with Fries. Gordon ordered a few burritos and a spicy chicken sandwich.  This was nothing that we wanted.  But we were stressed and a bit famished so we dove right in, and dove right in!

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Gordon is home and is safe.  He is well.  But, we just need to make sure that we both are well by staying away from each other for awhile.  Just in case.  So happy his surgery went well.  So happy that he is doing good.

Julie

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March 12, 2021

Surviving and Fearful of Falling Between the Cracks

It was on March 9, 2020 (last year) that I hesitantly left the house for my family practitioner’s office to get my labs done.  I, as everyone else in America and around the world, was keeping close tabs on the Corona Virus that was sweeping the world and had started to invade my own country. 

I of course, had fasted the night before and that morning so that nothing I ate or drank would taint the results of my tests.  I showed up for my appointment and purposely sat as far away from people as I could.  When my name was called I went into the room where a woman took 3 vials of blood from me and then asked me to give a urine sample.  I did.  (I don’t mean to brag but I have never had a problem giving a urine sample.  I can empty my bladder and then one minute later give you all the sample you need.)  🙂  Oversharing, as usual.

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Oh, and I would like to mention how shocked that I was to see these magazines in the waiting room.

I did file a complaint at how disgusted that I was to see these magazines in our waiting room.  Am I the only one that understands the purpose of a gun is to kill someone or something?  And how they do not belong in any medical office where the purpose of my even being there is to be healthy?  Hey, why not just have pamphlet’s laying around about how to commit suicide at a suicide prevention office?  Or better yet, why not have child porn information laying around in the office of pediatrician’s? 

Moving on….

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The following week was my doctor appointment with Lisa, my nurse practitioner.  I preferred meeting with her as she was very familiar with my health history and I liked and trusted her.  And besides, Dr. Patel had left and that put Dr. Horcrux (not his real name) in charge at the clinic and I despised him.  That explained all the gun magazines in the office when they put him in charge. 

I preferred to see Lisa because In my experience it’s the women that seem to care more about your health than the men.  I also believe them to be more thorough.  I also liked that it’s the women that would give me the bad news on my cholesterol but they would also give me the good news in other areas where I had improved, such as my sugar level.  But, the male’s that I would see in the past never told me what I was doing right, only what I was doing wrong.  I always felt like such a failure when I would leave their offices.  The women gave me the truth, good and bad, but they also gave me the encouragement to continue doing well in areas where I was.  They also might have given me bad news about my cholesterol but they also pointed out to me that even though it is still high it is down 30 points from last time.  This is news that I need to hear which is why I preferred seeing Lisa instead of the male doctors.  But, instead of making that appointment I ended up cancelling it because I was very afraid of the Corona Virus and it was on March 9, 2020 that I went into a self imposed lockdown.  Every appointment that I had came due in March and April of last year.  I ended up cancelling every single one of them.  My dentist, my dermatologist, my mammogram, my heart doctor, and my pap smear appointment.  All of my 6 month and 1 year appointments were due at that time and I was cancelling all of them and not knowing when I would be making them again.

That was a year ago.  And now here I am trying to get back into the swing of things only to feel as if I am falling between the cracks of a society that has changed so much since I left it.  Almost a month ago I went into my clinic to have my labs done.  I was surprised to find out that both Lisa and Dr. Horcrux had retired and a new doctor had taken over the clinic.  I didn’t care about Dr. Horcrux but I was sad to hear that Lisa was gone.  The thing is they were both young so I was surprised to hear about their retirements.  The good news is that there were no gun magazines sitting in that office.  There weren’t any magazines at all, just pamphlets on health.  I suppose magazines were removed because they just pass germs back and forth.

Everything went well with my labs (although I haven’t gotten any results back), and I had my appointment to see my new doctor a few weeks later.  I was able to get a referral to see my dermatologist earlier this week, but they weren’t going to issue me any more referrals until I saw my new doctor.  So, on Tuesday I get a phone call from my clinic telling me that they have to cancel my appointment the following day because my new doctor suddenly resigned and they needed to find a new one.  Wow.  Just wow.  They did give me an appointment for later on in the month with some kind of doctor, probably a floater, but I’ll take it!  So, my healthcare has been put on hold until I see this new doctor later on in the month and there is nothing that I can do but wait.

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I did get to see my favorite dermatologist this week.  I hadn’t been in a year and a half.  That is pretty bad for me because I usually see her every 6 months.  However, I had a good check up.  She did freeze about 12 – 15 tiny spots on my body to remove them.  It was like being stung by 12 – 15 bees one after the other.  It was quite painful.  And the pain didn’t just go away immediately.  It took quite a while for it to.

Even though I had to go through all that it was a good check up.  That’s good!  Seeing as how I have lived a life in the sun.  I did tell her about how I’m a bit worried about what kind of doctor I may get because everyone seems to either quitting or retiring.  That is when she started telling me that is happening quite a bit around here in our area.  Wonder why?  Doesn’t exactly give me much faith right now.  I will wait for my new appointment with some doctor later on in the month and then I will decide then if I need to go elsewhere for my healthcare.  I just feel so helpless right now that everything is being put on hold until I find someone to provide me with care.  First we are all helpless where the Covid 19 virus is concerned and now this.

I just don’t want to fall between the cracks.  So, right now I think I am just surviving.

Julie

 

 

 

Barefoot Beach Teas

Barefoot Beach Teas

        Welcome to Barefoot Beach Teas I got the idea about 3 years ago to create a nice tea and have it look like the beach.  I even thought of putting some sort of seashell candy inside of the tea so that 

Captain’s Galley

Captain’s Galley

        Clam Clams (As I like to call them.) (Ensure all your clams are still alive.  If a clam’s shell isn’t closed, tap the shell to see if it closes. If the shells don’t close, the clam is likely dead and not 

Summer Seafood, Sides, and Salads

Summer Seafood, Sides, and Salads

 

 

 

 

I SEA You’ve Caught Us!

Enjoying a Summer of Seafood, Sides, and Salads

We decided to start another seafood webpage. 

If you would like to check out our other one, then click here:

Gordon and Julie Seafood

We plan on bringing you many more recipes to this post. 

And hope you will check back occasionally with us to see what we’ve caught.

Hook (Catch) You Later,

Gordon and Julie

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Appetizers of Blue Crab Salsa and Blue Corn Chips

Fried Clam Strips with Key Lime Tarter Sauce and Cocktail Sauce

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First Up:

Herbed Hasselback Potatoes (Our Way)

Buttered, Herbed, Grilled Mini Lobsters w/ Grilled Lemons

And Fried Scallops

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Making our Hasselback Potatoes

I used Russet potatoes, Blue Potatoes, and Yams to make this recipe.  Here you can see I used chopsticks on the side of a yam to ensure I didn’t cut all the way through.

First, find the flat side of the potato and place that side down on your cutting board.  Place your chopsticks snugly against your potato as shown above.  Using a sharp knife, make cuts about 1/4 to 1/8 inch apart.

Here you can see how the multiple cuts begins to separate each individual section producing a cavity to where you can insert butter and various seasonings.

Here you can see all the potatoes cut.  The yams were very firm and took more force to slice.

Beautiful Colorful Potatoes

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I went out to our herb garden and picked some fresh herbs to season the potatoes.

For the yams, I used Jalapeno, Cinnamon, and Ginger spices.  I liked the contrast in heat the Jalapeno would provide and the Cinnamon and Ginger are common flavor pairings with Yams.

Recipe:

3 Yams

2 Blue Potatoes

4 Tbsp. Butter

4 Pineapple Sage Leaves – sliced Chiffonade

1/2 tsp. Cinnamon

1/2 tsp. Ground Jalapeno Powder

1/2 tsp. Ground Ginger

1/4 tsp. Salt and Ground Pepper

I then used pineapple sage to also provide another added flavor.  Simply place the leaves on top of each other and roll them up tightly as shown.  Now, slice the leaves perpendicular to the roll.  This slicing technique is called Chiffonade.

I placed 1/2 a stick of butter into a microwave safe dish.

I then added the sage chiffonade, Ground Cinnamon, Ground Jalapeno, and the Ginger.

Lastly, add your Ground Pepper and Salt.

Place the ingredients into your microwave and cook the mixture for about 25 seconds on High or until the butter is mostly melted.

Stir the ingredients together.

Use your basting brush to coat the Yams and Blue Potatoes with your butter mixture between all their slices.  Roast the potatoes at 400’F for about 45 minutes or until tender.  The outside slices will be slightly crispy.

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Russet Hasselback Potatoes

The Herbs

Making the Hasselback Russet Potatoes

Ingredients:

8 Russet Potatoes

1 Stick of butter (8 Tbsp.)

Ground Roasted Garlic

1/2 Tbsp. Fresh Oregano Leaves

6 Sage Leaves – sliced Chiffonade

1 Tbsp. Fresh Chives – sliced thinly

1/4 tsp. Salt and Pepper

Slice your Russet potatoes as shown previously using the Hasselback method.  Place your Butter and Roasted Garlic Powder in a microwave safe bowl.

Chiffonade your Sage leaves and add them to the butter.

Now, slice your chives as shown and place them into the bowl.

Then, slice your Oregano leaves thinly and place them into the bowl.

Now, add your ground Pepper and Salt to the bowl.

Microwave all the ingredients until the butter is mostly melted and then stir the ingredients together.

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Using your basting brush, coat the russet potatoes with your butter mixture being sure to get the seasoning between all the slices.

Roast the potatoes in a 400’F over for about 45 minutes or until they are tender.

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Perfect, and out of the Oven

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While our Hasselback Potatoes are cooking in the oven, it’s a good time for us to work on our appetizer.

Fried Clams in the Oven

Just following the package instructions…..

When done, allow to cool.

2 of our favorite dipping sauces/salsa’s.

Nice Appetizer While we Wait for Dinner

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Buttered, Herbed, Grilled Mini Lobster Tails w/ Grilled Lemons

Beautiful Lobster Tails

Preparing the lobster tails is easy and can provide a beautiful presentation.  Using some kitchen sheers, cut down the top center of the shell all the way down to the end of the tail meat.  Try not to cut the tail meat in the process.

This is the underside of the lobster tail.

Slightly spread open the top of the shell as you should hear some cracking.  Now, use your thumb under the tail meat to push and separate the meat away from the shell.  Pull the tail meat out of the shell so it rests between the shell halves as shown.

Clean off any shell fragments and adjust the meat for a nice appearance.

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Here the lobster tails are all ready for the grill.

You can also see the beautiful scallops in the background.

Ingredients:

6 Tbsp. Butter

6 Garlic Cloves – sliced and chopped

3 Tbsp. Chives – chopped

2 Tbsp. Dill – chopped

1 1/2 Tbsp. Oregano – chopped

1 tsp. Sweet Paprika

1 tsp. Celery Salt

1 tsp. Roasted Garlic Powder

1 tsp. Onion Powder

Slice and chop the garlic cloves.

In a microwave safe bowl, add your butter, then the chopped garlic.

Julie being creative… nice!

Slice your chives as shown and add them to the bowl. 

We are lucky enough to grown them in our herb garden.

Then slice your fresh dill… and yes, we grow this also.

Add your dill to the butter and other herbs.

Remove the oregano leaves from the stem and roughly chop them… and add them to the butter mixture.  We grow oregano as well.

Now add your Sweet Paprika and Celery Salt to the butter and herb mixture.

Then add your Roasted Garlic and Onion Powder to the mixture.

Place the butter mixture in the microwave and heat for ~45 seconds or until the butter is mostly melted.  Mix all the ingredients together.

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Turn on your grill to a medium high heat.  I placed the lobster tails on a plate in order to catch all the drippings.  Using a basting brush, cover the lobster tails with the butter and herb mixture.

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Place the lobster tails on the upper rack section of your grill to avoid flare ups from direct flames.  The butter will produce high scorching flames which will tend to burn the tails.  With your lobster tails well above the direct flame they will basically bake.

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If your grill doesn’t have this upper section, you could place your lobster tails above a section of your grill that isn’t turned on.  This is indirect cooking.  Pending on the heat of your grill, it will take about 15 min. for the lobster tails to cook on the upper rack.  If you cook them directly on the flames of your grill, it will take considerably less time.  When they are done, the shells will be bright red and the meat will be bright white and be around 135’F.

Here, I am grilling the sliced lemons on the hot spots of my grill.  The grill had been on for about 10 min. now which made the grates very hot, producing great grill marks on the lemons.

Here is a great meal, Hasselback potatoes and yams, grilled lobster tails and lemons.  🙂

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Seared Scallops

Sea Scallops Pan Seared in Butter and Oil

~25 Sea Scallops – rinsed and dried

3 Tbsp. Butter

3 Tbsp. Peanut Oil

We bought just over 2 pounds of Sea Scallops for over $20.00, just to give you an idea of the average cost.

These are some really beautiful Sea Scallops.  You can tell they are Sea Scallops and not Bay Scallops as they are very large.  Unwrap your scallops and rinse them off using a colander.

Lay the scallops out on a few sheets of paper towels to dry them.  The scallops need to be perfectly dry on the outside to sear properly.  If they are wet, the scallops will only steam in the pan.

I am using a large cast iron skillet to sear the scallops, because the cast iron heats evenly and retains its heat longer when loaded with food items.  Add your butter to your cast iron skillet that is heated to medium high heat.

Now, add your peanut oil to the butter as the oil will inhibit the butter from burning.

Place your dry to the touch scallops into the pan on its natural top or bottom.  They should look like biscuits.  I placed 12 scallops in to cook without the skillet loosing much heat.  If you don’t have a cast iron skillet, you would probably only place 6 into the pan.

Here you can see all the scallops searing in the skillet.  As they cook, you can see the scallops start to change color up the sides going from a dull white opaque to a more solid white color.  Look at some of the first scallops you placed in the skillet to check the sear.  If your skillet is too hot, you will sear the scallop too quickly and not cook it properly.

Using tongs, turn the scallops over when they are seared and cooked about half way up the scallop.  As you can see, I didn’t turn some of the larger ones as they aren’t ready.

When they are fully cooked, place them on a paper towel to absorb the excess oil and sprinkle with a touch of finely grated sea salt.  Here you can see that nice restaurant quality sear.  This was a favorite seafood of mine to cook in culinary school.  Great picture Julie!

When ready, plate the sea scallops and dig in.  These were especially tender and sweet!

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Also Check Out Our Other Seafood Related Posts:

Our July 4th. Tribute to the Movie JAWS

And,

Check Out Our:  Summer Seafood, Sides, and Salads

And,

Stay Out Of The Water!  JAWS Week

How to Make a Beachy Cheese Cake

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You can also view our Sh..sh..sh..sh..SHARK!!!  Week here……..

Click Here for Shark Week:

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AND,

Click Here For:  Our Southern Shark Week Table

Just a few great recipes that you can make for Shark Week as well.

Also Check Out:

Shark Week Feeding Frenzy

AND,

Captain’s Galley

AND,

Shark Week Fun

 

STAY OUT OF THE WATER!!!!

Gordon and Julie

 

 

 

 

 

Our July 4th. Tribute to the Movie JAWS (1975)

Our July 4th. Tribute to the Movie JAWS (1975)

        Amity Island Welcomes You We are Gordon and Julie 1975 ———————————————————- Enjoying my Shark Tea and a good book. —————————————————— Salt Water Taffy I have had a love affair with Salt Water Taffy at the shore my entire life.  It’s tradition.  

Current Website Updates

Current Website Updates

    The Bulletin Board pictured above is hanging in our Hallway.  I put it there when we bought our house, and moved in.  Nothing ever seems to get taken off of it although for some reason we keep cramming things into it through these 

Julie’s Backyard Wildlife and Gardening Blogging

Julie’s Backyard Wildlife and Gardening Blogging

 

 

 

 

 

Welcome to our Home

Isn’t that what Door Wreaths are for?

Well, tell that to the mother bird that built her nest into it.

Look at Her Beautiful Eggs

And, There is the Sweet Little Mother Bird, Isn’t she Pretty?

So, Come On In!

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Oh, look!  Another Bird’s Nest in the Wall Planter!

Directly above the Pitcher Plant

Right Next to the Front Door

The Walkway to our Front Door

White Rocks and Topiaries

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Welcome to our Home

We are more than happy to share it with our animal neighbor’s that either crawl, slither, fly, or just wander in.  It always makes for excitement to see our animal’s each and every day drop by for a visit.

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This is my second garden blogging website post.  If you would like to take a look at my first one…….

Click Here For:  Julie Garden Blogging

My Glorioso Vine

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The vegetables that we grow in our garden is only to supplement our diet.  There is no way that we can grow as many tomatoes, bell peppers, etc. that we eat on a regular basis.  But, it does help.  It is also very rewarding spiritually to us to be outside in nature, planting, growing….  There is nothing like it.  We highly recommend it.  🙂

My yucky potting place does have it’s charm, doesn’t it?

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I used to paint terra-cotta pots and sell them in craft fairs when we lived in Hawaii.

  Here are some of my old one’s I found in the garage.  🙂

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New Blog Entries Start Here

A Picnic in the Herb Garden

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May 21, 2022

We have had this Pineapple Plant, left, for years now.  We always get a pineapple every year but it somehow disappears and we never know what happens?  In the past we figured that it was animals.  But, we moved the plant into our screened in lanai in the hopes that it will mature into a nice pineapple, only to have it disappear?  Perhaps this year we will have one to harvest.  We’ll see.  🙂

The photo above right, is that of the flowering orchid like blossom that our Ginger Plants produce. 

Isn’t it lovey?

These Bromeliad’s are to replenish a past project. 

Will bring it to you once we have finished it.

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Rocks From Home, Rome, Georgia

Georgia has some of the most beautiful rocks in America. 

I think so anyway.

I grew up spelunking with my family.  Usually in caves, but we found the most beautiful rocks.  One of my earliest gifts from my parents was a rock tumbler.  I would even wear some of my rocks around my neck that I made into jewelry.

Here is a photo of Gordon and I dating back in 1983. 

I am even wearing one of my rocks that I made into jewelry, around my neck.

Here we are being forced to make Cranberry Breads for Gordon’s parents so that they can gift their friends with them.  Notice my facial expression?  I was never very happy about this.  🙂

But, getting back to my Georgia rocks.  I also grew up wading around in the most beautiful creeks and rivers in the south.  The water brought out the beauty in the colors of the rocks.  I would wade around and find the most beautiful rocks there were.  But, these particular rocks are from my parent’s land in Rome, Georgia.  I brought a few home with me from the last time I was there.  They are beautiful!  They are Home!

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May 17, 2022

Our Yearly Fountain Tadpoles

I have written about our fountain tadpoles many times before.

The frogs will lay their eggs in our fountain and they will hatch into little tadpoles. 

They are sooooo cute!

To prevent them from cannibalizing each other, we will feed them our old lettuce and other green leafy veggies that we have rotting in our refrigerator bins.  It’s interesting that we originally fed these tadpoles some red Kale.  They seemed to take off after that!  They literally grew so big in just a few weeks!  Normally, it would have taken them longer.  Regardless, they are doing quite well and we are quite proud of them!

They seem to love the most rotten of our greens. 

Probably because it is already broken down for them to then consume.

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An Archaic Mating Ritual

I noticed these two lizards flopping around in our backyard.  That is when I wanted to take a closer look.  It was then that I noticed that one lizard had the head of another lizard in it’s mouth.  It was a mating ritual.  It is spring after all and they are in full mating mode!

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May 15, 2022

This is a corner that we are currently working on for another garden blogging post.  🙂

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May 8, 2022

This is the finished Herb Garden Redo:  🙂

This was so much fun to do. 

I have the write-up here:

An Herb Garden Redo

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The Lovely Windy Spinny Thing was a Mother’s Day gift from Brodie

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May 4, 2022

Herb Garden Redo Plants and Flowers

This is Such an Inspiring Project

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May 1, 2022

Spooky and Sparky

Our New Pineapple Plant

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April 26, 2022

This is the official redo of the Herb Garden:

So very excited for this!

Bringing this finished results to:

An Herb Garden Redo

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April 24, 2022

I Love The Sticky Frogs

These frogs are usually born into our backyard fountain as tadpoles.  Their mother’s laying their eggs and then leaving their birth and upbringing to us.  I feed them our ageing lettuce.  They tend to gobble it up!

It’s always happy to see them as frogs.  🙂

Our Georgia Peach Tree has 3 Peaches!

Our Backyard Deer

Actually, this is a “reindeer” that I inherited from my Grandmother. 

She used to place him outside her home in Rome, Georgia.

I decided that I wanted him to be in our backyard and to just be a deer, and not a reindeer.

I usually stick flowers in the holes that are for antlers.

Our Backyard Elkhorn with Air Plants

(This was a redo.  The ferns had overtaken it so we removed them and placed some lovely bromeliads and air plants throughout and even up the chain.)

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April 23, 2022

Baby Birds Can’t Fly

Their mother has pushed them out of their nest.  They cannot fly but they can glide a bit.  They keep hopping around our front doorway.  Their mother is watching them from the tree.  We just hope that they don’t encounter any predators until they learn how to fly and get away.  They are so very cute!

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April 8, 2022

Our Backyard Woodpecker

Every creature is welcome in our backyard.  Even the loud ones.  🙂

This is our backyard neighbor, the woodpecker.  He pecks, and pecks, and pecks ALL DAY LONG!

ALL. DAY. LONG!

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December 39, 2021

Getting Dark and the Leaves are Starting to Fall

(We lose the leaves off of our trees in the late winter and early spring when the new growth pushes them off.  The rest of the country seems to lose theirs in the autumn.)

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October 3, 2021

A casual stroll into the backyard yielded all of this!

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September 13, 2021

The Backyard Squirrels Playing

They may be pests, but they are the CUTEST pests ever!

They had so much fun this day!  So did I in watching them!

  I loved every minute of their enjoyment.  🙂

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August 8, 2021

Gift of Herbs in Vintage Vases

Gifts to my son’s Girlfriend Mackenzie

It is actually quite typical of me to give a gift of an herb plant.  I usually place them into jars/vases/bowls that I want to get rid of.  Not because they are old and ugly, but because they are so cute and nice.  If I didn’t think the vases were nice then I would just place them in the recycling bin.  To me this is recycling at it’s best!  I am passing something nice onto someone else with a nice gift inside.  Try it for yourself!

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July 31, 2021

Caterpillar’s Adore Parsley

We love these beautiful critter’s so much that we always sacrifice our Parsley supply to them. 

Well, we can always buy more at the grocery stores.  So, why not?  🙂

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September 2, 2021

I Love It When The Frogs Sing

Yesterday morning I woke up early and as I was lying in bed I could hear the frogs outside my window singing away.  I love the frogs.  We have many in our yard.  We don’t use those pesticides to kill bugs and weeds like so many of our neighbors do because it will also kill all the lizards, skinks, and frogs.

Because of all the frogs we have in our backyard we don’t have a lot of bugs.  The frogs, Dragon Flies, Bats, and Lizards eat them.  Oh, there will always be that annoying mosquito but there really aren’t that many of them to worry about.  But as I lay there listening to them sing I could hear some low rumbling from a distance.  Thunder.  I knew a storm was coming.  As the minutes went by the thunder came nearer and became louder.  Flashes of lightening started illuminating the bedroom.  Then all of a sudden here comes the rain.  It was as if the bottom fell out of the sky.  It was so loud it was almost deafening.  The rain, the cracks of thunder, and all that forked lightening.  It was wonderful!

I was happy it was raining because I had planned to get outside and do some extra watering because we hadn’t had a lot of rain and I didn’t want some of my outside plants and flowers to die.  Thankfully with this wonderful drenching that we were having everything is getting a good soak.

Gordon was in the shower oblivious, and missing all of this weather orchestra that was performing all for me.  I say ‘all for me’ because it was extremely early in the morning and most people are still asleep, except for Gordon because he goes into work early.  My first instinct was to go back to sleep because nothing can soothe you more than a sleepy storm.  But yet I didn’t want to miss any of it.  So, I lay there in bed hearing it all, seeing it all, and loving it all.

When Gordon came out of the shower and was dressing he noticed that I was awake.  Usually, I’m trying to get back to sleep because Gordon’s early schedule does interfere with my sleeping sometimes.  It was while there was a lull in the storm that the frogs started singing again.  I do have to admit that they are very loud.  Some people even complain about it, but not me.  I love it.  I know that as long as they are singing that I am safe.  It’s when they stop singing that you need to worry.  That usually means that someone or something is around that shouldn’t be there.  Just think of all the money that is spent on home alarms when we’ve got the frogs working round the clock outside for free.  🙂

Instead of going back to sleep I decided to get up and enjoy the storm, have some coffee, get online, and start my day.  It was the best day ever although I’m sure you won’t agree with me.  You see, the rain and storm lasted all day long.  When I got out of the shower instead of getting dressed I grabbed some comfy cozy pajamas.  I let my wet hair dry naturally and just let it hang loose all day.  There was an Indiana Jones marathon on one of the channels and I happily played it.  When they were all over I wanted to watch them all again.  I didn’t want my great day to end.  Gordon brought Chinese home for dinner from one of the take out restaurants that we hadn’t been to since before the pandemic started.  I had forgotten how perfect their egg rolls were.  Dipped in some Chinese mustard and it is just heaven.  And that is what my day was yesterday, pure heaven.

You know, it’s the little things in life that make me the happiest.  I can take pleasure in the things that most people take for granted.  Snuggling with the dogs on the couch watching a favorite movie marathon.  Enjoying take out with Gordon on the living room coffee table.  Laying in bed enjoying a thunderstorm and hearing the frogs outside the bedroom serenading me every night with their beautiful voices and keeping us safe.

Julie

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July 16, 2021

Beautiful Red Bells

Along With My Rainbow Bells

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June 17, 2021

Mandevilla Vine

Sometimes it is so humid outside that it fogs up the camera lens.

Looking So Beautiful!

Along With Our Lemon Balm

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June 13, 2021

Magnolia Tree Has a Bloom

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June 7, 2021

This Mandevilla Plant Does Love the Sun

Growing some HOT PEPPERS!

( I swear I almost DIED!)  🙁  HOT!  HOT!  HOT!

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June 4, 2021

Rainy Season is HERE!

I have a love/hate relationship with Rainy Season.

First of all, Florida never used to even have a rainy season. 

That has just occurred over the past decade or so.

To those of you that believe that all this rain will then cool down the temps, NO!! 

It only makes it more humid/miserable!

Regardless, at least I don’t have to get outside and water everything every other day.

Oh, we do have sprinklers, but they just don’t reach every single plant in our yard, front or back.

Just Cutting Some Herbs For Dinner

Rainy Season Does Make Everything So Green!!!

My Favorite Fern Shot

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May 20, 2021

We Are Finished!  What Do You Think?

I do love the stones, I just wish that we had more of them.

The stones were a definite upgrade.  🙂

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The Finished Results

A Picnic in the Herb Garden

Click on the link above for my lovely picnic in my Herb Garden.

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May 19, 2021

Our Blonde Bells

Gordon is starting at project here on this side of our backyard.  I order to prepare for it, he is removing all those stones that you see in the photos above, and he is placing them all around my Herb Garden and that side of our yard.

They are kind of like puzzle pieces.

The BEFORE and DURING

This side of our yard tends to flood during rainy season. 

It will be nice to step on to some stones and not the muddy yard.

Planting Peppers and Flowers

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May 18, 2021

I finally finished my round retaining wall project of cleaning it out and doing a few more plantings.

Photo left:  Working on the last reaming empty pot.

Photo right:  I fell backwards and scraped my arm on the cement and it’s bleeding.  I am becoming more clumsy in my old age.  🙂

With the Dogs, Spooky and Sparky

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May 17, 2021

New Plantings

(Not just for the Herb Garden)

The Herb Garden is Coming Along

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May 15, 2021

Some Adornments To The Round Retaining Wall

An Old Broken Down Bird House

Broken Pottery Pieces That Look Like Ruins

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May 6, 2021

Lizard Love  🙂

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May 5, 2021

My Desert Roses

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May 1, 2021

Find The Lizard

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April 27, 2021

Mint to the Left, Mint to the Right

Some people don’t realize that you can plant herbs in hanging baskets. 

It is a great way to shore up some space as well.

Cleaning Out The Retaining Wall

Some times it’s just a matter of pulling up a few weeds, removing some twigs and sticks, and some times even putting in a few new plantings.  This retaining wall was my weekly project.

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April 25, 2021

An Osprey, Sea Hawk

I love all the wildlife that visits our backyard.  Actually, this tree is in our neighbor’s backyard.  I was outside when he/she flew in.  Isn’t it gorgeous?  So regal.  I do so love these birds.

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April 22, 2021

My Beautiful Cactus

Sparky With the Purple and Green Basil

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April 19, 2021

Thai Basil, Obviously!  🙂

Just doing a yearly replenishing of my herb garden.

Every other year it requires more of a revamp.

The between years, I just need to replenish a bit.

We do eat a hell of a lot of parsley.

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It usually just requires a bit of cleaning up.

Dill, and what’s left of my String of Pearls

Our Best Friends!  🙂

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April 18, 2021

Beautiful Herb Shopping

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Garlic Flowers

Rescuing Some Thai Cilantro

Herb Garden Containers are Ready for Plantings

The Mess of Putting it all Together

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April 16, 2021

Front Yard

This front yard jungle is about to be transformed.  (Stay Tuned)

Is This Rocky?

While I was taking photos I noticed this squirrel very comfortable with me.  It allowed me to get very close to take photos.  In the past, I rescued a baby squirrel whose nest fell out of the tree in our front yard.  I brought the baby squirrel into our home and fed him pedialyte.  And, I even massaged his penis just like the instructions said to do so that he could urinate.  I let him sleep in a bowl on my lap overnight while I held him with my warm hand so that he could be comforted.  I named him Rocky and he was my baby for about 24 hours.  The following day I replaced him in the original nest that fell out of the tree.  I put the nest into a crook in the tree.  Pretty much where you see the squirrel above.  I left him there for a few hours and his mother did find him and take him back with her to their home.  I know this because he was gone from the nest but the nest wasn’t disturbed.  This squirrel just reminded me of my little boy Rocky.  🙂

I Adore My Herb Garden

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April 4, 2021

Garlic Chives

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March 26, 2021

See my backyard buddy?

Isn’t it cute?

I love the sticky frogs!

Key Limes From Our Tree

These are Ferns.  People do eat them in a salad. 

They are toxic however. 

So, unless you know what you are doing then I wouldn’t venture into this at all.

Working on the Herb Garden Clean-up!

Hey Spooky!  What are you doing?  🙂

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March 16, 2021

Bananas Are Ready!

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March 2, 2021

What’s Blooming in the Backyard?

Azaleas!

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Citrus Blossoms

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Some Orange and Yellow Thing

Bananas

Peach Blossoms

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February 5, 2021

Yellow Looks Really Pretty Today

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January 8, 2021

It escapes me right now, the name of this plant in our backyard, but what I see is a soup.  A soup of orange peppers, black rice, chives, and bay leaves.  That’s what I see anyway.  🙂

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November 19, 2020

Our Little Spooky  🙂

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November 7, 2020

Red OKRA Flower

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October 13, 2020

Trying to Grow Red Okra

This was such a disappointment as we were very successful growing Okra when we lived in Maryland.  We had quite the haul.  However, we were not so successful here.

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October 9, 2020

A Lizard Shedding His Skin and my Tabasco Peppers Coming In

All of this, in our backyard.

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September 29, 2020

New Bananas and Spooky

You can see the new growth of bananas on our tree.

Also, check out that beautiful Spooky sunning herself.  🙂

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September 18, 2020

He Has a Sweet Heart

If you look closely, you can see his/her sweet little heart.  🙂

This adorable frog was on our sliding doors right beside my computer as I look out into the backyard. 

How sweet is that?

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September 17, 2020

In Our Backyard

FINALLY, a Key Lime!

A few years ago we had to move our tree because we were having our lanai extended.  We placed the tree in a large pot and there it sat for a few months until the work was done.  We then replanted what we thought was a dead tree.  We nursed it back to health and finally, it has produced it’s first lime in years.  You cannot imagine the thrill that we feel right now.  It’s kind of like being a nurse and helping a patient heal again.  Can’t wait for the tree to come to full fruition again.

Our Banana Tree Has Bananas

I bought this tree about a year and a half ago.  It was only 2 feet tall.  But, I planted it, and nurtured it, it ended up growing a few more feet tall, and now we have bananas sprouting from it!  This is so very exciting!  We are already thinking of recipe ideas for the bananas and the flower.

An old forgotten plant that flowers beautifully without any help at all from us. 

Those are the best kind!

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September 8, 2020

New Plants, and our Backyard Snake

We are always on the look out for something new and pretty to plant in our backyard.  We have sunny areas and shady areas so a lot of thought has to go into whatever we decide to purchase, grow, and even plant.  This Ginger Plant variety is so pretty and fits in well with a partly sunny/mostly shady area.  All this tropical reminds us of Hawaii.

The leaves are even beautiful and lush.

Rat Snake in our Pink Lemon Tree

Growing up throughout the south we did a lot of camping, hiking, and gardening.  I can remember being in my 30’s and being out in my parents large garden.  I then saw a 5 foot snake just a few feet away from my step-father.  My step-father informed me not to be afraid because it is a rat snake and rat snakes are harmless.  They protect the garden from rodents.  He was a very intelligent man and I found it interesting that a large snake is just a few feet away from him yet he was so relaxed and not worried.  I did learn a few things from him where nature and wildlife are concerned.  It really is important to learn about the snakes in your area so that when you see one you know how to react.  We do have some aggressive snakes here in the south, we also have some harmless snakes.  Kind of like people.  Some are good, some are bad.  Know the difference. 

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August 23, 2020

I just had to take this photo of our French Doors on our lanai.

I thought they looked nice that day.

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July 29, 2020

Poor Little Skink Lost His Tail

I love the skink’s in our backyard.

  Their skin is so shiny and black that it sometimes looks blue. 

It was a few weeks ago and Gordon and I were out on our lanai with our dogs when I saw this beautiful skink near me where I was sitting.  I shooed him away because I knew our dogs might get him and I didn’t want that to happen.  Well, he came back to me and that is when Spooky, our killer Chihuahua/Rat Terrier mix went after him! 

Spooky grabbed his tail, he shed it, and then got away while the tail is still flopping around to distract the predator.  When we yelled, NO, to Spooky, she stopped but it is in her nature to be a serial killer.  She has so far killed a squirrel.  It has upset us as we like to view our property as a sanctuary for all animals yet we have a serial killer among us.

All we can do is to watch her closely when we are outside to hopefully prevent any more killings.

p.s.  The skink survived and it will grow another tail.  But, I had developed a nice peaceful relationship with our backyard lizards that are not afraid to approach me, and now I’m afraid they will be.

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June 25, 2020

Hanging Baskets

Green String of Pearls

Gordon and I have been meaning to hang some baskets on our lanai now for a year years.  Well, we finally got around to doing it.  We have a few more that we want to hang as well.  But, here is the start.

(Write Up By Gordon)

When I first screwed in the wrought iron hook, the screws pulled out from the weight of the hanging plant.  After some thought, I saw that the beams to our Lanai were connected together using this U-shaped metal section.  You can see a section of it held on with the five screws to the right of the hook.

I wrapped a three inch section of the beam connector around the wrought iron hook then screwed the connector to the beam securing the hook.  The strength of the side screws would allow for more weight to be applied to the hook and wouldn’t pull out so easily if at all.  I was able to obtain the U-shaped metal from my contractor who built our Lanai as well as the screws.

I think it looks great and was a simple fix that goes very well with the rest of our Lanai.

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Just Checking on my Garden

My Succulents are always great. 

So happy the Curcuma’s are coming in.

Checking on my Side Project

We’ve got Eggplant and Tomatoes Growing Here

We have to keep them covered underneath this tent otherwise the birds and squirrels would eat our tomatoes.

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June 10, 2020

Growing Asparagus

As much Asparagus that we eat, we actually contemplated growing some ourselves.  I have no idea whether or not this will be lucrative, but we wanted to try.  So, we ordered some to plant and here is where our project starts.

I purchased this planter a few years ago.  It’s been sitting in the garage all this time.  It has been during our Coronavirus lockdown that we have been utilizing what we had on hand and not to go out shopping.  We’ve been plowing through our garage and backyard construction area for pots and soil, and vegetable cages.

Here Gordon is using tacks to secure this black screen all around the wooden planter.

The screen will line the planter and help to prevent the soil from falling through, and allowing the water to flow through for good drainage.  I told Gordon to place it onto blocks because this side of our yard floods and I didn’t want it to sit in water when it rains.

Here Gordon is using thumb tacks all around the insides of the planter as he secures the lining.

Like so…….

Time to Add the Potting Soil

(Remember potting soil for pots.)

Adding the Potting Soil in the Planter

The Asparagus Crowns

It is recommended to position the soil into a pyramid and then drape the Asparagus Crowns over top.

Looks Beautiful!  Now it’s time to cover with potting mix.

I like the fact that we utilized some of our old landscaping border blocks for this project.

We most likely won’t see anything for a year. 

But it will be a year to look forward to.

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Although at this writing we have entered June, 2020, we are a bit behind on our usual seasonal gardening.  We usually start full force in March but because of the Coronavirus I wanted us to take things a bit slow in order to see where things were going for us as a nation and therefore that would tell me where things were going for us as a family. 

For a few months I just wanted us to focus on what we had going on in our backyard and property and not focus too much on new buying.  I was just afraid to spend the money at first.  I wanted us to just clean up and culture what we already had going on.  Then it was baby steps after that.  Buying a few new herbs here and there.  And as time went on I felt more comfortable in us buying larger pots and even some fruit trees, vegetable plants, more herbs…..

Audrey Hepburn once said, ” To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow.”

So, whether or not I personally believe in tomorrow, I believe that I still need to plant a garden.  First of all, it is very therapeutic.  It is helping us to cope with the trials and challenges of the political climate we live in right now whether or not our country’s problems are solved or not.

And second, we have some nice herbs, vegetables, and hopefully some fruit from our trees to enjoy.  After all, life is temporary.  We never know when our time is up but we can enjoy what time we have here until that time is over.

So, on that positive note…..  🙂  Here is what we have been up to.

We have been ordering plants from the internet to be delivered to our house.  One particular herb that we were interested in was this Longevity Herb.  It is supposed to grow quite a bit and we needed a trellis.  So, Gordon made one.  We have bamboo growing in our backyard so he just cut down a few chutes and created this great trellis.

TRELLIS HOW-TO

I, Gorodn, started by cutting some large bamboo chutes from the many we have growing in our backyard.  I wanted two with a curve or bend in them so they would overlap each other and still be straight.  I then cut a long bamboo chute which was about the same thickness, but was very straight.  I laid the two bent chutes on the concrete floor and found they crossed each other very well.  Then, I cut some cross bars for the trellis in lengths that would hang over the edge of the vertical bamboo chutes.   I found some thick bamboo skewers in our kitchen, a drill bit the same size, and some white craft glue to adhere all the pieces together.  Lay out your vertical chutes and find a good overlapping point which makes an “X”.  Use your drill bit to drill a hole at the center of the intersection of both chutes.  Place some glue on the end of the skewer and thread it through the first bamboo chute’s holes.  When you get to the point of going through the next bamboo chute, place some more glue on the skewer to hold the two pieces of bamboo together.  Push the skewer through the other bamboo chute, allowing it to extend out about 1/8 of an inch.  Using a pair of needle nose pliers, twist the end of the skewer to break it off leaving about 1/8 of an inch.  Looking at your “X” sort out what will be the top and bottom of your trellis.  Now, place your horizontal pieces on the “X” making sure you leave enough space at the bottom of the trellis to be placed into the dirt (See above picture).  Space out your other chutes on the trellis to a distance of your liking.  Using your drill, make more holes centered through both bamboo chutes and place a piece of unglued skewer through both bamboo chutes.  Doing this after each hole is made will keep the individual chutes in place as you drill new holes.  Once you have completed, start gluing the bamboo skewers the same way you did the first one.  Let the glue cure overnight then you are ready to use it.

Planted in our Herb Garden, our Longevity Herb and Gordon’s Trellis

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The Arrival of our Pomegranate Trees and our String of Pearl Plants

This was such an exciting delivery!

We decided that we wanted to really go ahead and fix up our backyard lanai.

In order to plant the Pomegranate Trees we ordered two large pots and lots of bags of potting mix. 

Remember, potting mix goes into pots. 

Because there needs to be good drainage in the pots, and we didn’t want all that soil leaking out of the bottom of the pots onto our lanai, Gordon had the idea to place towels in the bottom to catch that soil.  Fingers crossed that it will work.  🙂

Gordon placing plenty of soil into each pot.

Now he’s planting each tree.  This is very exciting!

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How I Love Plants In Trees

We had these series of air plants in our backyard that I wanted Gordon to make good use of.  So, I told him I wanted them in our big oak tree right outside our backdoor.  That way we can see them as we walk outside.  I just wanted something charming.

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Our Backyard Bells

Growing Spring Onions

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Black Widows in our Backyard

We have several of these, unfortunately.  Although we have never been bitten.

We found 3 in one day!

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Our one and only Gerber Daisy left.  And our Garlic Growing, right.

We’ve actually got a few experiments going on here.

Gloves, Seeds, Garden Tools

When you order herbs or plants online you really are at their mercy to send you something nice. 

Some were nice, other’s were not.

Here I am doing some plantings.  We may be in a pandemic but we can also eat healthy herbs in the meantime.

Photo right:  We have a backyard Armadillo that works his way underneath our fence creating holes that our dogs can then squeeze through.  Therefore, I always try and block them.

I told Gordon not to take my photo and just take my herb garden in back of me.

  He never listens!

Here I am planting tomatoes in with our eggplant. 

This year we feel that we want to designate this area for tomatoes and eggplant only.  We just need to order a few more for this project to be complete.

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The sun was doing down and it shown this spotlight on my Honeysuckle Vine. 

I loved it and photographed it.  🙂

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It’s just not spring without seeing all the lizards and their mating rituals.

  A beautiful courtship.  🙂

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Old Photos of our Backyard

I came across these photos that I took of our backyard when we moved into our house in 2006.  See the beautiful White Bird-of-Paradise tree?  It truly was magnificent.  We had two of them side by side.  You can even see a wooden fence in one of the shots.  It belongs to our neighbor in back of us.  We then installed our white vinyl fence several years ago.  I do miss the White Bird-of-Paradise trees but sadly they eventually tend to grow into something monstrous that then needs to be dealt with, as in removed.  Still, they were a part of our backyard history that I miss.

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We are very busy ordering plants and herbs for our backyard garden.

Veronica and Brian gave us this beautiful mini Plumeria Tree.

We replanted some of our Stick Cactus in various pots. 

It had become so enormous.

Every beautiful lanai needs a rustic tacky area.  This is ours!  Just as every kitchen needs a junk drawer.

Tacky, yet beautiful and functional.

YELLOW  🙂

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 Welcome to our Backyard

This is an Osprey

a.k.a. Fish Hawk

Although this guy is in our front yard, we get so many on our property throughout the years.  They are predatory birds.  We have seen them eat snakes, squirrels, rats, mice, lizards…..

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This particular guy landed in our backyard on one of our trees.

I was so pleased that he let me get within 5 feet of him to takes these photos before he flew away.

What a beautiful profile!

This is actually a funny story.

The black water hose that we have here in our backyard apparently looked like a snake to an Osprey so he pecked at it.  Causing our hose to leak badly and we had to buy another one.  Bad luck in owning black hoses here in Florida.

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Succulent’s and Parslane, an Edible Flowering Weed

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Lemon Grass

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Our Herb Garden Exiting into our Front Yard

From our Backyard

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Herbs are pretty easy to grow which is why we always have an Herb Garden.  You just need a sunny area on your property or even a windowsill.  They are healthy and delicious.  They are also cancer killers so try and incorporate as many as you can in your daily meals.  Sometimes I just pick a Basil Leaf or two just to snack on when I’m outside.  If you would like to take a closer look at our Herb Garden…….

Click Here For:  Julie’s New Herb Garden

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WASPS

One danger that we do have all around our property are WASPS!

You really must make sure that you have a wasp spray on hand at the ready for when you see a nest.  They are dangerous and can hurt you, your children, and your pets.  Also one nest can yield dozens of them!

Here are just a few I came across in our backyard that I had to get rid of.  I was trimming some of the other plants that I have growing in my herb garden when I disturbed a nest and they all flew out, 2 of them hitting me on my forehead but not stinging me.  I quickly got away while a few dozen were flying around me.  I learned that now I really should do a good inspection of anything that I am about to cut or trim so this same thing doesn’t happen again.

Can you See the Nest There?  Look Closely.  🙂

Look at How Many Have Yet to be Hatched!

I doused them really good with a Wasp Spray so that they cannot hatch.

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My Backyard Skink

I am very sad to say that this little special guy has died.  He lived in this post happily for months.  He was so cute in how he would greet me when I would go outside onto our lanai to water some plants.  He would look up at me, not afraid at all.  He loved this pot.  It was his home and I was o.k. with that.  I would say hello, and usually touch him and stroke him from his neck down to his back.  He didn’t seem to mind.  I miss his sweet face looking up at me.

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Bulbs I Had Forgotten About

(Always a nice surprise to come across some mystery bulb that I will then plant and see something beautiful come up in the spring and summer.)

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My Tacky Little Gardening Corner of our Lanai

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Our First Crop of Peaches From our Peach Tree

Wherever you see a blossom, you will see a peach.

The Blossoms are Beautiful

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Monk and Myself, when we first bought our new Peach Tree

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Goldilocks Ground Cover

Remember the story of Goldilocks and the 3 Bears?

This is Goldilocks.  It’s beautiful and it spreads out nicely in your garden, beautiful ground cover.

Our Alice in Wonderland Section of our Backyard

This is also our Pet Cemetery

Can You Spot the Ibis?

One of the many birds that come for a visit to our backyard.

I hope Monk and Sugar are Happy Here in Wonderland

Our Precious Pugs that have Passed On

To the left you see Garlic Growing in the Pot

Our Garden does attract plenty of Butterflies, though not that fake one on the right.

I always love the new growth on our Sago Palm every spring when it comes in.

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Snakes

(Florida Ring Neck)

In Florida we have several varieties of snakes.  50, actually.  But only 6 are considered venomous.  This is the most common that we see in our backyard.  It is a black snake with an orange ring around it’s neck.  It is not dangerous, but slightly venomous.  Although they aren’t aggressive, it is never a good idea to provoke any animal.  They do keep the bug and lizard population down.  Respect them, and they will respect you.

A good thing about snakes is that they aren’t territorial and do travel frequently.

Out on our Lanai

A tip on snake spotting for your own protection:  Snakes tend to align and elongate themselves beside a flat surface.  It makes them harder to see.  So be aware of your surroundings.  Also, when stepping out your door to the outside just take a peek at what may or may not be elongated along the step where you are about to place your foot.  🙂

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Tree Trimming

An Extremely Humid Day

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Trimming your trees are very important to getting rid of dead branches that could fall onto your house, or even you.  Especially here in Florida as we have lots of storms.  I hired an Arborist, a tree professional, that does what is best for the tree. 

I knew that I needed our trees trimmed but I didn’t want to just hire anyone.  Gordon was working overseas at the time and he helped me to do some research online in hiring a professional that would do what was best for our trees, and therefore us.

I have seen so many tree trimming services in our neighborhood that tend to trim a tree so far back as to please the HOA, Home Owner’s Association, and not necessarily do what is best for the tree, or the home owner.  That is not what I wanted here.  I wanted what was best for our trees.

This is our backyard.   The Arborist and his employee’s thoughtfully cut back all of our trees on our property and did what was best for the trees.  He also opened up our backyard to a bit more sunlight.  And even trimmed the skyline of our backyard tree’s from our rooftop.  It was as if he designed it to look like open umbrella’s when you look upward.  Especially the trees we have in our front yard.

They Did a Great Job!

It Was a Very Hot and Humid Day!

Sparky and Spooky Exploring

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An Arborist’s Equipment

We have hired lots of tree trimmer’s in our time of home ownership here.  This was our first in hiring an Arborist.  I have never seen such care going into tree trimming before.  That is what I wanted when I hired them.  Someone to actually care about our tree’s.

They did such a great job and really opened up our backyard to more sunlight.

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Independent Tree Service, INC.

(Next time we need our tree’s trimmed we will call them again.)

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Rocky

One thing that I told our Arborist who cut and trimmed our trees was that I didn’t want any branches cut off that had Squirrel Nest’s, or bird’s nest’s in them.  Granted, the squirrel’s are so annoying.  However, I recognize their right to exist and even thrive.

It was weeks later but this sweet little squirrel’s nest fell out of our tree one late afternoon.

The nest had apparently fell out of the tree and landed on our son, Brodie’s car.  Then bounced off of it and landed on the lawn.

Brodie got a box and put the baby squirrel and the nest inside of it and placed it on the ground hoping the mother would come for her baby.

She never did.  So, as it was getting dark we brought the baby squirrel inside our house.

Look at that Sweet Little Boy

I loved how Rocky would wrap his tail around my hand when I would hold him.

Brodie ran to the store and bought some Pedialite and I fed our little sweet Rocky through a syringe his dinner.  I had looked online about how to help a baby squirrel in need.  The article also advised that in order for the baby squirrel to urinate, that I had to massage his penis.  WHAT???

So, I did.  We will not speak of this ever again.

I decided that I didn’t want the squirrel nest in the house so we kept it out in the garage and I placed little rocky in some comfy wash clothes and soft towels and put him underneath my lamp light on my computer desk to keep him warm. 

I slept in the Lazy Boy Chair that night with Rocky on my lap in that bowl.  I also kept my hand inside the bowl with him in my palm so that he could feel my warm hand and hopefully be comforted.

The following morning I put Rocky back in his nest and placed him in the crook of my tree.  The tree that the nest had fallen out of.  I covered him up inside the nest and went inside.

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After about an hour I went back outside and peeked into the nest.  Rocky was gone.  I hoped that his mother had come for him.  I don’t think a predator got him because the nest would have been disturbed and torn to bits.  But the nest was left totally untouched.  I was pleased that he was gone.  But as I was walking away to go back inside this squirrel was on my roof yelling and screaming at me in squirrel.  🙁

Your Welcome!

Now, every time I see squirrel’s running around our backyard I always wonder if one of them isn’t Rocky.  🙂

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Hiring Landscapers

We had been looking at this overgrown mess for a few years.  We love the bamboo but the white bird of paradise tree had just become so much of an overgrown mess.  I decided I wanted it removed so I hired a landscaping business to come out and remove it.  It is a very bulbous plant with a huge ball underground.  It takes quite a bit of digging to remove it all.

Of course the Bamboo Needed Trimming

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Look at the Giant Bulbous

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My Swiss Cheese Vine

I did want to save this and not have it torn up and discarded.

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Bamboo and Magnolia Tree

I had this Magnolia Tree placed where the White Bird of Paradise was.

Now all Gordon has to do is to extend the retaining wall in front of the Magnolia Tree. 

He will.  In time.

Love the Lizard on the Sprinkler

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Now It’s Time for a New Front Yard

You can see what bad shape it’s in.

I couldn’t get a new front yard until I had all the trees trimmed on the property.  And then I had to do all the landscaping, bleaching, pressure washing, and now it’s time for the new front yard.

Sod-X came out and ripped up the front yard.

As you can see in the photo above.

They then came back the following afternoon and placed all new sod down.  I am trying to find a photo of our finished yard and when I do I will post it here.  🙂

Home ownership is a lot of work especially when you live in these HOA neighborhoods that have an association.

But in the photo above you can see how beautiful the Arborist did our trees.  It’s as if I just opened up an umbrella.

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Lettuce to Feed our Tadpoles,

in our many fountains,

and our birdbaths,

in our backyard.

Sometimes it is more important to bring these frogs into the world than for us to have lovely fountain’s.

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I love our Sticky Frogs!

Giant Toads

We do have a few of these guys in our backyard.  Their skin is poisonous.  If your dog were to lick the back of a toad like this they will die.  Which is why we watch our dogs very closely when we are outside.

As always, yard work is dirty work and I do tend to get quite dirty.  But, I wouldn’t pass it up for the world.  There is nothing more rewarding than cultivating the soil, growing your own herbs and even some vegetables, and planting lovely flowering plants in your yard for you to enjoy.  Create your own sanctuary where plants, flowers, and backyard animals are safe.  We all make up this eco-system that I want to help keep all of us healthy and living in unison with one another.

Julie Barefoot

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View My Other Herb Garden and Project Pages:

Julie’s Herb Garden

AND,

Julie’s New Herb Garden

AND,

Herb Cocktails

AND,

An Herb Garden Redo

AND,

Julie Garden Blogging

AND,

Julie’s Backyard Wildlife and Gardening Blogging

AND,

Julie’s Side Project

AND,

A Picnic In The Herb Garden

AND,

Julie’s Backyard Wildlife and Gardening Blogging Continues

AND,

Julie Barefoot In The Backyard

 

Be Sure To Get Your Toes Dirty!

Julie

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CURRENTLY AT THE BEACH

Why Don’t You Join Us?

Digging my Sandy Toes deep into the Sand

The best exfoliation you can have is to walk barefoot on the beach. 

Dig your feet into that thick sand and with each step your feet become smoother, and smoother.

This is one reason why I love Florida so very much!

Nature, the beaches, the sand, the sun….

See you at the beach!

Julie

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Our Imitation Crab Pasta Salad

(Recipe Down Below)

We took this delicious Pasta Crab Salad with us as our Picnic Food to the Beach.

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Apollo Beach, Florida

Apollo Beach is something of a ‘not too populated’ beach. 

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Gordon Setting Up Our Umbrella

Just Trying to Keep Cool!

It did feel so good to dig my toes back into the sand. 

It’s been a while since I’ve been to one of our many Florida beaches.

Apollo Beach is now more of a Nature Preserve

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Ready For Lunch

Our Pasta Imitation Crab Salad Lunch w/ Crackers, and our Veggie Balls

As hot as it has been, we didn’t want anything heavy.

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Solitaire, Anyone?

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DR. NO

I got the swimsuit for Gordon as a gift.  🙂

Could that be Dr. No’s Nuclear Powerplant Reactor?

(Actually, it is where the Manatee’s go in the winter months when the water is cold.)

Apollo Beach is a beautiful area to just enjoy nature. 

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Our Pasta Imitation Crab Salad

Gathering Our Ingredients

Ingredients:

14 oz.Crab Shaped Pasta – (Pastabilities – Let’s go Crabin’ Pasta)

1 Tbsp. Sea Salt

2 Quarts Water

3-4 Celery Stalks – Chopped to a small dice

2 Pkgs. Imitation Flake Crab Meat – (Crab Classics Brand)

1/2 Cup Sweet Yellow Pepper – diced

1/4 Cup Red Onion – diced

6 Water Chestnuts – chopped

~1 Cup Miracle Whip

1/4 Cup Aji Mirin – Sweet Cooking Rice Seasoning

1 Tbsp. Old Bay Seasoning

Garnish with Flat Leaf Parsley

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Add enough water to a large pot to cover the pasta. 

Then add your sea salt to the water to help flavor the pasta. 

Turn the heat to high, to boil the water.

Meanwhile, wash and slice your Celery first in long lengths…

Here, my water is boiling so I am adding the pasta, and boiling it as directed by the package instructions for 6 min.

Stir the pasta while it boils and turn the temperature down slightly.

Now slice the Celery into a small dice.

Pictured is the imitation Crab Meat I used. 

I like this brand and flake type the best. 

Break the flaked meat into smaller chunks as shown and place it into a medium sized bowl.

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Your pasta should be ready by now, so drain it into a colander and rinse it well with cold water to stop the cooking process.

Now, add your chopped Celery to the bowl.

Here I sliced and removed the seeds then chopped the Sweet Yellow Pepper into a dice.  

Add the Pepper to the bowl.

I then chopped a Red Onion into a small dice and added about 1/4 of it to the bowl.

Here you can see the nice array of colors in this salad.

I used Water Chestnuts to provide more crunch to the salad.

Chop the Water Chestnuts as shown and add them to the bowl.

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Here I am adding Miracle Whip to the salad.

  I like using this more than Mayonnaise as it provides a subtle sweetness to the salad.

Mix the ingredients by using a folding action… this is done by placing your spoon into the center of the ingredients, then pulling the ingredients up and over the center and repeat this action.

Now add your Aji Mirin and Old Bay Seasoning. 

The Aji Mirin is a ‘go to’ item for me in most all of my pasta salads as it too gives a subtle sweetness to the salad. 

Of course, Old Bay Seasoning is a must in most anything having to do with Crabs.

Fold all the ingredients together and taste the salad.

  Adjust the ingredients as needed, such as you may need a touch more Miracle Whip or Old Bay Seasoning. 

Taste the salad again and adjust as needed.

When done, add the salad to a large serving bowl and refrigerate until ready to serve.

Here we garnished the salad with some Flat Leaf Parsley.

  Enjoy!

 

 

 

 

 

 

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